tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.
kratospoint fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago206 posts
tainogirl: Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.
u cyah answer yuh phone, any yr boy doh have that problem.
In response to: Do people sometimes go after what they cannot have in online dating? How many times have we seen men complain that they can't find a 'nice' woman, yet would walk right by a 'nice' woman on their way to the bombshell. The same bombshell popular girl that tons of other men are courting online,hoping she will notice them in the crowd. When a woman can pick, choose and refuse she's usually going to go for what she considers the pick of the litter. How many men would have bypassed an honest, decent woman - only to be shot down and left bitter. But this goes both ways, many women wait for some man to choose them and when Mr. Hotstuff, popular guy does not ring their bell they get upset and complain that all the good men are gone, this while ignoring many decent men along the way that might have shown interest. How many times on the way to what we think we want do we bypass the exact thing we really need.
ahem, just to let you know, i don't go for unattainable, nor do i complain about being bypasse. I am all happy in my tiny world. Like i always say, i may not be much but i am all i got
mnowsa: ahem, just to let you know, i don't go for unattainable, nor do i complain about being bypasse. I am all happy in my tiny world. Like i always say, i may not be much but i am all i got
But i have a feeling that soon a nice lady is going to like me a lot..i mean a loooooooooooooooooot
giftmagic: mnowsa hi and i've been feeling that too...
for about 30 years now...
well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see.
mnowsa: well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see.
In other words, try to fit YOURSELF into the schema of things instead of expecting others to fit into your schema of things.
mnowsa: well, in that case, i would suggest (if i may) that you go for those ladies that you wouldn't have otherwise dated...i hope you understand what i am trying to say. In other words, pls go for those ladies who wouldn't attract you the first time you see, or even the second time you see.
thanx for the advice but actually i get on rather well with the ones who do attract me first up and i have to say most of em are island girlZ
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