He kissed or hugged me only when he wanted to make love with me. (24)
i am sure many men in the US will just looooooooooooooooooove to kiss the hell out of you
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mnowsa: i am sure many men in the US will just looooooooooooooooooove to kiss the hell out of you
and they will be all "pure" kisses before they get into your pants.
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You aren't picky at all.
Showing affection is something human need, in my opinion, we are social creatures and we thrive on close interactions with others.
Your ex was wrong, it does happen outside of the movies.
Your wishes are valid.
Showing affection is something human need, in my opinion, we are social creatures and we thrive on close interactions with others.
Your ex was wrong, it does happen outside of the movies.
Your wishes are valid.
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Raven0: You aren't picky at all.
Showing affection is something human need, in my opinion, we are social creatures and we thrive on close interactions with others.
Your ex was wrong, it does happen outside of the movies.
Your wishes are valid.
]Showing affection is something human need, in my opinion, we are social creatures and we thrive on close interactions with others.
Your ex was wrong, it does happen outside of the movies.
Your wishes are valid.
Thanks for your explanation so much.
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mnowsa: and they will be all "pure" kisses before they get into your pants.
You should go to the hell...prison or other bad places.
I think it's time for me to sharpen my Ginsu knife!!!
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Amenda: I was molded by Chinese traditional education into a very shy woman but now I talked about this kind of topic in the forum...wowwwwww
What's wrong with me?? Anyway, here is a western forum and I should do as Roman's do in Roma, Plus, I'm using English instead of my native language
That's true, my exhusband never kissed or hugged me unless he wanted to make love. I hated this very very much and asked him why, he answered like this: How can I stop that when kissing you or hugging you? you are so charming like a fox... I said you see those western man in their movies, they kiss and hug without making love...He answered: that's movie, silly girl..
Is that true? I really don't know if other men do like my ex.
Our Chinese parents especially my parents generation dislike to kiss or hug their kids. I long for kiss and hug soooo bad since I was a little girl...I've been lack of that for so many years. I long for pure kiss or hug without any purpose!!I wish a warm embrace can hold me when I am down, I wish a pair of strong arms can hold me at dark night...
Sometimes I also wondered and lost myself about this kind of thing: If I am too picky????????
What's wrong with me?? Anyway, here is a western forum and I should do as Roman's do in Roma, Plus, I'm using English instead of my native language
That's true, my exhusband never kissed or hugged me unless he wanted to make love. I hated this very very much and asked him why, he answered like this: How can I stop that when kissing you or hugging you? you are so charming like a fox... I said you see those western man in their movies, they kiss and hug without making love...He answered: that's movie, silly girl..
Is that true? I really don't know if other men do like my ex.
Our Chinese parents especially my parents generation dislike to kiss or hug their kids. I long for kiss and hug soooo bad since I was a little girl...I've been lack of that for so many years. I long for pure kiss or hug without any purpose!!I wish a warm embrace can hold me when I am down, I wish a pair of strong arms can hold me at dark night...
Sometimes I also wondered and lost myself about this kind of thing: If I am too picky????????
I am South American and in our culture everyone hugs and kisses, even the men. I hug and kiss my daughters all the time, every day!!
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Amenda: You should go to the hell...prison or other bad places.
I think it's time for me to sharpen my Ginsu knife!!!
I think it's time for me to sharpen my Ginsu knife!!!
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rubendario: I am South American and in our culture everyone hugs and kisses, even the men. I hug and kiss my daughters all the time, every day!!
Oh, Me too, I also do like you to my daughter. that must be good to them! They will feel happy, comfortable and confidence...
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Amenda: Oh, Me too, I also do like you to my daughter. that must be good to them! They will feel happy, comfortable and confidence...
Physical affection is very important, sometimes more than the words!!
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rubendario: Physical affection is very important, sometimes more than the words!!
Exactly, I hope at least more and more Chinese parents know this as early as possible.
Our Chinese tradition don't like that. With the culture mixed with western country, things get better and better...
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I never could figure that out myself why Asians don't show affections to their family or loved ones that much. I was friends with one Asian female once and she mentioned it was not custom to show affection very much over there. Goodness, no wonder they like Europeans and Americans since showing affection towards family or even a mate is a common every day thing.
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pastortim: I never could figure that out myself why Asians don't show affections to their family or loved ones that much. I was friends with one Asian female once and she mentioned it was not custom to show affection very much over there. Goodness, no wonder they like Europeans and Americans since showing affection towards family or even a mate is a common every day thing.
