jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
I hadn't seen or heard from my ex wife for 13 years at the time. I didn't even know if she were dead or alive !
I ran into her right here on St.Thomas one afternoon. It was pretty cool. I took her out to dinner....and I paid. We have been friends ever sense. Small world eh ?
I found my first love on FB,we really loved eachother,more like friends because we were kids.I asked this because i was wondering do i feel this way or is common feeling wich seems it is So he does remember me as good memory that kinda makes me feel good
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
My very first love ever was one of my patients. Yes, I was a doctor at age 6 and did regular examinations for the neighborhood girls. I won't mention her name, but if I were to see her again I think she would probably be due for another exam.
Our first of most anything seems to stand out in our minds. It was new and a significant transition in our growth. If you still care about him, then reach out. Just be respectful of the fact that he is in a different place in his life and may be involved with someone else. Just say that you have been thinking about some special memories that the two of you shared and let him know that those moments meant a lot to you and you wish him happiness. Even if he doesn't contact you, due to present issues in his life or lack of interest, it will feel good to him to know that he left a positive impact on you, and you will have done your good deed for the day by bringing a smile to his face. Don't push it if he doesn't respond and don't rush it if he does.
caring1: Our first of most anything seems to stand out in our minds. It was new and a significant transition in our growth. If you still care about him, then reach out. Just be respectful of the fact that he is in a different place in his life and may be involved with someone else. Just say that you have been thinking about some special memories that the two of you shared and let him know that those moments meant a lot to you and you wish him happiness. Even if he doesn't contact you, due to present issues in his life or lack of interest, it will feel good to him to know that he left a positive impact on you, and you will have done your good deed for the day by bringing a smile to his face. Don't push it if he doesn't respond and don't rush it if he does.
He is married.I like him as friend nothing else.We chat.He helped me in a really hard period of my life but he doesent really know that,im waiting right time to thank him.
In passing, in your conversations, just take the time to thank him for being there for you or opening your eyes or sharing moments that will always be special for you. As long as you let him know that you truly want him to be happy, and have no desire to complicate his marriage, he'll be glad to hear these words from you. He may even share that you were special to him, also.
caring1: In passing, in your conversations, just take the time to thank him for being there for you or opening your eyes or sharing moments that will always be special for you. As long as you let him know that you truly want him to be happy, and have no desire to complicate his marriage, he'll be glad to hear these words from you. He may even share that you were special to him, also.
I think he knows that but not sure yet thats why i havent said anything yet,maybe never will but i would like him to know that he really had special part in my life and i still respect that even after 15 years.
the girl i fell in love with in third grade were alwaays together till the forth grade her family moved away on earthday,i never got to say good bye and ended up coming back half wa through the sixth grade she was not the same as when she left. i sad to say i still have a place for her in my heart . i have been asked if id take her back and if anyone else wants to know the answer is no
markizamkd25: I think he knows that but not sure yet thats why i havent said anything yet,maybe never will but i would like him to know that he really had special part in my life and i still respect that even after 15 years.
How about just giving him a card that says "Thanks for being special."
jeepers: My very first love ever was one of my patients. Yes, I was a doctor at age 6 and did regular examinations for the neighborhood girls. I won't mention her name, but if I were to see her again I think she would probably be due for another exam.
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