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Aug 4, 2009 6:46 PM CST marrage
lahela_01
lahela_01lahela_01Union, Ohio USA10 Threads 4 Polls 58 Posts
After talking to this guy for a month he asks me to marry him. I have fallen in love with him and he has fallen for me I am just wondering is it strange for somone to fall in love with u even though they havent seen what u look like.
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Aug 4, 2009 6:50 PM CST marrage
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
You fell in love with him and he fell in love with you. conversing I find it strange that you find it strange that you both fell in love without seeing eachother.
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Aug 4, 2009 6:52 PM CST marrage
Trealach
TrealachTrealachCork, Ireland1 Threads 137 Posts
Does he intend to marry you before he meets you?
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Aug 4, 2009 6:52 PM CST marrage
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
Yes, it is highly unusual. Sounds like he, and you, have fallen in love with the idea of love and not the person. At least show him a photo of you so he knows, physically, whom he "has fallen in love with". That is only fair...........
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Aug 4, 2009 6:53 PM CST marrage
lahela_01
lahela_01lahela_01Union, Ohio USA10 Threads 4 Polls 58 Posts
well he sent me a picture but i havent sent one yet
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Aug 4, 2009 6:53 PM CST marrage
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
sorry..i would never know because i have never been in 'love'..i have no idea what it is really as far as romance is concerneddunno
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Aug 4, 2009 6:53 PM CST marrage
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
In an ideal world it is the 'person' that we fall in love with absolutely!!... but if you havent met them.. I would hold the declarations of love and marriage proposals a bit closer to my heart...

Meet... and then make up ur mind.. alot of the ground work and ice breaking has been done in a very neutral way so it wouldn't be too unusual if things moved fast from that point onwards..

be careful though... some people are in love with being in love..
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Aug 4, 2009 6:53 PM CST marrage
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Well i think asking someone to marry them only talking for a month..yeh is a little to quick..

But i met my husband here on this site..and we fell in love with eachother before we met face to face..
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Aug 4, 2009 6:54 PM CST marrage
lahela_01
lahela_01lahela_01Union, Ohio USA10 Threads 4 Polls 58 Posts
well we plan to meet in feb it would be sooner but he cant get off work until next year
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Aug 4, 2009 6:56 PM CST marrage
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Aries01: In an ideal world it is the 'person' that we fall in love with absolutely!!... but if you havent met them.. I would hold the declarations of love and marriage proposals a bit closer to my heart...

Meet... and then make up ur mind.. alot of the ground work and ice breaking has been done in a very neutral way so it wouldn't be too unusual if things moved fast from that point onwards..

be careful though... some people are in love with being in love..


why you women have to talk in such difficult language?confused
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Aug 4, 2009 8:42 PM CST marrage
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
lahela_01: well he sent me a picture but i havent sent one yet


Is his picture like the picture that you have here? If so, it will be a perfect match.
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Aug 4, 2009 8:50 PM CST marrage
englishblueeyes
englishblueeyesenglishblueeyesSwindon, Wiltshire, England UK5 Threads 1 Polls 106 Posts
mnowsa: why you women have to talk in such difficult language?


To confuse you men of course!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wink wink wink
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Aug 4, 2009 8:51 PM CST marrage
Did you accept his proposal? There's no way I would agree to marry someone without meeting or getting to know them first.
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Aug 4, 2009 8:51 PM CST marrage
lookin4ubabe
lookin4ubabelookin4ubabeTacoma, Washington USA5 Threads 1,135 Posts
lahela_01: After talking to this guy for a month he asks me to marry him. I have fallen in love with him and he has fallen for me I am just wondering is it strange for somone to fall in love with u even though they havent seen what u look like.



Around here....nothing is strange!!!I'm curious did you fall in love with him before or after you saw his picture?
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Aug 4, 2009 8:54 PM CST marrage
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
englishblueeyes: To confuse you men of course!!!


But why! isn't enough for you women to know that men can be more stupid than a donkey!!doh
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Aug 4, 2009 9:00 PM CST marrage
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
Hey, i feel when we become grown we should know what is right or wrong for us. if you trust your judgement and believe u r in love than wonderful. i certainly can't tell you if you should or shouldn't love a man under any circumstances. Only you can make that call.angel
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Aug 4, 2009 9:03 PM CST marrage
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
gosh..i wish one woman would also love me and marry without looking seeing me/my ugly pictureangel
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Aug 4, 2009 9:04 PM CST marrage
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Am I the only one that thinks this is really weird?
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Aug 4, 2009 9:06 PM CST marrage
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
mnowsa: gosh..i wish one woman would also love me and marry without looking seeing me/my ugly picture
u r too humble. u know u got it going on!wink hug
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Aug 4, 2009 9:09 PM CST marrage
Big_John: Am I the only one that thinks this is really weird?



I don't know if I'd consider it weird.She did say that he sent her his picture and that they were going to meet I think in Feb.

Like I posted before I wouldn't marry someone I never met and got to know but to each their own.
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