One for the guys.....ladies listen and learn (43)
nina200982: True i agree with ya there but what i mean is ....lets say a lady says to you...does this dress look good.....and you say yes darling its great (which it isnt)simply becasue you dont want to sit on the couch for another 45 mins waiting for her to change again.....or do you say you know what hon its not the best....dont worry i'll craic open another beer while im waiting...it doesnt matter if we are late....
Do you know what i mean?
Do you know what i mean?
Yes i know exactly what you mean, and if i taught it didn't suit i would say it straight out, why let the girl go out looking silly? and they respect you more for your honesty.
I said yesterday to Ella that her other pic was better looking and done her more justise. she was thankfull for the honesty and changed it back.
Why lie?
would like to know the same question for women then,, do ye say ok then stay home and watch soccer to keep them happy when you going to your mums, or do you really mean it?
nina200982: Ok most of my mates would be male......I have 4 brothers so that might expalin that but anyway...they tend to turn tome for advice when dating......These days im nearly treated as "one of the boys" which im not impressed about but anyway....
I have dated few guys and from my mates i have found that most guys never actually say what they really think......they say what they think we want to hear........rather than being upfront and honest they bend the truth a little till suddenly they find themselves going along with a realtionship they didnt really want all because they didnt really say or had the balls to say what they wanted to in the first place......Sowhat do you reackon guys....do you tell little white lies or whatever you think you need to,to either keep the peace or maybe get her into bed???? Keep it clean now folks
I have dated few guys and from my mates i have found that most guys never actually say what they really think......they say what they think we want to hear........rather than being upfront and honest they bend the truth a little till suddenly they find themselves going along with a realtionship they didnt really want all because they didnt really say or had the balls to say what they wanted to in the first place......Sowhat do you reackon guys....do you tell little white lies or whatever you think you need to,to either keep the peace or maybe get her into bed???? Keep it clean now folks
i'm very blunt and honest. gets me in trouble sometimes
nina200982: Ok most of my mates would be male......I have 4 brothers so that might expalin that but anyway...they tend to turn tome for advice when dating......These days im nearly treated as "one of the boys" which im not impressed about but anyway....
I have dated few guys and from my mates i have found that most guys never actually say what they really think......they say what they think we want to hear........rather than being upfront and honest they bend the truth a little till suddenly they find themselves going along with a realtionship they didnt really want all because they didnt really say or had the balls to say what they wanted to in the first place......Sowhat do you reackon guys....do you tell little white lies or whatever you think you need to,to either keep the peace or maybe get her into bed???? Keep it clean now folks
I have dated few guys and from my mates i have found that most guys never actually say what they really think......they say what they think we want to hear........rather than being upfront and honest they bend the truth a little till suddenly they find themselves going along with a realtionship they didnt really want all because they didnt really say or had the balls to say what they wanted to in the first place......Sowhat do you reackon guys....do you tell little white lies or whatever you think you need to,to either keep the peace or maybe get her into bed???? Keep it clean now folks
This story explains (to me) one of the many differences between men and women.
I had a girl work for me and we were good friends. One day in work she was very upset and was in floods of tears. I whisked her off for a coffee and a chat, as she used to confide in me. Anyways it turned out she was having relationship probs and they were fighting a lot. Her problem was he did not know what she wanted. I asked her if she had told him and she replied
''He should know''
Moral of the story for me.
Speak English and we would not have to lie.......
nina200982: True i agree with ya there but what i mean is ....lets say a lady says to you...does this dress look good.....and you say yes darling its great (which it isnt)simply becasue you dont want to sit on the couch for another 45 mins waiting for her to change again.....or do you say you know what hon its not the best....dont worry i'll craic open another beer while im waiting...it doesnt matter if we are late....
Do you know what i mean?
the last gf i had was a nightmare for changing outfits and a snappy dresser too,Do you know what i mean?
she'd allway ask me what i thought about her outfits and if i hesitated in saying what i thought ,she'd change straight away
blipper2000: the last gf i had was a nightmare for changing outfits and a snappy dresser too,
she'd allway ask me what i thought about her outfits and if i hesitated in saying what i thought ,she'd change straight away
she'd allway ask me what i thought about her outfits and if i hesitated in saying what i thought ,she'd change straight away
Never hesitate......
jonathan_heart: i'm very blunt and honest. gets me in trouble sometimes
lieing becomes a habit and in the end ya get caught out anyway and then theres hell to pay
vinny1967: Never hesitate......
that was my way of letting her know i didnt think the outfit looked gooda look can say so much
blipper2000: that was my way of letting her know i didnt think the outfit looked good
a look can say so much
a look can say so much
So you sat on the fence again like in most of your posts.
blipper2000: that was my way of letting her know i didnt think the outfit looked good
a look can say so much
a look can say so much
Yeah most of the time I would be honest, but sometimes after 5/6 changes ya just gotta be decisive....
sukatai: So you sat on the fence again like in most of your posts.
how do i sit on the fence?i'm just an agreeable sort,im all things to all and women,especially
vinny1967: This story explains (to me) one of the many differences between men and women.
