Nice post. I feel that I've changed on a spiritual level;I'm more eager to open up about myself, I've also seen myself changing, meaning,I listen more,I give more of me;wouldn't want it any other way.
In response to: this is a thread for people that love openly talking about THEMSELVES
and the things that's happened to them in THEIR LIVES
that's helped changed THE WAY THAT THEY ARE NOW
not for people that want to that just want to bore us and say that nothings changed about them at all... and that they are still the same person
we can all easily say that...but then they'll be nothing worth talking about ( as usual with those people ) !
we can also all easily go onto threads and start to bother other people that even don't bother us
but most of us don't.. because we prefer to spend time talking to people that we enjoy talking to
instead of going onto threads created by people that don't bother us
anyway for those people that " really want to talk "
1. have you finally settled down within yourself and decided what type of person you want to go through the rest of your being yet ?
2. was that an easy decision to make ?
3. how have you changed in the past 10 years ?
4. have you thought about the type of life you really want to live for the next 10 years ?
5. can you ever see yourself changing as a person again ?
Gilly I am who I am. My brother passed first, not the youngest. Then my parents and I was with both of them when they took their last breath. What a gift that was. So Gilly, the answer to your question is no, I have not change in the last 10 years. I am who I am.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Gilly I am who I am. My brother passed first, not the youngest. Then my parents and I was with both of them when they took their last breath. What a gift that was. So Gilly, the answer to your question is no, I have not change in the last 10 years. I am who I am.
In response to: this is a thread for people that love openly talking about THEMSELVES
and the things that's happened to them in THEIR LIVES
that's helped changed THE WAY THAT THEY ARE NOW
not for people that want to that just want to bore us and say that nothings changed about them at all... and that they are still the same person
we can all easily say that...but then they'll be nothing worth talking about ( as usual with those people ) !
we can also all easily go onto threads and start to bother other people that even don't bother us
but most of us don't.. because we prefer to spend time talking to people that we enjoy talking to
instead of going onto threads created by people that don't bother us
anyway for those people that " really want to talk "
1. have you finally settled down within yourself and decided what type of person you want to go through the rest of your being yet ?
2. was that an easy decision to make ?
3. how have you changed in the past 10 years ?
4. have you thought about the type of life you really want to live for the next 10 years ?
5. can you ever see yourself changing as a person again ?
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
Polarbutterfly: Nice post. I feel that I've changed on a spiritual level;I'm more eager to open up about myself, I've also seen myself changing, meaning,I listen more,I give more of me;wouldn't want it any other way.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
Polarbutterfly: Nice post. I feel that I've changed on a spiritual level;I'm more eager to open up about myself, I've also seen myself changing, meaning,I listen more,I give more of me;wouldn't want it any other way.
my mouse is really playing up here so i don't know whats going to happen ..but anyway whilst its still working but all over the place i just wanted ask you why you laughed ?
and why you're more eager to open up more about yourself ( thats what this thread is for by the way ) !
you will get people come along thats got nothing worthwhile to say and try and spoil it though
you're doing well listening more
i've changed in the last 10 years in many ways , but one of the main things thats changed about me is that i think more now than i use to ...and i've become more weary of people
gillyloves69: In response to: this is a thread for people that love openly talking about THEMSELVES and the things that's happened to them in THEIR LIVES
that's helped changed THE WAY THAT THEY ARE NOW not for people that want to that just want to bore us and say that nothings changed about them at all... and that they are still the same person we can all easily say that...but then they'll be nothing worth talking about ( as usual with those people ) ! we can also all easily go onto threads and start to bother other people that even don't bother us but most of us don't.. because we prefer to spend time talking to people that we enjoy talking to instead of going onto threads created by people that don't bother us anyway for those people that " really want to talk "
1. have you finally settled down within yourself and decided what type of person you want to go through the rest of your being yet ?
2. was that an easy decision to make ?
3. how have you changed in the past 10 years ?
4. have you thought about the type of life you really want to live for the next 10 years ?
5. can you ever see yourself changing as a person again ?
