There are so many red flags i don't even know where to start. At first glance I figured he was married, at second glance I figured married and crazy. After thinking about it I would say that this guy is a compulsive liar, probably married or lives in his mom's basement and is most definitely the kind of douchebag that gives the rest of us a bad name. I would never assume the right to tell you what to do as I don't even know you however, if this was happening to someone i knew and cared about i would tell her to RUN as fast and as far as she can. He is up to something and my guess is that nothing good for you can come from this. It;s just too convenient that each time he disappers for a few days he is sick, what will the excuse be a month or 6 months from now. I say stop contacting him and move on, you are an attractive woman and I'm sure you can do wayyyy better than this. That is just my opinion.
seekndestroy: does he type with a Nigerian accent ??????i cant believe yall aint catching this !!!!!
Absolutely right seek... i would bet my life savings that somewhere in the near future he is going to ask her to help him with some kind of money scam ie.. send me 1000 bucks so that i can file the paper work to get my money out of escrow and i will pay you 10K blah blah blah... he is probably runnin this game on 100 other women right now..
denmcintyre: Absolutely right seek... i would bet my life savings that somewhere in the near future he is going to ask her to help him with some kind of money scam ie.. send me 1000 bucks so that i can file the paper work to get my money out of escrow and i will pay you 10K blah blah blah... he is probably runnin this game on 100 other women right now..
Southmiami1234: He is not consistent. There is always an excuse. Declares love in two weeks is not a true thing. It sounds fishy to me. Your profile name is cautious so let it be, better let things go before it can hurt you. Good luck with your search.
When we hope it's the real thing we want to believe everything that we're told. This guy is a sad case of himself. Sounds like he's doing other things, but trying to keep you going. Tomorrow is a fresh new page to write a new chapter in your life. Good luck!!
oh he is unpractical illusion.. many things are unreal on the internet. only emails and flowers and sweet words and promises on the internet can not be called love!
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