he had asked why isn't everyone happy,so i tolled him the truth,stright up/front up,it makes me mad,when people don't use common sense,and just asking stupid qosistions,you know?
Life is good because you have to make the choice to think that way despite what happens or doesn't happen. Happiness is a choice and it comes when I know exactly what I want and I feel that I'm moving towards getting it. Life is good when it has direction and when I'm moving towards what I truly love. Its just a matter of listening to the inner dreams and goals and going for it. I'm learning this slowly - but I have discovered over time that having a purpose and being in control puts my mind/emotions/spirit is a whole different world of optimism and changes my despair into hope and faith in myself. My circumstances around me haven't changed but my perspective and attitude have shifted and I see the world through a different mindset - and wow its exciting and beautiful. Amazing when I see and experience that happening in my life - I see sunshine and rainbows even on those cloudy days.
Phillip you have the control as to whether you let the behavior of others affect your attitude and how you react. When you give your power to others to influence whether you will be happy then you have lost yourself. Others do not control you unless you give them that power.
You need to empower your life and make the choice to be happy despite your circumstances and realize that you cannot control the outcome but you do have control over your emotions, feelings, thoughts and your resulting actions based upon those.
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