Being friendly, thoughtful and caring doesn't mean, " I want to be with you!" ( Archived) (9)

I am friendly and thoughtful by nature to people men and women alike but there are times I have to back off a little because people misinterpret my actions. There are some women and men alike who I admired and like the way they are but that it is all! Do I have to explain myself every time (especially to some men)?????????? Or do I need to stop being friendly, caring and thoughtful??????
I don’t want to give send wrong signals so please just take my notes as a friendly hello and nothing more!

I ‘m not looking for any comments; I just needed to take it out my system!!!!!!!

Maybe they are just attracted to your personality?

How you mean the women?

Never have any problems with my female’s friends I just need it to mention it so it will be understood that there are just friendly notes and that treat everyone equally!

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Yami, to find a true thoughtful person is so rare, that most could easily misinterpret kindness for feelings.

Thank you for being the special person that you are.

Yup

I think it is you who misinterpret people's response to your actions. By being friendly, thoughtful and caring to another person, what do you expect in return? Before you can conclude that those men and women misinterprete your actions, try the opposite. If you are good to people, people will be good to you in return, and vice versa. Period.

About your comment, which you are, entitle to. There are people who always look for a hidden reason why I do the things I do but after they meet me and know me well enough they found out there are none, just that the thoughtfulness in me toward them is a second nature to me (common courtesy) and nothing else, you can either believe it or not that it's up to you! I do it with my neighbors, the mailman, the guys and girls from UPS,Fedex, DHL, the old man at the grocery store, my CPA, in the street when I driving, at the store,,, whenever I can help I'll do it.
I have found dogs (even expensive ones) at the street and have called the police, animal service, walked all around the neighborhood looking for the owner and when I do, I have never asked or received anything in returned? Nothing just the good feeling to see the owners face and the dog happiness when they see his/her owner.

You believe what you want as I said before. I just don't want to hurt anyone or being in a difficult situation where people get the wrong idea, please just take it like it is, a simple gesture and nothing more and I DO NOT WANT ANYTHING IN RETURN" ( I am not screaming just a way to highlight the main idea)