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Jul 27, 2009 7:10 PM CST stuck up ladies
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.
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Jul 27, 2009 7:11 PM CST stuck up ladies
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
awww u missed me out crying
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Jul 27, 2009 7:11 PM CST stuck up ladies
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Do you use your own messages when you send flowers or the pre written CS ones?

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Jul 27, 2009 7:26 PM CST stuck up ladies
LadyRazorback
LadyRazorbackLadyRazorbackMorrilton, Arkansas USA5 Posts
In response to: man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.

Sorry to hear you are having issues. NO matter who the guy is, if I am interested or not, etc, I still send a "thank you". No matter what the situation, I will reply it's only right.
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Jul 27, 2009 7:36 PM CST stuck up ladies
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
when you send flowers tell me why conversing I don't send flowers I'm to shy
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Jul 27, 2009 7:36 PM CST stuck up ladies
Many are taken, many are not interested, many are writing with 5 allready, many dont have much time and Many men kinda scare them with their approach.....



I like to write , i looked at you r profile , i liked this and this, and -------- Heres the key------- If you would like to respond back, feel free to do so......


so here i am leaving it open, I am not demanding she write me..... then she feels mor comfortable having that choice....




NOT: I will be expecting to hear from you.... see the difference, she now feels as you are pushing her...


Hope this helps

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Jul 27, 2009 7:37 PM CST stuck up ladies
Woadan
WoadanWoadanPittsburg, Kansas USA6 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
I tend to agree and I have been on this site off and on for a while. It's a shame that basic manners are gone.
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Jul 27, 2009 7:39 PM CST stuck up ladies
HotrodLarrys: Many are taken, many are not interested, many are writing with 5 allready, many dont have much time and Many men kinda scare them with their approach.....
I like to write , i looked at you r profile , i liked this and this, and -------- Heres the key------- If you would like to respond back, feel free to do so...... so here i am leaving it open, I am not demanding she write me..... then she feels mor comfortable having that choice....

NOT: I will be expecting to hear from you.... see the difference, she now feels as you are pushing her... Hope this helps




OOopps, professor ALLMOST FORGOT!




You NEED a Face Too!dunno Its truethumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 27, 2009 7:42 PM CST stuck up ladies
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
missed u out what does that mean thank you for your reply to my thread wight back if youd lkie
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Jul 27, 2009 7:43 PM CST stuck up ladies
Woadan: I tend to agree and I have been on this site off and on for a while. It's a shame that basic manners are gone.



Thre is some truth, tho i have been here for almost a yr in the forum, and I have never seen either one of you Birds!


Get on here and assoicate with some of them a while make a few jokes with them , THEN SEND THE FLOWER,


OH uh, i was just think outloudrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Jul 27, 2009 7:47 PM CST stuck up ladies
bettyboop63: awww u missed me out





Your Badddd!roll eyes tongue
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Jul 27, 2009 7:49 PM CST stuck up ladies
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Sorry that your having such troubles on here. But for me I will not reply "usuall" to a message that has an email address. Or one that is just copy and pasted from their profile.

Hope you stick around the forums and meet some of these interesting people. wave
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Jul 27, 2009 7:52 PM CST stuck up ladies
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I personally don't believe the 'rules' of behavior apply when someone contacts you on the internet that you don't know. Replying to everyone just because they sent you a flower, ecard or email doesn't mean you have to send something in return. A no reply is an answer that they are not interested.
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Jul 27, 2009 7:56 PM CST stuck up ladies
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
tstone61: man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.


what do you say when you send them a flower???

Is it corny like the ones i get...

I will not tell a lie..i dont answer all mine back..but
if its from the heart then sure i do..but if its a stupid pick up line..nope
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Jul 27, 2009 8:12 PM CST stuck up ladies
kekei
kekeikekeikingston, Kingston Jamaica62 Threads 1 Polls 588 Posts
That is so true
HotrodLarrys: Many are taken, many are not interested, many are writing with 5 allready, many dont have much time and Many men kinda scare them with their approach.....
I like to write , i looked at you r profile , i liked this and this, and -------- Heres the key------- If you would like to respond back, feel free to do so...... so here i am leaving it open, I am not demanding she write me..... then she feels mor comfortable having that choice....

NOT: I will be expecting to hear from you.... see the difference, she now feels as you are pushing her... Hope this helps


That is so true, for me at least. You really don't always have time to respond to everyone and my God are some people scary. Don't take it personal. Besides there is one particular person that I had to block. I responded politely, wished him well but he would not stop. For some reason he always knew when I was on and would send me an IM. I would nicely say that I could not speak to him or was in communication with someone else and he would keep sending flowers and e-mails, once again, I said,"Good Luck with your search". At another time he sent an IM and I said that I really did not wish to waste his time as I was pursuing other communications and oh boy...SO yes. Sometimes, I just delete the flowers or the e-mail to save myself the stress, other times I send a flower back and wish the person good luck with their search or I may say thank you or something. The truth is that most times I just don't bother because being polite can spark alot of unwanted communication. Sorrycomfort
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Jul 27, 2009 8:24 PM CST stuck up ladies
tstone61: man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.



I don't respond to emails where the person sending it includes an email addy.But I don't mind if it's the kind of message which is already written cause I think the guy was to nervous to think of something to write on his own.I tend to make allowances for those.
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Jul 27, 2009 9:43 PM CST stuck up ladies
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
tstone61: man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.


well that's because women here on CS dont want flowers, messages or the promise of love and romance....


they want cold, hard cash.... the more the better !!!!


***ducking***

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Jul 27, 2009 9:47 PM CST stuck up ladies
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
tstone61: man it sure is rough around here i sent flowers to many women on this sight and only two opened them and when they did they cant even say thanx or no thax cant even give a guy a hi im new to this stuff so am i doing somthing wrong ? this sight also needs more than one chat maybe one for over 40.ha ha .tstone.


1st, you have no profile pic.... that's not good.

2nd, did you notice how many of the ladies you sent flowers to had been online within the past month? Very many of the women's profiles are effectively abandoned... if the person doesn't log in in over a month, they will probably never come back to log in again. This site, like so many others, never removes stale profiles. frustrated

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!") sad flower
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Jul 27, 2009 9:52 PM CST stuck up ladies
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
When u get a chance, put your profile picture up. it puts a face with the words. Some women may send you emails and flowers just because you caught their eyes. hug
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Jul 27, 2009 9:54 PM CST stuck up ladies
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Michael211_2000: 1st, you have no profile pic.... that's not good.

2nd, did you notice how many of the ladies you sent flowers to had been online within the past month? Very many of the women's profiles are effectively abandoned... if the person doesn't log in in over a month, they will probably never come back to log in again. This site, like so many others, never removes stale profiles.

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")


3rd even people with pics don't get replies i'm sure

4th you're assuming the people getting flowers have stale profiles

stop making excuses.

face it in the internet dating world it's easy to be interested in someone then after meeting hold out for someone just alittle bit better. the problem with that theory is most people don't find someone just alittle bit better. that's why you see or at least i do many of the "regulars" on several different dating sites hopelessly searching for someone they may never find.
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