OK I NEED AN HONEST OPINION (94)
RugbyProp87New Rochelle, New York USA2 Threads 10 PostsDude, you did the right thing, screw everyone else!!!
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Attaboy Sarge! If someone can't deal with your having kids, screw them! Your having 6 kids and a 19 year relationship behind you shows that you're a man who knows how to make a life not just a weekend. Good for you, it's the hater's loss. Good luck.
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I don't understand why the fact that you and your ex had 6 kids together should be a problem for gals here.
If they're not interested, they just need to pass you by. Why you have 6 children is only the business of you & your ex.
My attitude is that folks can have as many kids as they can afford to raise.
If they're not interested, they just need to pass you by. Why you have 6 children is only the business of you & your ex.
My attitude is that folks can have as many kids as they can afford to raise.
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Its funny,when you're not honest they get pissed,when you are they didn't want to know,complete morons,if they aren't interested then they shoud skip your profile,but sending you horrid emails,is so crass and classless,you wouldn't want to be with those women anyway.
Good for you,honesty is always the best policy.
Good for you,honesty is always the best policy.
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people just make me hold my belly and laugh y'know!!! people take one persons comment, question or statement and turn it in to some political debate...
i know you have an opinion and unfortunatley opinions are like arseholes.....everybody has one!!!!
but i think unless your gonna answer the question rather than ranting on about the god damn c.f gasses his children may or may not be letting off???(EH?) maybe you shouldnt have answrd his question!!
by the way do you recycle properly? are you doing your "hand on heart" absolute best for the planet?
I reckon and this is my opinion...you were a middle child who felt that all the older kids and the younger kids got more than you!? and you resent it. And its turned you into the child hating, "eco warrior"(whatever) into you are today.
Best wishes for a fullfilled life.
oh and BTW honesty is most definately the best policy!!
i know you have an opinion and unfortunatley opinions are like arseholes.....everybody has one!!!!
but i think unless your gonna answer the question rather than ranting on about the god damn c.f gasses his children may or may not be letting off???(EH?) maybe you shouldnt have answrd his question!!
by the way do you recycle properly? are you doing your "hand on heart" absolute best for the planet?
I reckon and this is my opinion...you were a middle child who felt that all the older kids and the younger kids got more than you!? and you resent it. And its turned you into the child hating, "eco warrior"(whatever) into you are today.
Best wishes for a fullfilled life.
oh and BTW honesty is most definately the best policy!!
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sorry that was in reply for the INTHEWOODS person.
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Many people who come from where my relatives live have large families, have divorces, and remarry. The world is different than it used to be and the most important thing is the well-being of your family. Be honest and cautious and things will be fine. They are lucky to have you, so many children out there need parents who are as concerned as you, or just parents for that matter. You and your family are very lucky. Hold them close to your heart and best of luck 
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i see nothing wrong with your profile, i have 4 kids. but i understand where your coming from i get e-mails from guys who are not interested that i have kids, if they can't accept my kids then no deal. some people are idiots so i would just ignore them kind of people. good luck..
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So what are you looking for in a partner? 
I would date a man with 6 or more children. I think it could be lots of fun.
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Without reading all of the other posts here, I figure it never hurts to be honest. If people are giving you grief for the number of children you have or anything else - they must deem themselves to be awfully perfect. Must be nice to be in such a state of perfection that they can afford to throw stones at others.
Don't let them get you down. Remain true to yourself. And be honest, it is a quality that is sadly lacking in some.
Don't let them get you down. Remain true to yourself. And be honest, it is a quality that is sadly lacking in some.
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i think u were right to be honest about ur situation..at the end of the day they are a part of u and why should u deny them..if someone cant love u for who u are do u really want them anyway..i find ur honesty refreshing so let them have their opinions who cares..dont let it ruin your hopes of findin someone..keep it real and hold ur head up..
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when you are thinking about dating someone or you are with someone,should you not always be honest with them,no matter what it is.if you cannot be honest with them why are you with them,when you lie to them about one thing,they will wonder what else you are lying about.it is simeple to some people it will matter how many children you have,to some it will not matter how many children you have,you have to find the one for you.------ This thread is Archived ------
hey bro
if you get nasty emails just scratch them off your list and move on anyone sends mail like that are just pure muppets not worth the time thinking about
if you get nasty emails just scratch them off your list and move on anyone sends mail like that are just pure muppets not worth the time thinking about
sargentmcdog: I chose to be completely honest in my profile about having 6 kids. All i seem to be getting is mean E-mails bashing me for having 6 kids.
Well let me clarify, all 6 kids are from the same mother and marriage of 19 yrs of which the divorce will be final soon.
I thought the honesty would have been met with appreciation rather than opposition. I just didnt want any surprises thrown in at a later time that might be a deal breaker.
My question is this: Should I have left that part off or did I do the right thing by being honest up front?
Im not asking for someone to tell me what to do, I just want some honest opinions as to if being that honest was a good or a bad thing.
Thanks
Well let me clarify, all 6 kids are from the same mother and marriage of 19 yrs of which the divorce will be final soon.
I thought the honesty would have been met with appreciation rather than opposition. I just didnt want any surprises thrown in at a later time that might be a deal breaker.
My question is this: Should I have left that part off or did I do the right thing by being honest up front?
Im not asking for someone to tell me what to do, I just want some honest opinions as to if being that honest was a good or a bad thing.
Thanks
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I think you did the right thing. To me it's important to know something like that if you want to really get to know someone. Would those people that are emailing you prefer that just kind of spring it on them later?
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