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Would you hire one to check out a new mate after say 3 or 5 dates and why? Do you really want to know his record with women or vice versa?
I dated a well divorced church goer. Lo and behold if his last wife did not contact me .. she was alright .. told me all the gritty stuff about him .. but needless to say I can't be bothered with him anymore.