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caspatchgalena, Missouri USA83 Threads 1 Polls 3,832 Postsafter a 6 month ldr it came to an end with out warning. i do not have bad feelings for her but she has lost my respect in the way it was handled. she posted it on forums for me to see, plus she went on to tell everyone she had a man in her bed. this leads me to think she was having more than one ldr at the same time. a few days before the thread i got an e-mail saying how she missed me and loved me. we talked on the phone e-mailed and were planning on meeting. i sent her an e-mail ( witch she never opened) after her posting and explained i was not mad as you cannot make someone love you but i should have been informed privately not in forums. i still have strong feelings for her as i cannot turn off love like a switch. i wished her well and told her he should treat her as she deserves to be treated. so people be honest in a relationship, don't be afraid to be open to some one you are involved with it hurts more being deceived than knowing the truth. i only posted this as she will not read my mail and i do want her to know i wish her the best.
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you can have love that hurts on line as much as in real life
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NEXT!
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So sorry 
You are such a lovely, lovely man
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
You are such a lovely, lovely manHow the heck do we really trust anyone here?
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It is hard,isn't it?Only she can answer these
questions.But you know what,you're love is
worthy and,I'm damned certain that you'll find
someone perfect for you,in time.Hugs Sweetie.
questions.But you know what,you're love is
worthy and,I'm damned certain that you'll find
someone perfect for you,in time.Hugs Sweetie.
In response to: after a 6 month ldr it came to an end with out warning. i do not have bad feelings for her but she has lost my respect in the way it was handled. she posted it on forums for me to see, plus she went on to tell everyone she had a man in her bed. this leads me to think she was having more than one ldr at the same time. a few days before the thread i got an e-mail saying how she missed me and loved me. we talked on the phone e-mailed and were planning on meeting. i sent her an e-mail ( witch she never opened) after her posting and explained i was not mad as you cannot make someone love you but i should have been informed privately not in forums. i still have strong feelings for her as i cannot turn off love like a switch. i wished her well and told her he should treat her as she deserves to be treated. so people be honest in a relationship, don't be afraid to be open to some one you are involved with it hurts more being deceived than knowing the truth. i only posted this as she will not read my mail and i do want her to know i wish her the best.
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SummerUK: So sorry You are such a lovely, lovely man
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
People far away from eachother have a thingy, not a relationship. Oh good old values
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SummerUK: So sorry You are such a lovely, lovely man
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
thank you summer, you just can't let life get you down and look for the good in people, i don't believe she did it intentionally and i can give her benefit of the doubt
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SummerUK:
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
Trust... the main problem with internet dating.
and sometimes in the real life.
Take Care Caspatch
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WhovianGeneva: Trust... the main problem with internet dating.
and sometimes in the real life.Take Care Caspatch
and sometimes in the real life.Take Care Caspatch
thanks bud, i will
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caspatch: thank you summer, you just can't let life get you down and look for the good in people, i don't believe she did it intentionally and i can give her benefit of the doubt
Well that just confirms what a good man you are because many wouldn't forgive.
It gets increasingly difficult the longer you stay on here to be able to trust completely.
You try and be positive but then you hear so many bad things that you can't help but have doubts sometimes.
I try and trust first but recently it doesn't seem to take much to send the red flags up
Why is that???
Anyway you are sweet and have a lot of integrity so I'm convinced it will happen for you even if you don't feel like it right now
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SummerUK: So sorry You are such a lovely, lovely man
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
How the heck do we really trust anyone here?
I trust me!
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caspatch: you can have love that hurts on line as much as in real life
I'm not trying to belittle what you may have felt but how do you know it was love??? How can you love someone you've never met?
I understand that sharing mail and stories and a few laugh warms you up toward each other but LOVE?
At any rate, I hope that you'll see what I mean when your feelings mend and realize that internet dating doesn't really happen until you MEET someone. Until then you could call it.....?? I don't know, a thingy, as the other poster said? LOL
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RobertC2: I trust me!
You constantly disappoint yourself...according to your recent threads
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caspatch: thank you summer, you just can't let life get you down and look for the good in people, i don't believe she did it intentionally and i can give her benefit of the doubt
I don't know you, but you sound like a good man.
I wish you luck for the future and I hope you never lose your ability to trust another person until proved wrong.
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RobertC2: I trust me!
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cristina: People far away from eachother have a thingy, not a relationship. Oh good old values
Hey Chris
I must have missed that lolA thingy??? Hmmmmm! now you could be right
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cristina: You constantly disappoint yourself...according to your recent threads
Maybe........ but I know that my last relationship was 100% trustworthy from both sides and that nobody else was involved.
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Sorry you have been hurt, but it is the internet think its important to keep a grip on reality.
On saying that, i think using the forums to display personal stuff is wrong
On saying that, i think using the forums to display personal stuff is wrong
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SummerUK: Well that just confirms what a good man you are because many wouldn't forgive.
It gets increasingly difficult the longer you stay on here to be able to trust completely.
You try and be positive but then you hear so many bad things that you can't help but have doubts sometimes.
I try and trust first but recently it doesn't seem to take much to send the red flags up
Why is that??? Anyway you are sweet and have a lot of integrity so I'm convinced it will happen for you even if you don't feel like it right now
It gets increasingly difficult the longer you stay on here to be able to trust completely.
You try and be positive but then you hear so many bad things that you can't help but have doubts sometimes.
I try and trust first but recently it doesn't seem to take much to send the red flags up
Why is that??? Anyway you are sweet and have a lot of integrity so I'm convinced it will happen for you even if you don't feel like it right now
thanks again, but i learned you can't make it happen if the other doesn't feel it, do i hurt? yes but time heals all wounds.. getting hateful proves nothing, it just helps create mistrust, all you can do is have a positive attitude and move on.. i have others who have shown an interest but because of the situation i was in i passed them by trying to be true to my heart, the right one is out there somewhere
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SummerUK: Hey Chris I must have missed that lolA thingy??? Hmmmmm! now you could be right
I never had a relationship with someone I never met. Now, we could live apart for a period of time due to professional reasons.
Hi Summer
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