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Jun 13, 2009 5:24 AM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
some advise from a girls pint if view.

i have got friendly with the bar made in my local and she is really pretty which i said to her last night and she saisd that she thinks i am such a lovely guy should i bring her a flower in work to cheer her up or would that be considered weird
Jun 13, 2009 5:26 AM CST need advise??
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Ciano: some advise from a girls pint if view.

i have got friendly with the bar made in my local and she is really pretty which i said to her last night and she saisd that she thinks i am such a lovely guy should i bring her a flower in work to cheer her up or would that be considered weird


well if a guy brought me a flower into work ild think that is lovelythumbs up
Jun 13, 2009 5:27 AM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
not being too forward is it?
Jun 13, 2009 5:30 AM CST need advise??
missspecial
missspecialmissspecialmayo, Mayo Ireland13 Threads 1 Polls 609 Posts
Why not ask her out first??
A flower may be a little embarrassing for her in
her work place..maybe a little OTT just yet.JMO.
Good luck.thumbs up
Jun 13, 2009 5:32 AM CST need advise??
scribbler83
scribbler83scribbler83Cork, Ireland34 Threads 1 Polls 1,068 Posts
I wouldn't, she'll just get the piss pulled out of her by customers and may resent you for it.
Jun 13, 2009 5:39 AM CST need advise??
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
I think its a lovely idea but dont make too big a deal of it and maybe give it to her when its quiet. Most women like these little gestures. hug
Jun 13, 2009 5:43 AM CST need advise??
Hey there's no right or wrong, go with whatever you think best

Just be a little discreet if you give her the flower, it will minimise any embarressment ...

I think its a lovely thought bouquet
Jun 13, 2009 5:46 AM CST need advise??
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
The flower is a lovely idea but I agree she might be embarrassed by it. And if she gets embarrassed and doesn't take it from you..you will be embarrassed too.

I would say ask her when her night off is and ask her out.
Jun 13, 2009 5:49 AM CST need advise??
hoilday
hoildayhoildayMullingar, Westmeath Ireland5 Threads 708 Posts
Ciano: some advise from a girls pint if view.

i have got friendly with the bar made in my local and she is really pretty which i said to her last night and she saisd that she thinks i am such a lovely guy should i bring her a flower in work to cheer her up or would that be considered weird



hi ask her out first and c how dat goes and aft ye go out on few dates then giv her a flower thumbs up
Jun 13, 2009 10:08 AM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
thanks for all ur advise think ill hold off on giving her one so
Jun 13, 2009 10:12 AM CST need advise??
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Ciano: thanks for all ur advise think ill hold off on giving her one so


I take it you mean a flower!!!

laugh laugh laugh
Jun 13, 2009 10:12 AM CST need advise??
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
you giving her at work,maybe be a tad embarrassing,,for both of ye,,but wot about sending her flowers,think that be a nice gesture,,then if shes delighted at them,take the next move,,and ask her outdancing
Jun 13, 2009 10:13 AM CST need advise??
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
wexlady41: I take it you mean a flower!!!
laugh hes must be a quick mover clodaghdoh laugh
Jun 13, 2009 10:17 AM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
ah ill just ask her out somtime dont want to rush things
Jun 13, 2009 3:33 PM CST need advise??
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
Ciano: ah ill just ask her out somtime dont want to rush things
Good plan....
Flowers can go either way! Being a bar maid too, she probably gets a lot of attention, so asking her out will clarify things either way for you! Then if is is a yes, you send flowers after the date to her home! That's definitely romance! Good luck....thumbs up
Jun 14, 2009 2:13 PM CST need advise??
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
Ciano: some advise from a girls pint if view.

i have got friendly with the bar made in my local and she is really pretty which i said to her last night and she saisd that she thinks i am such a lovely guy should i bring her a flower in work to cheer her up or would that be considered weird

thats a really nice thing to do for her.
Jun 14, 2009 2:17 PM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
but i think i screwed it up
Jun 14, 2009 2:27 PM CST need advise??
Phusion69
Phusion69Phusion69Dublin, Ireland50 Threads 9 Polls 894 Posts
Ciano: some advise from a girls pint if view.

i have got friendly with the bar made in my local and she is really pretty which i said to her last night and she saisd that she thinks i am such a lovely guy should i bring her a flower in work to cheer her up or would that be considered weird


it may be weird because she said you were a lovely guy kinda like been called a nice guy, flirt with her a lil next time and she how she responds, you do work with her right? because if you were drinking in there then well you know.
Jun 14, 2009 2:30 PM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
smacking the gob(kept kissing me)
Jun 14, 2009 2:51 PM CST need advise??
Ciano
CianoCianodublin, Dublin Ireland14 Threads 182 Posts
i offered my number she was proper all over me and wouldnt leave me alone
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