I had a girl work for me and we were good friends. One day in work she was very upset and was in floods of tears. I whisked her off for a coffee and a chat, as she used to confide in me. Anyways it turned out she was having relationship probs and they were fighting a lot. Her problem was he did not know what she wanted. I asked her if she had told him and she replied
''He should know''
Moral of the story for me.
Speak English and we would not have to lie.......
I had a girl work for me and we were good friends. One day in work she was very upset and was in floods of tears. I whisked her off for a coffee and a chat, as she used to confide in me. Anyways it turned out she was having relationship probs and they were fighting a lot. Her problem was he did not know what she wanted. I asked her if she had told him and she replied
''He should know''
Moral of the story for me.
Speak English and we would not have to lie.......
I have friends who are like that with their boyfriends/husbands. I dont think I did it myself, but sometimes you do imagine that what you want is very obvious. I have slowly learned over the years that it rarely is, so, now I tend to be very blunt in asking for what I want. It doesnt always go down very well, however it saves a lot of time and crossed wires.
vinny1967: This story explains (to me) one of the many differences between men and women.
I had a girl work for me and we were good friends. One day in work she was very upset and was in floods of tears. I whisked her off for a coffee and a chat, as she used to confide in me. Anyways it turned out she was having relationship probs and they were fighting a lot. Her problem was he did not know what she wanted. I asked her if she had told him and she replied
''He should know''
Moral of the story for me.
Speak English and we would not have to lie.......
I had a girl work for me and we were good friends. One day in work she was very upset and was in floods of tears. I whisked her off for a coffee and a chat, as she used to confide in me. Anyways it turned out she was having relationship probs and they were fighting a lot. Her problem was he did not know what she wanted. I asked her if she had told him and she replied
''He should know''
Moral of the story for me.
Speak English and we would not have to lie.......
Why do women talk in code? Its like they are speaking another language sometimes and expect you to decipher what they mean from very little information. Sometimes guys feel like it would be easier to solve a maths theorom
blipper2000: how do i sit on the fence?
i'm just an agreeable sort,im all things to all and women,especially
i'm just an agreeable sort,im all things to all and women,especially
let me think.
Is that image behind you i profile picture black or white?
Wait... we will agree with the person that seems to be more right.
And we will alays go with the better answer.
what colour is it, or is it always who says the better
DUBLINGUY1973: Why do women talk in code? Its like they are speaking another language sometimes and expect you to decipher what they mean from very little information. Sometimes guys feel like it would be easier to solve a maths theorom
Sorry for getting off the point there. Yeah I agree though. I mean it would be so much easier sometimes if everyone said what they meant.
If you get into a situation whereby you are going out and the woman asks the man's opinion on what she's wearing..the man is thinking "well if i say it doesn't look right on her, she will get offended but if one of her friends tells her later that it doesn't look right, she will get mad at the man for just telling her what she wants to hear. Its a no-win situation
is this sweet or salt pop corn.go on blip tell us or will you wait for the best answers to agree
sukatai: let me think.
Is that image behind you i profile picture black or white?
Wait... we will agree with the person that seems to be more right.
And we will alays go with the better answer.
what colour is it, or is it always who says the better
its all so crystal clear to me nowIs that image behind you i profile picture black or white?
Wait... we will agree with the person that seems to be more right.
And we will alays go with the better answer.
what colour is it, or is it always who says the better
ya love me really,dont ya?
sukatai: is this sweet or salt pop corn.
go on blip tell us or will you wait for the best answers to agree
youre so witty,i wish i was yougo on blip tell us or will you wait for the best answers to agree
blipper2000: its all so crystal clear to me now
ya love me really,dont ya?
ya love me really,dont ya?
Aww you figured me out all on your own.
was it a hard decision to make or do others just look at your posts and see what i mean about the fence thing
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I have dated few guys and from my mates i have found that most guys never actually say what they really think......they say what they think we want to hear........rather than being upfront and honest they bend the truth a little till suddenly they find themselves going along with a realtionship they didnt really want all because they didnt really say or had the balls to say what they wanted to in the first place......Sowhat do you reackon guys....do you tell little white lies or whatever you think you need to,to either keep the peace or maybe get her into bed????