areyoureadytogo: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it.. this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation... and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...
areyoureadytogo: would you tell them how you feel straight out?or how would you approach the person with an e-mail or would you just ask them straight out on a date without making a big tool out of yourself and getting an e-mail back and the answer could be no and then finding it hard to talk to that person again or how would you go about approaching it.. this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation... and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
just use ur headline , no only jokin ,ask him ,he can only say no, which is not nice ,but his loss
yea kinda cos if i was to meet the guy again or talk to him i would find it embarrassing if he said no so i need to be sure to be sure thats his keen also
Validity: Go for it, just ask him,so what doesn't matter what happens
sukatai: sweetie, you cant go into a store and stare at the shop keeper, you need to tell them what you need or want. because sometimes if you wait to long, someone else will take it and go home happy!!!
I know. It's stupid of me. But it's just how I am and I'm unlikely to change now.
areyoureadytogo: yea kinda cos if i was to meet the guy again or talk to him i would find it embarrassing if he said no so i need to be sure to be sure thats his keen also
why feel embarrased? it is a question that people use all over the world every day, why not say it in a way that makes you feel at ease?
like hey this weather is so depressing i fancy going out and having few drinks, are you up for that? if he says yes then well done and if he says no then you tried, so then you know your options and can move forward.... i do hope your answers yes,, but go girl,, life is short eneough without wasting seconds thinking of what ifs or maybes. we all behind you either way
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this can apply for anyone who would feel their in the same situation...
and why i ask this maybe their both afraid to make the 1st move and ask and im not hinting to anyone here..
Hon we are on a dating site.....if you cant ask then whats the point of being here....Go for it...