After talking to this guy for a month he asks me to marry him. I have fallen in love with him and he has fallen for me I am just wondering is it strange for somone to fall in love with u even though they havent seen what u look like.
You fell in love with him and he fell in love with you. I find it strange that you find it strange that you both fell in love without seeing eachother.
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
Yes, it is highly unusual. Sounds like he, and you, have fallen in love with the idea of love and not the person. At least show him a photo of you so he knows, physically, whom he "has fallen in love with". That is only fair...........
In an ideal world it is the 'person' that we fall in love with absolutely!!... but if you havent met them.. I would hold the declarations of love and marriage proposals a bit closer to my heart...
Meet... and then make up ur mind.. alot of the ground work and ice breaking has been done in a very neutral way so it wouldn't be too unusual if things moved fast from that point onwards..
be careful though... some people are in love with being in love..
Aries01: In an ideal world it is the 'person' that we fall in love with absolutely!!... but if you havent met them.. I would hold the declarations of love and marriage proposals a bit closer to my heart...
Meet... and then make up ur mind.. alot of the ground work and ice breaking has been done in a very neutral way so it wouldn't be too unusual if things moved fast from that point onwards..
be careful though... some people are in love with being in love..
why you women have to talk in such difficult language?
lahela_01: After talking to this guy for a month he asks me to marry him. I have fallen in love with him and he has fallen for me I am just wondering is it strange for somone to fall in love with u even though they havent seen what u look like.
Around here....nothing is strange!!!I'm curious did you fall in love with him before or after you saw his picture?
Hey, i feel when we become grown we should know what is right or wrong for us. if you trust your judgement and believe u r in love than wonderful. i certainly can't tell you if you should or shouldn't love a man under any circumstances. Only you can make that call.
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