Terrible Envy (47)
Amenda: oh...the education I got from family and school taught me that
never think too highly of yourself...so...I do never think too highly of myself
sometimes I like joking that's another kind of matter...
from the bottom of my heart...I know myself very well...I know bother of my long points and my short points very well
never think too highly of yourself...so...I do never think too highly of myself
sometimes I like joking that's another kind of matter...
from the bottom of my heart...I know myself very well...I know bother of my long points and my short points very well
but what make me happy is that I do have very nice emails which like sweet rain to water my dry heart. I do thank God so much.
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or Like if you are questioned by people at a business meeting
You could say I felt I was Dodging Bullets!
You're actually NOT dodging bullets it's a figure of speech>
Called metaphorically speaking
You could say I felt I was Dodging Bullets!
You're actually NOT dodging bullets it's a figure of speech>
Called metaphorically speaking
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Xi Jean
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Amenda: a famous saying here:
"You are envyed by others indicate you are excellent, you are a winner.
You envy others indicate you are incompetent, you are a loser."
I found myself always be envyed but the fact is that I'm not excellent. excellent person must can earn large money, I can't
Now the problem is clear:
1. I am not excellent but
2. I always be envyed
For the first question, not easy to change just like not easy to change an ugly man into handsome.
so could you pls tell me help me to slove the second one:how to avoid being envyed by others especially by those terrible person with hiding arrow.
"You are envyed by others indicate you are excellent, you are a winner.
You envy others indicate you are incompetent, you are a loser."
I found myself always be envyed but the fact is that I'm not excellent. excellent person must can earn large money, I can't
Now the problem is clear:
1. I am not excellent but
2. I always be envyed
For the first question, not easy to change just like not easy to change an ugly man into handsome.
so could you pls tell me help me to slove the second one:how to avoid being envyed by others especially by those terrible person with hiding arrow.
I think your problem, as well as most psychological problems that people face in their everyday life relationships with people stems from the sentence I have high-lit above. when you start off your life taking as a fact that an excellent person is a person who can earn large amounts of money, then the rest of your life will be based on that assumption which in my eyes is a terrible mistake.
It's other things that make up an excellent person and I'm surprised that a person like you coming from China has already become so materialistic. Try not to copy westerners 100%.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
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BlainX: Xi Jean
but still can't understand very well...
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mazar45: I think your problem, as well as most psychological problems that people face in their everyday life relationships with people stems from the sentence I have high-lit above. when you start off your life taking as a fact that an excellent person is a person who can earn large amounts of money, then the rest of your life will be based on that assumption which in my eyes is a terrible mistake.
It's other things that make up an excellent person and I'm surprised that a person like you coming from China has already become so materialistic. Try not to copy westerners 100%.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
It's other things that make up an excellent person and I'm surprised that a person like you coming from China has already become so materialistic. Try not to copy westerners 100%.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
maybe you misunderstood me again...I dont' care money that much....I said money in my post is just want to clear humbled that I'm not excellent.....------ This thread is Archived ------
Amenda: maybe you misunderstood me again...I dont' care money that much....I said money in my post is just want to clear humbled that I'm not excellent.....
If I cared money very very much...I would be very rich now...do you understand??????
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mazar45: I think your problem, as well as most psychological problems that people face in their everyday life relationships with people stems from the sentence I have high-lit above. when you start off your life taking as a fact that an excellent person is a person who can earn large amounts of money, then the rest of your life will be based on that assumption which in my eyes is a terrible mistake.
It's other things that make up an excellent person and I'm surprised that a person like you coming from China has already become so materialistic. Try not to copy westerners 100%.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
It's other things that make up an excellent person and I'm surprised that a person like you coming from China has already become so materialistic. Try not to copy westerners 100%.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
as you mentioned psychological problems...my friends say me like this: even the people all over the world had psychological problems, little li would not get that kind of problem...this is just a joking they teased me....but that indicate my heart is really wide...
but on the other hand I'm not a saint...I also lose my temper sometimes...
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I understand why I've been envied so much...they say the reason is that I was born at incorrectly time.... 
you understand?
I know you will never understand....
you understand?
I know you will never understand....
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my center question is:
how to avoid being envied too much..?
no one knows?
how to avoid being envied too much..?
no one knows?
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Don't worry about being envied. That is their problem. Concentrate yourself on being the best you can, and be happy with who you are. Avoid vanity and boastfulness, and do not announce your successes.
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Amenda: my center question is:
how to avoid being envied too much..?
no one knows?
how to avoid being envied too much..?
no one knows?
You can't control how others will think. That is up to them, so stop worrying about it and simply live your life in the way that you desire.
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Odysseus101: Don't worry about being envied. That is their problem. Concentrate yourself on being the best you can, and be happy with who you are. Avoid vanity and boastfulness, and do not announce your successes.
You said it better than me! Good job.
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mazar45:
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
If you look around, money hasn't made them any happier.
Exactly!!
No matter how much money you have...you only have one stomach to eat at daytimes, only need one bed to sleep at night.
I think most people work maybe not only for money, they enjoy their work itself.
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Odysseus101: Don't worry about being envied. That is their problem. Concentrate yourself on being the best you can, and be happy with who you are. Avoid vanity and boastfulness, and do not announce your successes.
Great!!!!!
This is what I want!!
I know you will help me and say this to me....my great teacher.
I'll never announce my successes....I promise
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langleygirl: You can't control how others will think. That is up to them, so stop worrying about it and simply live your life in the way that you desire.
Thank you sooooooomuch....
good as the great teacher said....you are also my teacher...
thank you
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Haveing money doesn't make a person an exellent person.Being warm hearted,nice to people along with respext to yourself and others.Nobody can control the way other people think of you.
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YesWho: Haveing money doesn't make a person an exellent person.Being warm hearted,nice to people along with respext to yourself and others.Nobody can control the way other people think of you.
ohhhh..yeswho...long time no see...how are you?
Yes, that's what I joking...I never thought money important...or I would not be so happy and free like this.
I don't care too much about other people think of me....just want to consider too much of others...hehe
I'm not selfish at all you know...never think of myself
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Odysseus101: Don't worry about being envied. That is their problem. Concentrate yourself on being the best you can, and be happy with who you are. Avoid vanity and boastfulness, and do not announce your successes.
but I have a question...what's successes pls?
is my daughter be counted as a success?
should I hide her and never talk about her????
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Is using a figure of speech like
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