if you really liked someone from the site........... (130)

Jan 9, 2010 6:04 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
nina200982
nina200982nina200982Kildare/London, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 528 Posts
areyoureadytogo: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it..
this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation...
and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..


Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...thumbs up
Jan 9, 2010 6:08 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
now now its not moon
nina200982: Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...
tongue
Jan 9, 2010 6:10 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
nina200982: Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...


thumbs up thumbs up
Jan 9, 2010 6:11 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
well thats the thing id feel the same

personally...wouldnt ask someone straight out unless was almost sure theyd say yes..depends if your a little shy like me..
stevepoppy: you could just ask him if he's going to the meet..if he comes from your neck of the woods...hows he getting there...

if your in contact...i think youd sense interest in the tone or how soon he replys...

personally...wouldnt ask someone straight out unless was almost sure theyd say yes..depends if your a little shy like me..



hope it goes well....but if you mean me......

nnnnnnnnnnnnnooooooooooo wwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyonly kidding... i'd say your a steady sort...and it will work out
Jan 9, 2010 6:11 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
nina200982: Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...


I wonder do many ladies on this site make the first move? confused
Jan 9, 2010 6:12 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I wonder do many ladies on this site make the first move?


I would have asked someone out on this site before and would have no problem with it.
Jan 9, 2010 6:14 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it..
this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation...
and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
just use ur headline ,laugh laugh no only jokin ,ask him ,he can only say no,moping which is not nice ,but his losshug
Jan 9, 2010 6:14 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
nina200982
nina200982nina200982Kildare/London, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 528 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I wonder do many ladies on this site make the first move?


Well if i like someone then yes......
Jan 9, 2010 6:15 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
nina200982
nina200982nina200982Kildare/London, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 528 Posts
areyoureadytogo: now now its not moon


Ha ha i didnt even mention his name....you did....which makes me wonder......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 9, 2010 6:15 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
DUBLINGUY1973: I would have asked someone out on this site before and would have no problem with it.
and why did,nt you,im still waitinlaugh laugh lips
Jan 9, 2010 6:16 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
ella1976: and why did,nt you,im still waitin
laugh laugh laugh
Jan 9, 2010 6:18 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
thats it i dont think to many do!!!,,,,why didnt you ask me thenwink roll eyes
DUBLINGUY1973: I would have asked someone out on this site before and would have no problem with it.
Jan 9, 2010 6:18 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
haha tongue
nina200982: Ha ha i didnt even mention his name....you did....which makes me wonder......
Jan 9, 2010 6:19 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
nina200982
nina200982nina200982Kildare/London, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 528 Posts
areyoureadytogo: haha


whoever it is just go for it
Jan 9, 2010 6:31 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
ah i cant ask kinda shy
nina200982: whoever it is just go for it
Jan 9, 2010 6:39 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
Go for it, just ask him,so what doesn't matter what happensapplause
Jan 9, 2010 6:45 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
yes i agree there
Jan 9, 2010 6:47 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
yea kinda cos if i was to meet the guy again or talk to him i would find it embarrassing if he said no so i need to be sure to be sure thats his keen also
Validity: Go for it, just ask him,so what doesn't matter what happens
conversing
Jan 9, 2010 6:53 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
sukatai: sweetie, you cant go into a store and stare at the shop keeper, you need to tell them what you need or want.
because sometimes if you wait to long, someone else will take it and go home happy!!!


I know. It's stupid of me. But it's just how I am and I'm unlikely to change now.
Jan 9, 2010 6:56 PM CST if you really liked someone from the site...........
sukatai
sukataisukataiTipperary, Ireland20 Threads 2 Polls 678 Posts
areyoureadytogo: yea kinda cos if i was to meet the guy again or talk to him i would find it embarrassing if he said no so i need to be sure to be sure thats his keen also


why feel embarrased?
it is a question that people use all over the world every day, why not say it in a way that makes you feel at ease?

like hey this weather is so depressing i fancy going out and having few drinks, are you up for that?
if he says yes then well donehandshake
and if he says no then you tried, so then you know your options and can move forward....
i do hope your answers yes,, but go girl,, life is short eneough without wasting seconds thinking of what ifs or maybes. we all behind you either wayhug
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