How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base! (52)

Sep 3, 2009 10:52 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
kg95326
kg95326kg95326Cork, Kerry Ireland33 Threads 858 Posts
thegimpygump: they might be single, but im sure some of them are dating...

it's not like they are locked at home in their houses unaware of whats going on... well, i hope not..


OMG. If you're dating you're not single doh
Sep 3, 2009 10:52 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
kg95326: She's quick off the mark was what I meant.

What are you talking about??? I had to read your post about three times to decode it, I never thought that either

Ever couple is different.

Decode...................... Its in English mumbling
Sep 3, 2009 10:54 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
thegimpygump
thegimpygumpthegimpygumpya boya, Roscommon Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 172 Posts
kg95326: OMG. If you're dating you're not single


what?? i thought dating was what single people did???

if u went out on a date with a guy... first date that is, or even second... are you no longer single then?? i thought people go on dates to try and find a relationship.. not go on a date and are suddenely in a relationship...

single people date..uh oh
Sep 3, 2009 10:56 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
kg95326: OMG. If you're dating you're not single


No, If you are in a relationship, you're not single. If you are going on dates with people and haven't found anyone you want to have a relationship with then you're dating. Well that's just how i see it anyway confused
Sep 3, 2009 10:57 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
thegimpygump
thegimpygumpthegimpygumpya boya, Roscommon Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 172 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: No, If you are in a relationship, you're not single. If you are going on dates with people and haven't found anyone you want to have a relationship with then you're dating. Well that's just how i see it anyway


haha.. i know.. makes perfect sense doesnt it???
Sep 3, 2009 11:02 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nvosiris: No i dont,what does fast mean

We all use the site for entertainment be it a year or a week. I do not think the girl was asking how long before she got someone on here to bed but she can correct me here if i am wrong? She was asking " Whats the normal thing today with couples, do they wait a day, a week or longer before they take the relationship to a physical level"


Hi Nwave

What's normal? confused


There is no set time, or formula for when. If it's a week, a month or even an hour, what difference does it make? If you feel comfortable in doing it, then go for it, if not, don't.

Also, seeing as how it has some relevence to the topic, don't ever let anyone try and talk you into anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you do something because you want to, there should be no regrets or bad feelings, even if the relationship doesn't work out.
Sep 3, 2009 11:07 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
kidatheart: Hi N

What's normal? There is no set time, or formula for when. If it's a week, a month or even an hour, what difference does it make? If you feel comfortable in doing it, then go for it, if not, don't.

Also, seeing as how it has some relevence to the topic, don't ever let anyone try and talk you into anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you do something because you want to, there should be no regrets or bad feelings, even if the relationship doesn't work out.


Great post thumbs up
Sep 3, 2009 11:11 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
thegimpygump: well i think any advice, no matter who it comes from should be taken with a pinch of salt.. we have to live our own lives and make our own decisions, so anyone being "worthy" of giving advice should not really matter..

and that last comment seemed a bit uncalled for.. who or what type of girl i like is no ones business...


Exactly who is to say who is worthy and not worthy of giving advice? But i think we are getting slightly off topic here, folks.......
Sep 3, 2009 11:11 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
Officer01
Officer01Officer01Dublin City, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 4 Polls 79 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Great post


I think theres being many great and diverse posts on this topic, it just shows you how there is no single one correct answer to this question
Sep 3, 2009 11:11 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
kg95326
kg95326kg95326Cork, Kerry Ireland33 Threads 858 Posts
kidatheart: Oh sure, now you bring the alphabet into the picture, this is soooo confusing.


Sorry, been teaching it all day laugh laugh laugh
Sep 3, 2009 11:12 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Officer01: I think theres being many great and diverse posts on this topic, it just shows you how there is no single one correct answer to this question


Exactly. No correct answer. Just opinions. Whats right for one person may not necessarily be right for another thumbs up
Sep 3, 2009 11:13 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
thegimpygump
thegimpygumpthegimpygumpya boya, Roscommon Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 172 Posts
thumbs up

agreed
Sep 3, 2009 11:14 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
thegimpygump
thegimpygumpthegimpygumpya boya, Roscommon Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 172 Posts
Officer01: I think theres being many great and diverse posts on this topic, it just shows you how there is no single one correct answer to this question


thumbs up agreed
Sep 3, 2009 11:15 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
kidatheart: Hi N

What's normal? There is no set time, or formula for when. If it's a week, a month or even an hour, what difference does it make? If you feel comfortable in doing it, then go for it, if not, don't.

Also, seeing as how it has some relevence to the topic, don't ever let anyone try and talk you into anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you do something because you want to, there should be no regrets or bad feelings, even if the relationship doesn't work out.

Hi ya H wave

What you are saying is 100% right, its up to us, we choose when the time is right for us, thats what i mean by, be it a day, a week, a month or whatever.

But the point i was making to Kg.... was our answer should have nothing to do with the length of time we are a member of this site .... JMO

This was irish ....eyes first Thread and she was asking a question that a lot of young girls would want to ask if they have been out of the dating scene for a while and just joined a dating site.................comfort
Sep 3, 2009 11:25 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nvosiris: Hi ya H

What you are saying is 100% right, its up to us, we choose when the time is right for us, thats what i mean by, be it a day, a week, a month or whatever.

But the point i was making to Kg.... was our answer should have nothing to do with the length of time we are a member of this site .... JMO
This was irish ....eyes first Thread and she was asking a question that a lot of young girls would want to ask if they have been out of the dating scene for a while and just joined a dating site.................



Oh I dunno about that. Maybe the longer a person has been here, the sooner they want to get their "freak" on when they meet someone!banana

rolling on the floor laughing


Please excuse me, I'm in a giggly mood today.


blushing
Sep 3, 2009 11:28 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
kidatheart: Oh I dunno about that. Maybe the longer a person has been here, the sooner they want to get their "freak" on when they meet someone!

Please excuse me, I'm in a giggly mood today.
scold scold professor professor

You are just a bold boy........................ rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 3, 2009 11:39 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nvosiris: You are just a bold boy........................



I was only putting a plausible theory out there, adding to the discussion.grin




bouquet
Sep 3, 2009 11:46 AM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
Buddyf
BuddyfBuddyfdublin, Dublin Ireland13 Threads 801 Posts
personally i think no matter what anyone says in threads of these nature it doesn't really matter

its down to the particular couple themselves, no matter what advice theyre given, itll happen when it happens, simple as that
Sep 3, 2009 12:35 PM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
Buddyf: of course they can give advice on the how long she should wait, thats why she asked, she wanted opinions.doesn't matter if theyre single or not.


thumbs up thanks for all your opinions...wave
Sep 3, 2009 12:38 PM CST How long would you date someone before taking it to the best base!
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
irish1978eyes: whats the real dating scene like these days...how long do you date before taking it to the bedroom?





I taught these Days it was THE 3 DATE RULE....dunno




Or was it 3 weeks I can never remember those important things .. doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



Went its right for you i think you'll know....tip hat
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