true i agree but easier said than done his at one end im at the other end and if he says no........your doomed
sukatai: why feel embarrased? it is a question that people use all over the world every day, why not say it in a way that makes you feel at ease?
like hey this weather is so depressing i fancy going out and having few drinks, are you up for that? if he says yes then well done and if he says no then you tried, so then you know your options and can move forward.... i do hope your answers yes,, but go girl,, life is short eneough without wasting seconds thinking of what ifs or maybes. we all behind you either way
sukatai: why feel embarrased? it is a question that people use all over the world every day, why not say it in a way that makes you feel at ease?
like hey this weather is so depressing i fancy going out and having few drinks, are you up for that? if he says yes then well done and if he says no then you tried, so then you know your options and can move forward.... i do hope your answers yes,, but go girl,, life is short eneough without wasting seconds thinking of what ifs or maybes. we all behind you either way
areyoureadytogo: true i agree but easier said than done his at one end im at the other end and if he says no........your doomed
only time life fails you is when you have a box surounding you and you can go no further. until then every breath is a chance of success, and dont ever forget that!! if he says no,, so what, your young and haven't opened halve the doors in your life yet. knock knock, who's there? are you ready, are you ready for what? are you readt to go, get your jacket on.
sukatai: only time life fails you is when you have a box surounding you and you can go no further. until then every breath is a chance of success, and dont ever forget that!! if he says no,, so what, your young and haven't opened halve the doors in your life yet. knock knock, who's there? are you ready, are you ready for what? are you readt to go, get your jacket on.
sukatai: only time life fails you is when you have a box surounding you and you can go no further. until then every breath is a chance of success, and dont ever forget that!! if he says no,, so what, your young and haven't opened halve the doors in your life yet. knock knock, who's there? are you ready, are you ready for what? are you readt to go, get your jacket on.
areyoureadytogo: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it.. this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation... and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
In response to: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it.. this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation... and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
Go ahead and ask...he could be just as nervous and waiting for you to ask. I had a lady send me an email recently and it's turning out to be brilliant so far. Even if he says no he's hardly going to hold that against you. Good luck
think of it this way? the longer you leave it the less time you have with him if he says yes!! and every second counts, touch wood something should happen tomorrow and you find out he has met someone tonight, then you will never forget it, but if he said no, then you WILL forget him in few weeks when you meet the perfect guy... You have been given eneough advice and encouragement from us all to go ad get him, if you dont and you lose him then im sorry but tough, and i dont mean that in a hard way,, just reality
thanks for the advise everyone have decided not to ask the guy out single two and half years now id prefer my indepandance maybe ill change my mind down the road and if his taken so be it not the end of the world
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and if he says no........your doomed
it is a question that people use all over the world every day, why not say it in a way that makes you feel at ease?
like hey this weather is so depressing i fancy going out and having few drinks, are you up for that?
if he says yes then well done
and if he says no then you tried, so then you know your options and can move forward....
i do hope your answers yes,, but go girl,, life is short eneough without wasting seconds thinking of what ifs or maybes. we all behind you either way