wooffyClose to Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium832 posts
markizamkd25: No need for excuses but seems im not person i want to be or im not person that others expect me to be....im self punishing person or just selfish i dont want to be reminded what ive done everyday...anyway i could be quet about it and noone will ever knew what happen.
Now one thing and probably the most important thing that you have not mentioned is was it planned or was it a mistake? Was it a rendevous or a moment of weakness. This makes all the difference in the world. This will also change the outcome in the end. An affair that is planned and goes on for a while will eventually end any relationship. A mistake will probably end most but if you get through to the other side (that is if you want to which it doesn't seem like to me) you can become stronger. You know from then on that you are prepared not to make the mistake again and the other half also knows that you really mean it too. If it was planned do not prolong the inevitable. You got what you wanted.
Our friends here have given you some wonderful advice, and you will feel bad and be burdened with guilt. Time will ease that.
I can't give you any advice that the good people have not already given you.
But I can offer you some hugs from over the pond. Do allow yourself some breathing space while you work out what you want to do and be kind to yourself.
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Now one thing and probably the most important thing that you have not mentioned is was it planned or was it a mistake? Was it a rendevous or a moment of weakness. This makes all the difference in the world. This will also change the outcome in the end. An affair that is planned and goes on for a while will eventually end any relationship. A mistake will probably end most but if you get through to the other side (that is if you want to which it doesn't seem like to me) you can become stronger. You know from then on that you are prepared not to make the mistake again and the other half also knows that you really mean it too.
If it was planned do not prolong the inevitable. You got what you wanted.