Woadan Forum Posts (101)

RE: Disillusioned with finding love..

I agree with you communication seems to be the longest 4 letter word these days lol. I find women to be the same way though, I’m lucky to get 1 reply in 20 sent and I try very hard to be nice, polite and NOT weird but it doesn’t seem to help. I do hope you find a nice guy though I know it can be hard but keep at it! A good conversation is wonderful so don’t settle if you’re not going to get it…

RE: Would you ever ask someone to set you up with a possibe romantic partner?

"Ever" is forever and to say I would never do something seems a bit abnormal and unrealistic. I can think of situations where I might but then the odds of my ever being in one of them is a long shot, but still a shot. In general though I would most likely NOT ask someone I would just make it known I was single and looking and if THEY offered I might accept.

RE: If You Were Granted 1 Wish, You Would?

Easy one, I would wish for unlimited knowledge so that I could know anything I wanted instantly.

RE: Evolution vs Creation

I believe in both, simply put evolution is the mechanism of creation we just aren't finished "baking" yet...

RE: Is it just me or does it seem like most men try to rush online dating?

I understand what your getting at but has anyone anywhere dated enough men online to even be close to "most" of them to be able to give an honest answer?

RE: Women, would you or have you dated a chubby/fat guy?

LOL to funny thank you for the laugh!

RE: What Makes You Happy

A hot shower on a cold morning I think almost tops my list right after being head over heals in love!

Kansas really has people, honest!

Cool beans but I guess that means I have to share the state with you darn it oh well I'm sure it's big enough for the both of us lol! :-)

RE: Is the world imperfect in the eyes of God?

"perfection" does not exclude what we refer to as imperfection but from a creator standpoint I would take imperfection as a must. As you quite well pointed out that perfection would be boring but not only that it would make actual life impossible. Everything would be in balance and nothing would ever change (if it did perfection would be lost). Life is all about change so if I were to create something as messy as "life" real perfection would include things like one breast being slightly larger/smaller than the other which makes me love her all that much more for not being perfect. :-) Yes sometimes perfection can be quite messy...

Have you had any luck finding a mate/friend/etc in Kansas?

LOL now I know why I can't find any women, YOU took them all! :-)

Have you had any luck finding a mate/friend/etc in Kansas?

I have to wonder how people meet in Kansas, not being from here it seems really hard for some reason...

Kansas really has people, honest!

I just wish I wasen't the only one! lol

RE: im proud of the human race..!

Yes it is rather impressive that we've made it to 2016 despite how totally screwed up the human race is now in general. Reading the news is SO depressing these days...

RE: Dumping the relationship

LOL to funny, cruel but funny

RE: Are most women looking for a cyber relationship?

Yes in general most men are "technical" when asked a question it's in our nature. It would seem silly to me to ramble on and on about something unrelated to the question someone asked me and in my opinion rude to them. I respect people enough to try and give them straight and honest answers.

RE: Anybody here?

I know the feeling I looked up Kansas and the search returned "Kansas Not Found" ok I'm paraphrasing a bit but you get the idea lol. I did a search for any women in Kansas and found FIVE total. Now I understand why I can't meet women here! At any rate good luck!

RE: Are most women looking for a cyber relationship?

A relationship over the computer not to be confused with "cyber'ing" :-)

RE: Are most women looking for a cyber relationship?

I think that women (for the most part) don't really know what they want from a man they don't even know so therefor "cyber" relationships are a good place to start. Every person is different and illicit different responses from people so trying to work all that out in person (see first date) can be rather traumatic for a woman. Combine this with the general reality that the art of conversation, if not dead, is really "on the ropes" these days this can make for some rather uncomfortable first meetings. So I would have to say YES they are or at least should be :-)

RE: If money was no option would you get cosmetic surgery?

I think we all have some bit of us which we feel is to big or small etc. so sure if money was not an object why not get that spot removed or that annoying bit of fat that will never go away no matter how hard you try.

RE: How do you "Think"?

lol it's quite ok :-) I got a chuckle all the same! Heck if your going to bomb a test you might as well do it with FLAIR!

Do you think our country is heading in the right direction?

LOL very good!!

Do you think our country is heading in the right direction?

lol ok so I wasen't very specific but it's not meant to be a serious pole anyway, just for fun and venting!

How do you think...

People don't normally think about...well how they think. We all know men don't think like women and vis versa but WHY do you think like you do? Do you think that your outlook is totally female or male? If so why? Is it possible to think like neither one? Could some of our problems dealing with other people be in the way we think? When we talk to someone we kind of expect certain types of answers based on their gender but how does that make us feel when they answer differently? Ok there is my thought for the day :-)

RE: Would you leave your love for your children?

If who I was with made such an issue over my child that it was going to break us up, then clearly we weren't meant to be together anyway. Relationships come and go (sometimes) but your children will ALWAYS be your children.

RE: stuck up ladies

I tend to agree and I have been on this site off and on for a while. It's a shame that basic manners are gone.

RE: Why Can't I Find A Nice and Decent Guy?

Very good question. First please keep in mind that people don't like to "air their dirty laundry" to others especially if it makes them look bad. Most relationships likely are not as good as people make them out to be for various reasons. No one really wants to admit that their partner is driving them nuts and they can't bring themselves to DO anything about it simply because they are afraid to be alone (or whatever reason they have) so they put a good face on it and try to convince themselves and others it's all good. Lol don't get me wrong there ARE good relationships and we'd all love to find one. Second, as to why you feel like a third wheel is that when you're around other people who share a personal relationship you aren't part of their communication with each other when they are using shared knowledge and experience that you don't share. Kind of like they suddenly start to speak a foriegn language. We all fell like a third wheel when people we are with start to speak a language we don't understand. You are effectively being excluded from the conversation and the "group". It's only natural to feel like a third wheel and I try to let others know if they are doing it (politely of course) that we are out together as a group and that the personal issues between them don't belong there. The easiest way is to simply change the topic of conversation back to what you all have in common. I'm sorry this is so long but I thought you might like a "different" view of things. Oh yes, friends is the very best way to start ANY relationship, if you can't manage that then the rest is just a lie. I do hope this helps some

RE: WHAT ACHIEVEMENT ARE YOU PROUDEST OF?....

Heck this is an easy one. My Daughter of course :-) Not for my part but because she's really a great kid all on her own dispite all the hard times.

RE: Simple Words We Miss Hearing Because We're Single.....

daaamn! get over here.....

RE: who's right who's not

I'm "intelligent" to some and not so much to others :-)
I'm a savant at having weird things happen to and around me.
"innocent" hmmm I've heard this word somewhere..can't place it...
"right"? heck no, ask any woman! :-) Just kidding I'm still wrong I admit it..can I come in now?...please?....
"lover" hmm what was the question about innocent? :-)

RE: Obama for President..............fortes fortuna adiuvat!!!!!

Sigh I've read her papers and she hates this country and lord knows he's no fan of it. I'm sorry but if a person can't even respect our flag, they should not only NOT be our president but should be deported.

Many many men and women have died to keep that bit of cloth flying and anyone who hates it....well...

P.S. right on Hondo...