mums who leave there kids (30)
same as fathers who walk out in my opinion
sometimes kids are better off sometimes not
sometimes kids are better off sometimes not
tallaght_guy: same as fathers who walk out in my opinion
sometimes kids are better off sometimes not
the woman who was talking about this said she couldnt do it but she conldnt get her head around the woman who walks away from there kidssometimes kids are better off sometimes not
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john2: just after watching the programme on sky 3 about this, and question for you all dose this happen in ireland were mums walk out on there kids??? and do you think its wrong???????G
I did't see it, but yes I Do think its wrong!
I can't even begin to understand how any Mother can bare to live without their child/children,after they have been taken by either Death or abduction, or illness its every mother's worse nightmare, but to Walk away from your own flesh and blood is just beyond me,children when you have them are your reason to live, seriously I can't think of any reason any Mother would willingly leave their child.The though even scares me.
john2: the woman who was talking about this said she couldnt do it but she conldnt get her head around the woman who walks away from there kids
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me neither...but then some women just dont have the maternal instinct..and some do....same as men some are paternal some aren't...no matter which way it is..its the child who feels rejected...and thats just heartbreaking...that can really mess up their heads
well i think women in gen find it harder to do it than guys
maybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
maybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
tallaght_guy: well i think women in gen find it harder to do it than guys
maybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
maybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
major kudos to your friend R...its not easy job being a single parent...i raised my eldest on my own and now i've 2 more and am doing the same again...but i wouldnt give them up for the world...they are the loves of my life..i adore them
tallaght_guy: well i think women in gen find it harder to do it than guys
maybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
i could understand PND, but you can help for that, it had one woman on it saying she had no regrets for leaving her kids,they were holding her back, she wanted to be a wrighter selfish or whatmaybe they cant cope or feel its in best interests to leave with father or grandparents or severe post natal depression but can also be pure selfish reasons never just 1 answer
i know 1 guy from here raising kids on his own and doing a great job my neighbour round the corner from me is another guy raising his own child and another she had from another relationship bcause girl is to immature and selfish
and he is only 22 and i know kids are better with him than her
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my little girl means the world to me,
id never be able to walk out on her at all. from the moment she was born maternal instinct kicked in right away,
ive actually finished readn a book and it had the same storylines as this thread, it was based on how she was married and had the perfect job while the husband stayed at home with the child full time, cut long story short she hadnt got the maternal instincts as most women who devote 24 hours 7 days a week to their child,
id never be able to walk out on her at all. from the moment she was born maternal instinct kicked in right away,
ive actually finished readn a book and it had the same storylines as this thread, it was based on how she was married and had the perfect job while the husband stayed at home with the child full time, cut long story short she hadnt got the maternal instincts as most women who devote 24 hours 7 days a week to their child,
chuckles25: my little girl means the world to me,
id never be able to walk out on her at all. from the moment she was born maternal instinct kicked in right away, ive actually finished readn a book and it had the same storylines as this thread, it was based on how she was married and had the perfect job while the husband stayed at home with the child full time, cut long story short she hadnt got the maternal instincts as most women who devote 24 hours 7 days a week to their child,
id never be able to walk out on her at all. from the moment she was born maternal instinct kicked in right away, ive actually finished readn a book and it had the same storylines as this thread, it was based on how she was married and had the perfect job while the husband stayed at home with the child full time, cut long story short she hadnt got the maternal instincts as most women who devote 24 hours 7 days a week to their child,
well difference in role reversal where fathers stay home mothers work if thats what you mean?
my own cousin is in that situation and suits them both
tallaght_guy: well difference in role reversal where fathers stay home mothers work if thats what you mean?
my own cousin is in that situation and suits them both
my own cousin is in that situation and suits them both
oh i'd love that...im not a stay at home person...i need to work outside the house or i get cabin fever...so i wouldnt mind if we could live comfortably off just my wage for the guy to stay at home
I could never have left my kids. Ever!!!!
I am just back after dropping my son's stuff up to Dublin for college, my younger son went last week.
Those of you who saw my thread last week will know... My heart is broken that they are not with me and they are adults.
I am just back after dropping my son's stuff up to Dublin for college, my younger son went last week.
Those of you who saw my thread last week will know... My heart is broken that they are not with me and they are adults.
wexlady41: I could never have left my kids. Ever!!!!
I am just back after dropping my son's stuff up to Dublin for college, my younger son went last week.
Those of you who saw my thread last week will know... My heart is broken that they are not with me and they are adults.
i can imagine wex and my heart goes out to you I am just back after dropping my son's stuff up to Dublin for college, my younger son went last week.
Those of you who saw my thread last week will know... My heart is broken that they are not with me and they are adults.
john2: just after watching the programme on sky 3 about this, and question for you all dose this happen in ireland were mums walk out on there kids??? and do you think its wrong???????G
another way is post natal depression maybe they cant bare it.. ive a friend who went through it and hr parents ended up fostering the kids ya she had twins and wasnt able 2 cope
and then a year later she had another baby and felt similar but got help so depends on the woman and the situation maybe they feel they're better off not having them around as in how the mothers feel towards the babies life..
who are we to judge any mother?Everyone has a different story.I believe if a woman leaves her kids,for whatever reason,there is an underlying problem resulting in what we see as extreme.A lot of time its a cry for help,and it does,nt mean they are not maternal.Remember the mother,whom,just left her kids,flew to Portugal,and did,nt even have spending money????Bet she really just needed a little help at home,like someone to make her a tea,give a hug,mothers are human too.So dont be too harsh here.
u say who are we to judge well i feel i can judge cos when u see your kid cry every nite for the mother he will never have i can judge when you have to pick up the pieces let me tell u it was nothing to do wit a cry for help is was just pure selfishness on her side yes men do it all the time but for a woman to do it its just wrong not a illness its wrong for any perent to do this all excuses out the door
yes it does happen.
maryb: who are we to judge any mother?Everyone has a different story.I believe if a woman leaves her kids,for whatever reason,there is an underlying problem resulting in what we see as extreme.A lot of time its a cry for help,and it does,nt mean they are not maternal.Remember the mother,whom,just left her kids,flew to Portugal,and did,nt even have spending money????Bet she really just needed a little help at home,like someone to make her a tea,give a hug,mothers are human too.So dont be too harsh here.
Well i for one will never get my head around it.. Its not even the selfishness of leaving your child its 'unnatural' its our animal instinct to love and protect and nourish our children. No excuses, yes men do it all the time, but thats to do with the nature of the animal and females protect their young. To any man rearing a child/children without the mother .. respect!
In response to: just after watching the programme on sky 3 about this, and question for you all dose this happen in ireland were mums walk out on there kids??? and do you think its wrong???????G
it's very common lately..i dont know why but i seem to know a lot of men raising their children since their wife/partner walked out...
i'd never do it.. as much as they drive me crazy at times i couldnt live without them..
now if their da offered to take them for a month..so i get go away..thats a different story... pigs dont fly...
sharina: it's very common lately..i dont know why but i seem to know a lot of men raising their children since their wife/partner walked out...
i'd never do it.. as much as they drive me crazy at times i couldnt live without them.. now if their da offered to take them for a month..so i get go away..thats a different story... pigs dont fly...
i'd never do it.. as much as they drive me crazy at times i couldnt live without them.. now if their da offered to take them for a month..so i get go away..thats a different story... pigs dont fly...
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