What do you do? (11)

Jan 16, 2010 10:05 AM CST What do you do?
NewtoBrandon
NewtoBrandonNewtoBrandonWinnipeg, Manitoba Canada12 Threads 41 Posts
How do you react when you get mad? Do you throw things, break things, yell, scream?

I tend to not talk at all, or ignore them. It drives men nuts, I will talk to the person later, depending on the situation of course.
Jan 16, 2010 11:06 AM CST What do you do?
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
NewtoBrandon: How do you react when you get mad? Do you throw things, break things, yell, scream?

I tend to not talk at all, or ignore them. It drives men nuts, I will talk to the person later, depending on the situation of course.


Depends on the situation. I don't throw things. You never know if they will get thrown back at you. My daughter had a habit of leaving things around. I threw her slipper at her once after tripping on it again. (it did not hit her, and I had no intention of it hitting her) She threw it back at me. :-)

There have been times I yell, but more at my kids when I am fed up with the mess left behind or thing not getting done. Lasts about 5 minutes if possible, then I talk to them calmly.

If I am quiet when mad, it means I am trying to figure something out, or the other person has just gone too far and I need a break. I keep my mouth shut, because I could make the situation worse by what I might say. It would not be very pleasant. Calming down before talking is best is my case ... I've seen too many speak when mad and thing said can not be taken back. A bruise fades, but the spoken word sticks forever. JMO
Jan 16, 2010 11:15 AM CST What do you do?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
NewtoBrandon: How do you react when you get mad? Do you throw things, break things, yell, scream?

I tend to not talk at all, or ignore them. It drives men nuts, I will talk to the person later, depending on the situation of course.



I mellow out with some BC Bud, get undressed and play the tuba. It drives women nuts, I also laugh a lot. You would too if on the right medication...rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 17, 2010 12:09 AM CST What do you do?
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
things that piss me off wind up in the garbage can real quick .woman that lives at my house is forever cheking the garbage can for things . she is a packrat an i dont like too much of a mess she is 75 and has a hard time getting it through her head but she is slowly comming along
Jan 17, 2010 6:17 AM CST What do you do?
muchachito
muchachitomuchachitoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada10 Threads 165 Posts
NewtoBrandon: How do you react when you get mad? Do you throw things, break things, yell, scream?

I tend to not talk at all, or ignore them. It drives men nuts, I will talk to the person later, depending on the situation of course.


my sister in law will cry for long hours
I had never gotten mad at all
what I do is talk to the person/s and correct the situation
some times ignoring help, but will not fix the problem
Jan 17, 2010 9:21 PM CST What do you do?
Loner1960
Loner1960Loner1960St. Alphonse, Manitoba Canada15 Threads 402 Posts
NewtoBrandon: How do you react when you get mad? Do you throw things, break things, yell, scream?

I tend to not talk at all, or ignore them. It drives men nuts, I will talk to the person later, depending on the situation of course.


It depends what I'm mad about.

If it is about some event. I probably spew out a lots of words, venting my frustration.

If it because some cow kicked me. There probably be alot of @@@@, ****, %%$%$ words , and the cow will probably get a good hit with something.

But if it is a person that upset me. I probably, will bottle it up internally.
Experiance has taught me, if too much gets bottled up for too long, it will explode out somehow, and you might not want to be around for that.
Jan 18, 2010 3:11 PM CST What do you do?
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
lol.
Takes some thought to actually stop and do this but my favourite quote is
"While there are times anger may be appropriate, the next time you find yourself in conflict, remember to see the fork in the road. You can choose to respond with love and compassion or you can choose to respond with anger and rage"
Have it hanging on the wall by my computer to keep myself from turning around and hurling stuff at people who but me. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 18, 2010 3:12 PM CST What do you do?
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
who but me.

Oops bug me. Sorry.doh
Jan 18, 2010 8:29 PM CST What do you do?
sweet_russian
sweet_russiansweet_russianOrillia, Ontario Canada3 Threads 8 Posts
I tend to walk away tell i am calmed down enough to talk about it
Jan 20, 2010 1:04 AM CST What do you do?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
I tend to smile,....which believe it or not usually doesn't help matters,....(okay. maybe its more an evil smirk than a smile)
Jan 22, 2010 12:19 PM CST What do you do?
DAMIENEVIL
DAMIENEVILDAMIENEVILCalgary, Alberta Canada6 Posts
I laugh in their face and say your so not worth ruining my day for when u want to act like an mature person talk to me till them make like a ball and bounce

and to the op not talking to me when mad I would be like sweet at least I dont have to care that she is mad since she is throwing a tantrum a quiet one at that

anyone throws things at me the relationship is done then and there and they leave my house I would not care if married for 10 years we are done
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