How do you make a person stop following you? ( Archived) (83)

Sep 11, 2009 8:04 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
I have a friend, she is nearing 70. She went out with this guy about 5 years ago and it did not work out so she broke it off. She told the guy "no", but he is still following her pretty often. She did not even go to church today. This is very wrong that she can't even go to church.

What would you do? Keep in mind that she is almost 70 and probably won't be strong against this person, but he is really scaring her.

Thanks, friends.
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Sep 11, 2009 8:05 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
OneKitty: I have a friend, she is nearing 70. She went out with this guy about 5 years ago and it did not work out so she broke it off. She told the guy "no", but he is still following her pretty often. She did not even go to church today. This is very wrong that she can't even go to church.

What would you do? Keep in mind that she is almost 70 and probably won't be strong against this person, but he is really scaring her.

Thanks, friends.
take away his cane ? rolling on the floor laughing Just kidding. That was bad.thumbs down
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Sep 11, 2009 8:05 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty: I have a friend, she is nearing 70. She went out with this guy about 5 years ago and it did not work out so she broke it off. She told the guy "no", but he is still following her pretty often. She did not even go to church today. This is very wrong that she can't even go to church.

What would you do? Keep in mind that she is almost 70 and probably won't be strong against this person, but he is really scaring her.

Thanks, friends.



I think I would contact the authorties and report him.
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Sep 11, 2009 8:06 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
OneKitty: I have a friend, she is nearing 70. She went out with this guy about 5 years ago and it did not work out so she broke it off. She told the guy "no", but he is still following her pretty often. She did not even go to church today. This is very wrong that she can't even go to church.

What would you do? Keep in mind that she is almost 70 and probably won't be strong against this person, but he is really scaring her.

Thanks, friends.


If she s 70 than it ain`t me your talking about

what a relief.... banana
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Sep 11, 2009 8:07 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
somechick: I think I would contact the authorties and report him.


That's what I thought too. But I don't think she will do it. What else would you do. How would you make her understand that it's time to contact the authorities? All I could do for her today was light a candle (catholic) and call the athorities for advice. Thank you purple heart
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Sep 11, 2009 8:09 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
Boban1: If she s 70 than it ain`t me your talking about

what a relief....


I know dude, it's a really close person to me....
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Sep 11, 2009 8:10 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
Boban1: If she s 70 than it ain`t me your talking about

what a relief....

glad to see you quit robbing the cradlerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Sep 11, 2009 8:11 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty: That's what I thought too. But I don't think she will do it. What else would you do. How would you make her understand that it's time to contact the authorities? All I could do for her today was light a candle (catholic) and call the athorities for advice. Thank you



Maybe she's too scared to contact them.If she isn't willing to go and contact the proper authorities I doubt if there's anything else you can do beyond what you've already done.
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Sep 11, 2009 8:13 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
somechick: Maybe she's too scared to contact them.If she isn't willing to go and contact the proper authorities I doubt if there's anything else you can do beyond what you've already done.


I am sad.
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Sep 11, 2009 8:13 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
Maybe I should go talk to the guy?
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Sep 11, 2009 8:13 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
OneKitty: I am sad.
hug
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Sep 11, 2009 8:14 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
OneKitty: Maybe I should go talk to the guy?


yeah... why not....
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Sep 11, 2009 8:15 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty: I am sad.



I know it's makes you feel so helpless.comfort hug
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Sep 11, 2009 8:15 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
OneKitty: Maybe I should go talk to the guy?


..................Yep....And make sure you have a 'Base ball Bat' in your hands and make sure he sees too.......

J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 11, 2009 8:18 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
virgiomonkey: ..................Yep....And make sure you have a 'Base ball Bat' in your hands and make sure he sees too.......

J.D


Well, that is sort of what I was thinking. Maybe bring a "brother" or "cousin" or two with me. You know, the law of the "west" for no better word.

Is that what you would do?

Just say "please don't do this any more."

yes/no?
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Sep 11, 2009 8:19 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
virgiomonkey: ..................Yep....And make sure you have a 'Base ball Bat' in your hands and make sure he sees too.......

J.D


I was thinking the very same thing but I'd also make sure it was a metal bat so he would finally get the relayed message behind of why he was being hit.rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Sep 11, 2009 8:20 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
somechick: I was thinking the very same thing but I'd also make sure it was a metal bat so he would finally get the relayed message behind of why he was being hit.


Really? Thanks hon. I guess that is the answer. I will "talk" first. Authorities next.
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Sep 11, 2009 8:23 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
friends4now
friends4nowfriends4nowMelbourne, Florida USA73 Threads 10 Polls 2,366 Posts
OneKitty: Well, that is sort of what I was thinking. Maybe bring a "brother" or "cousin" or two with me. You know, the law of the "west" for no better word.

Is that what you would do?

Just say "please don't do this any more."

yes/no?




MY WHOLE REDNECK FAMILY

just tell me when and where--


seriously though call the cops whether she likes it or not

she could be in danger so if you truly care about her just call the cops
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Sep 11, 2009 8:25 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
OneKitty: Well, that is sort of what I was thinking. Maybe bring a "brother" or "cousin" or two with me. You know, the law of the "west" for no better word.

Is that what you would do?

Just say "please don't do this any more."

yes/no?


............Spot on.......I am sure you heard a famous saying from one of your Ex president 'Roosevelt'......And sorry if I haven't got the exact wording right.....'Talk softly,but carry a big Stick'......... grin....Oh and don't say 'Please'

J.D

grin devil
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Sep 11, 2009 8:29 PM CST How do you make a person stop following you?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
friends4now: MY WHOLE REDNECK FAMILY

just tell me when and where--seriously though call the cops whether she likes it or not

she could be in danger so if you truly care about her just call the cops


Yikes! Wish you were here. I have not lived in this town for very long! wink
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