My heart can't stop pounding for him! ( Archived) (54)

Aug 4, 2009 3:23 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
OK. I will share this with you. I was dating to a married man for 4 years. We were living together like a family because of our job.
My mind knows there is no future, so I want to move on. I am back home and he is with his family. The pain is enourmous and the emptyness...I live in a silence, trying to heal my soul.
I can't believe I am so lost! The sadness took place in my life.
Don't judge me, please! Don't cry with me! Give me something to get my strength back.
Thank you!
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Aug 4, 2009 3:26 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
SassyGrandMa
SassyGrandMaSassyGrandMaSacramento, California USA2 Posts
Remember you want your own man, and not someone else's
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Aug 4, 2009 3:28 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Nobody has the right to judge you.

After four years in any relationship, it's time to take stock of you now and discover who you are deep inside. Take a look around you and find places that you like to go that feel good to you, and find hobbies that you enjoy. Look into yourself for a while, and heal. You need to do this before you can think of getting into another relationship, or you'll choose another that has no future because it's not based in emotional health.

Blessings on your journey. See where it takes you...it can be a lot of fun to discover yourself while you heal. hug bouquet
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Aug 4, 2009 3:33 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
..No,I won't Judge you .'For he who as not sinned,can cast the first stone'...... Look,the best advice I can give you...Learn from your mistakes,and move on with your Life......and we all made mistakes in the journey of life....but is secret is to learn from them...wish you the best..... thumbs up

J.Dgrin devil
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Aug 4, 2009 3:40 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
Guys! Thank you very much! I got tears in my eyes!
I wish I could sit with you at this moment and talk to you in real.
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Aug 4, 2009 3:43 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
venyov: Guys! Thank you very much! I got tears in my eyes!
I wish I could sit with you at this moment and talk to you in real.
hug We get pretty real here, Venyov. Welcome to CS forums. It's a good place to hang out, make friends, and heal...just don't forget to get out in real life around you during the process too.
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Aug 4, 2009 3:45 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
CzarAlan
CzarAlanCzarAlanIpanema, Rio de Janeiro Brazil3 Threads 1 Polls 39 Posts
I am going through hard times myself so I sympathise with you a lot.
Take some time off, Love hurts a lot...I know it
Evrybody feels the pain of Love sometimes in life, its hurts a lot! But time heals... time heals...
Go play the piano, learn a new language, sports, work extra hard, take some time for yourself.
Try not to get into a relationship too fast, you are not emotionally ready... This happened to me, and I am suffering. I broke of a marriage of 8 years and now, 1 month after, I am dating a 21 year old, and it was a stupid error, now Im in love but not ready for love.

So be Strong, give yourself time and some lovely man will appear when you are ready!!!

Kisses
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Aug 4, 2009 3:46 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
venyov: OK. I will share this with you. I was dating to a married man for 4 years. We were living together like a family because of our job.
My mind knows there is no future, so I want to move on. I am back home and he is with his family. The pain is enourmous and the emptyness...I live in a silence, trying to heal my soul.
I can't believe I am so lost! The sadness took place in my life.
Don't judge me, please! Don't cry with me! Give me something to get my strength back.
Thank you!


take it one day at a time an keep busy then u wont have time to dwell ...wave
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Aug 4, 2009 3:47 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
You're beautiful. You still have plenty of time to recover and find a new love.
Be careful with that tender heart on a webdating site.

bouquet
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Aug 4, 2009 3:54 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
Fem_40ishhhhhhh
Fem_40ishhhhhhhFem_40ishhhhhhhDublin, Ireland3 Threads 105 Posts
Go with the Emoctions u are feeling but dont let them bring u UNDER ,, Time is a great healer and i could say "get on with ur life" but that would sound harsh , Cry when u feel the need to and each day will pass and u will feel u can do s/thing and not cry but smile @the lovely times u had .God Bless u and no 1 had the right to Judge anyone here or in life

Femmy xxxxteddybear bouquet
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Aug 4, 2009 3:58 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
SassyGrandMa: Remember you want your own man, and not someone else's


To that tip hat
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Aug 4, 2009 3:59 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
You have mail. cool
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Aug 4, 2009 4:06 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
I hear you very well. I just don't get it why it has to be so painful?! This site is the only place where I can go. I work far away of my country and friends...and now, I supouse to be on vacation. The problem is I feel like a stranger. My lifestyle is
different. I know what are you saying. I wish to have a remote control and switch my heart off.
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Aug 4, 2009 4:11 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
Hey Buddy, you are here!
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Aug 4, 2009 4:13 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
Fem_40ishhhhhhh
Fem_40ishhhhhhhFem_40ishhhhhhhDublin, Ireland3 Threads 105 Posts
CzarAlan: I am going through hard times myself so I sympathise with you a lot.
Take some time off, Love hurts a lot...I know it
Evrybody feels the pain of Love sometimes in life, its hurts a lot! But time heals... time heals...
Go play the piano, learn a new language, sports, work extra hard, take some time for yourself.
Try not to get into a relationship too fast, you are not emotionally ready... This happened to me, and I am suffering. I broke of a marriage of 8 years and now, 1 month after, I am dating a 21 year old, and it was a stupid error, now Im in love but not ready for love.

So be Strong, give yourself time and some lovely man will appear when you are ready!!!

Kisses
What a nice guy thumbs up
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Aug 4, 2009 4:17 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
I didn't espect so many people to give me their support. Somebody said: If you want to forget anything you need to think about it untill you get used to it so much that you don't pay attention anymore.
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Aug 4, 2009 4:18 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
Buddy is a sweet heart!
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Aug 4, 2009 4:22 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov
venyovvenyovSofia, Sofia Province Bulgaria1 Threads 22 Posts
Thanks! You make me sighing with relieve.
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Aug 4, 2009 4:35 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
venyov: OK. I will share this with you. I was dating to a married man for 4 years. We were living together like a family because of our job.
My mind knows there is no future, so I want to move on. I am back home and he is with his family. The pain is enourmous and the emptyness...I live in a silence, trying to heal my soul.
I can't believe I am so lost! The sadness took place in my life.
Don't judge me, please! Don't cry with me! Give me something to get my strength back.
Thank you!


Koksi, hubava jenna! Time will heal all wounds and your soul. Just let it do it's work and move on to better thing's
hug teddybear bouquet wine
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Aug 4, 2009 4:35 PM CST My heart can't stop pounding for him!
venyov: I hear you very well. I just don't get it why it has to be so painful?! This site is the only place where I can go. I work far away of my country and friends...and now, I supouse to be on vacation. The problem is I feel like a stranger. My lifestyle is
different. I know what are you saying. I wish to have a remote control and switch my heart off.




When someone gives love with all of their heart, it tends to hurt so much worst than the one ony half pretending love.... I am of the first, I tend to give it my all, and someone else only giving half, It isnt fair, to ourselves, so this time i will wait , until it seems we can both Give, or i wont be happy, or settle for less..... tho it takes time, I will find one of truth, Hope you stay away, if he is just a heartbreaker, and give yourself to one that will Cherish you , not just say so, but does different.

Larryteddybear hug bouquet teddybear
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