Terrible Envy ( Archived) (47)

Jan 17, 2010 11:35 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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a famous saying here:

"You are envyed by others indicate you are excellent, you are a winner.

You envy others indicate you are incompetent, you are a loser."

I found myself always be envyed but the fact is that I'm not excellent. excellent person must can earn large money, I can't laugh

Now the problem is clear:

1. I am not excellent but
2. I always be envyed

For the first question, not easy to change just like not easy to change an ugly man into handsome.

so could you pls tell me help me to slove the second one:


how to avoid being envyed by others especially by those terrible person with hiding arrow.
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Jan 17, 2010 11:36 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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sorry, don't know if the word "envyed" is correct...maybe it's"envied'?

which is right pls?confused
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Jan 17, 2010 11:40 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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Another old Chinese saying:

It is easy to dodge a spear (gun)in the open, but hard to guard against an arrow shot from hiding.
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Jan 17, 2010 11:41 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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another kind of translation is like this:

better an open enemy than s false friend
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Jan 17, 2010 11:43 PM CST Terrible Envy
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Envied by your little brothers and sisters in something to be happy about? But Hardly enough to brag about.

BTW: True--- The more money a man has the more Power and status he may have, but he also can be a subject of jealously, rather than pure just envy?

roll eyes
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Jan 17, 2010 11:43 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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oh, the center question is still this one:

how to avoid being envyed by others ?
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Jan 17, 2010 11:46 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
BlainX: Envied by your little brothers and sisters in something to be happy about? But Hardly enough to brag about.

BTW: True--- The more money a man has the more Power and status he may have, but he also can be a subject of jealously, rather than pure just envy?


brag about? what you mean pls?

why roll your eyes like that?

speak directly pls or in another way...can't understand you very well
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Jan 17, 2010 11:47 PM CST Terrible Envy
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
We have saying "After good horse there is always dust" wink wink
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Jan 17, 2010 11:48 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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markizamkd25: We have saying "After good horse there is always dust"


wowwwwwwww, great saying indeed!! exactly
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Jan 17, 2010 11:49 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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markizamkd25: We have saying "After good horse there is always dust"


but I'm not a good horse...I'm just a little donkey!!laugh

grin sometimes, not always...laugh
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Jan 17, 2010 11:49 PM CST Terrible Envy
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Amenda: another kind of translation is like this:

better an open enemy than s false friend


The Older you get the less you care about others dispositions...

I no longer care about if a person likes me or not.
I don't need every one in this life to like me to be happy.
The Fact is this: Most like you, a few don't, I've decided to give my loyalties to those that like me.

beer


Zi jean

My friend
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Jan 17, 2010 11:51 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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markizamkd25: We have saying "After good horse there is always dust"


I'd rather to be a common horse than being envied like that.

A lot friend told me to ignore it...but easy to say hard to do.
I'm not a saint, I realy feel very upset about being envied being insulted...
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Jan 17, 2010 11:51 PM CST Terrible Envy
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Amenda: but I'm not a good horse...I'm just a little donkey!!

sometimes, not always...
Amenda: but I'm not a good horse...I'm just a little donkey!!

sometimes, not always...
Maybe you just think that wink
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Jan 17, 2010 11:52 PM CST Terrible Envy
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
Amenda: brag about? what you mean pls?

why roll your eyes like that?

speak directly pls or in another way...can't understand you very well



The rolled eyes meant nothing.

Just liked the little character.


Brag means to talk your self up.
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Jan 17, 2010 11:56 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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BlainX: The Older you get the less you care about others dispositions...

I no longer care about if a person likes me or not.
I don't need every one in this life to like me to be happy.
The Fact is this: Most like you, a few don't, I've decided to give my loyalties to those that like me.

Zi jean

My friend


very well said...thumbs up

I dare not to think how many people like me...if only no hiding arrow stab me...I do like simple peace life

sigh
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Jan 17, 2010 11:59 PM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
BlainX: The rolled eyes meant nothing.

Just liked the little character.Brag means to talk your self up.


oh dear, you know me too less, friend..

I never talk myself up...the envirment of my grew up..made me very modest...if I talk big sometimes, mostly it's joking...

you know me too less...I don't long to be understood by all people...but stopping insult me is enough.
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Jan 18, 2010 12:01 AM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
BlainX: The rolled eyes meant nothing.

Just liked the little character.Brag means to talk your self up.


whatever you say...I know myself very well...I'm modest and humble...I 've said I'm not excellent at all....I'm just a common woman who long for love
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Jan 18, 2010 12:02 AM CST Terrible Envy
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
...if only no hiding arrow stab me...I do like simple peace life
I hope U are using this statement as dodging arrows only as a metaphore?stuck hole
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Jan 18, 2010 12:04 AM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
markizamkd25: Maybe you just think that


oh...the education I got from family and school taught me that
never think too highly of yourself...so...I do never think too highly of myself

sometimes I like joking that's another kind of matter...

from the bottom of my heart...I know myself very well...I know bother of my long points and my short points very well
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Jan 18, 2010 12:05 AM CST Terrible Envy
Amenda
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BlainX: ...if only no hiding arrow stab me...I do like simple peace life
I hope U are using this statement as dodging arrows only as a metaphore?


sorry, can't understand your words even with translation software
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