In the last 3 years I have chosen to delete people who cause me grief. I can be alone now, because their is no suffering besides self. In the next 10 years I will focus on my personal needs, for the first time in my life. Family always came first, and my child is fine and parents are gone. The first time in my life that is mine.
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
I find this very amazing. You post that you want only the people who will talk openly about themselves about how they have or have not changed within the past ten years. You prefer anyone who has nothing to say not to enter the thread. You say you don't want anyone to bore you.
Well Mr.Gilly. I have not seen anything that is particularly interesting about you in this thread. Why so you insist that people only inter who will tell about themselves. What have you posted about you ? I don't get it.
I have changed to an extent that is unbelievable, but I don't want to bore you, I'm waiting for you to get off your high horse and post something about you.
I entered one of your other posts and felt like you were rude. I see that other people seem to think you are a nice guy, I don't know. But I think if you are going to be so choosy about who posts in your threads you should walk the talk.
gillyloves69OPlondon, Greater London, England UK7,359 posts
jeepers: I find this very amazing. You post that you want only the people who will talk openly about themselves about how they have or have not changed within the past ten years. You prefer anyone who has nothing to say not to enter the thread. You say you don't want anyone to bore you.
Well Mr.Gilly. I have not seen anything that is particularly interesting about you in this thread. Why so you insist that people only inter who will tell about themselves. What have you posted about you ? I don't get it.
I have changed to an extent that is unbelievable, but I don't want to bore you, I'm waiting for you to get off your high horse and post something about you.
I entered one of your other posts and felt like you were rude. I see that other people seem to think you are a nice guy, I don't know. But I think if you are going to be so choosy about who posts in your threads you should walk the talk.
That's all.
never mind that jeepers ..its carnival time
i'm off to the londons biggest street party
bye
ps and don't come back on the thread unless you got something to say yourself
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
dillinger: yes i have, oh yes i have changed, i'm a much bigger a**hole today than i was 10 yrs ago an tomorrow i'll be a bigger a**hole than i'm gonna be today
jeepers: I find this very amazing. You post that you want only the people who will talk openly about themselves about how they have or have not changed within the past ten years. You prefer anyone who has nothing to say not to enter the thread. You say you don't want anyone to bore you.
Well Mr.Gilly. I have not seen anything that is particularly interesting about you in this thread. Why so you insist that people only inter who will tell about themselves. What have you posted about you ? I don't get it.
I have changed to an extent that is unbelievable, but I don't want to bore you, I'm waiting for you to get off your high horse and post something about you.
I entered one of your other posts and felt like you were rude. I see that other people seem to think you are a nice guy, I don't know. But I think if you are going to be so choosy about who posts in your threads you should walk the talk.
That's all.
I like what you said here. I do dare not to say anything here.
"i bet none of you have changed in the last 10 years & even if you have could'nt tell the reason why"
Very good question, made me thing for awhile.
I can't believe how much i have changed and hopefully for the better. I can't believe how angry and stressed i was, totally an unsociable person, none caring, arrogant, self centered person i was. I really didn't like my life.
Now, i am so different, i am so relaxed and calm, love people and socialising, i actually like myself now. Believe me, money doesn't bring happyness, i feel a richer person, even if have less money than ten years ago.
As for the reasons i have changed, maybe just a combination of, circumstances, growing up and having a good look at myself.
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this is a thread for people that love openly talking about THEMSELVES
and the things that's happened to them in THEIR LIVES
that's helped changed THE WAY THAT THEY ARE NOW
not for people that want to that just want to bore us and say that nothings changed about them at all... and that they are still the same person
we can all easily say that...but then they'll be nothing worth talking about ( as usual with those people ) !
we can also all easily go onto threads and start to bother other people that even don't bother us
but most of us don't.. because we prefer to spend time talking to people that we enjoy talking to
instead of going onto threads created by people that don't bother us
anyway for those people that " really want to talk "
1. have you finally settled down within yourself and decided what type of person you want to go through the rest of your being yet ?
2. was that an easy decision to make ?
3. how have you changed in the past 10 years ?
4. have you thought about the type of life you really want to live for the next 10 years ?
5. can you ever see yourself changing as a person again ?