Yes, I read that in a magazine a long time ago, Chinese people are too reserved, they dig their love in their deep heart. I really can't stand that. Even soemtime they say they dislike you but in fact they like you very much.
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I remember when I was a little girl. My mother always said I'm an ugly girl. Even when in fron of guests. so I believed that I' m really very ugly. But when I grew up into a young lady. I was told I am beautiful.
That day, I asked mum: mum, I'm really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sort, in many girls, you are the most pretty one and smart one....
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these in that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many dayssss.
you see this is typical Chinese parents. they are MODEST!
They are not usde to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
That day, I asked mum: mum, I'm really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sort, in many girls, you are the most pretty one and smart one....
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these in that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many dayssss.
you see this is typical Chinese parents. they are MODEST!
They are not usde to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
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Sorry, I made so many mistakes in the last post, here is the amendment.
I remembered when I was a little girl. My mother always said I was an ugly girl. Even when in front of guests. so I believed that I was really very ugly. But when I grew up into a young lady. I was told I am beautiful.
That day,When I chatted with mum I asked mum: mum, I was really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sorts, you were the most pretty one and smart one among many girls...
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these at that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many years.
You see this is typical Chinese parents, they are too MODEST!
They are not used to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
I remembered when I was a little girl. My mother always said I was an ugly girl. Even when in front of guests. so I believed that I was really very ugly. But when I grew up into a young lady. I was told I am beautiful.
That day,When I chatted with mum I asked mum: mum, I was really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sorts, you were the most pretty one and smart one among many girls...
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these at that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many years.
You see this is typical Chinese parents, they are too MODEST!
They are not used to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
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Amenda: Sorry, I made so many mistakes in the last post, here is the amendment.
I remembered when I was a little girl. My mother always said I was an ugly girl. Even when in front of guests. so I believed that I was really very ugly. But when I grew up into a young lady. I was told I am beautiful.
That day,When I chatted with mum I asked mum: mum, I was really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sorts, you were the most pretty one and smart one among many girls...
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these at that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many years.
You see this is typical Chinese parents, they are too MODEST!
They are not used to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
I remembered when I was a little girl. My mother always said I was an ugly girl. Even when in front of guests. so I believed that I was really very ugly. But when I grew up into a young lady. I was told I am beautiful.
That day,When I chatted with mum I asked mum: mum, I was really very very ugly when I was a young little girl. My mum 's answer gave me a big shock:
No no no, nothing of the sorts, you were the most pretty one and smart one among many girls...
My eyes were full of tears when I heard of this words:
Mum why didn't you tell me all these at that time. I used to believe I'm an ugly girl and that made me less of confidence for so many years.
You see this is typical Chinese parents, they are too MODEST!
They are not used to praise their kids by themselves. But like others to praise their kids!!!
you did just fine, amenda!
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Of course you're not picky. Everybody needs to be held and kissed and have it mean something other than trying to get laid. You have to have passion in any relationship to make it work. Without passion you have nothing. It's just that we are a different culture than you.
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i thought kissing and hugging was part of love,they are ways of showing someone you love them.there is nothing wrong with hugging someone and telling them how you feel about them,you cannot take it for granted that they know how you feel about them,you have to show them and tell them every chance you get,for sometimes there is no tomorrow and sometimes you will regret never telling someone how you feel about them,but yet it is never too late to tell someone how you feel about them,until there is no more tomorrows 
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Thank you for sharing your stories Amenda...I wish you a life time of hugs and happiness!!!
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Not me if you realy care about someone you want to be close to them to hug them ,holding hands , kissing just because it feels so good to be close . to bring them flowers for no reason just to see them smile .
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What's wrong with me??
That's true, my exhusband never kissed or hugged me unless he wanted to make love. I hated this very very much and asked him why, he answered like this: How can I stop that when kissing you or hugging you? you are so charming like a fox... I said you see those western man in their movies, they kiss and hug without making love...He answered: that's movie, silly girl..
Is that true? I really don't know if other men do like my ex.
Our Chinese parents especially my parents generation dislike to kiss or hug their kids. I long for kiss and hug soooo bad since I was a little girl...I've been lack of that for so many years. I long for pure kiss or hug without any purpose!!I wish a warm embrace can hold me when I am down, I wish a pair of strong arms can hold me at dark night...
Sometimes I also wondered and lost myself about this kind of thing: If I am too picky????????