Seeking the unattainable ( Archived) (171)

Aug 24, 2009 8:22 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.wine
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Aug 24, 2009 8:24 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Girl...you must have read my mind. I was thinking about this very thing today..confused
Very good post. cool
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Aug 24, 2009 8:29 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
What can I say great Island minds think alike.laugh
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Aug 24, 2009 8:30 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
tainogirl: What can I say great Island minds think alike.
hug You bet. cool
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Aug 24, 2009 8:32 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
kratos
kratoskratospoint fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago3 Threads 206 Posts
tainogirl: Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.
u cyah answer yuh phone, any yr boy doh have that problem.
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Aug 24, 2009 8:32 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
Excellent post.thumbs up
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Aug 24, 2009 8:59 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
hi, so have you noticed me yet... or are you doomed to remain miss leftinthedark?

can't go past those island girls yeah tainogirl my heart beats for you too babe kiss

here i am sad flower gift
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Aug 24, 2009 9:05 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
giftmagic: hi, so have you noticed me yet... or are you doomed to remain miss leftinthedark?

can't go past those island girls yeah tainogirl my heart beats for you too babe

here i am


Ooookay then. Now are you on your way back from Miss Bombshell?tongue laugh
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Aug 24, 2009 9:06 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
tainogirl: Ooookay then. Now are you on your way back from Miss Bombshell?


heart wings dancing cheering applause teddybear
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Aug 24, 2009 9:09 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
hehe oops i thought you were the next madame bs??

actually i meet her again about every second day in my email. nobody seems to get as many scammers as me.

and love y sparkZ lady

wink blushing
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Aug 24, 2009 9:11 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
I'm sorry but I only stop for cricketerssnooty talk to hand tongue
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Aug 24, 2009 9:12 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
In response to: Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.


ahem, just to let you know, i don't go for unattainable, nor do i complain about being bypasse. I am all happy in my tiny world. Like i always say, i may not be much but i am all i gotdancing grin
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Aug 24, 2009 9:15 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mnowsa: ahem, just to let you know, i don't go for unattainable, nor do i complain about being bypasse. I am all happy in my tiny world. Like i always say, i may not be much but i am all i got


But i have a feeling that soon a nice lady is going to like me a lot..i mean a looooooooooooooooootgrin
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Aug 24, 2009 9:15 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
ohh...? those unnattainable goals agen... yeah, of course...

i shoulda nOnE! mumbling moping

of course, they are all married y realiZe, don't y tainogirl?
comfort
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Aug 24, 2009 9:18 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
mnowsa: But i have a feeling that soon a nice lady is going to like me a lot..i mean a loooooooooooooooooot


mnowsa hi and i've been feeling that too...

for about 30 years now... dunno moping
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Aug 24, 2009 9:23 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
giftmagic: mnowsa hi and i've been feeling that too...

for about 30 years now...


well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see. cheers
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Aug 24, 2009 9:23 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
giftmagic: ohh...? those unnattainable goals agen... yeah, of course...

i shoulda nOnE!

of course, they are all married y realiZe, don't y tainogirl?


hey stop trying to kill my unattainable goal.scold laugh
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Aug 24, 2009 9:25 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
mnowsa: well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see.


In other words, try to fit YOURSELF into the schema of things instead of expecting others to fit into your schema of things.dancing
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Aug 24, 2009 9:27 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
tainogirl: hey stop trying to kill my unattainable goal.


luck with y thread. plenty seem to think yr attainable now yeah?

hehe watch em come and come in droves applause banana
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Aug 24, 2009 9:31 PM CST Seeking the unattainable
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
mnowsa: well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see.


beer thanx for the advice but actually i get on rather well with the ones who do attract me first up and i have to say most of em are island girlZ

err... howm i doin tainogirl??

kiss lips thumbs up teddybear
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