LadyPhoenix1965: For real? Wow... Yeah, well, just cause my ex makes three times a much as I do, doesn't make him a better parent. And just cause I live in a meager home, doesn't mean it's bug infested, dirty or that I allow low lifes to be part of my children's lives.
I didn't say that--. Please don't try to make it seem I'm saying something I'm not. What I have identified IS valid, and I realize it doesn't mean that everyone who has less money is this way. It was not necessary for you to be defensive--this wasn't about YOU.
LadyPhoenix1965: You're right.... I'm feeling sensitive about this issue at the moment as my ex comes up with a new threat almost weekly to sue me for full custody, ever since he married a bimbo who doesn't want to birth her own...
I understand, and I am sure you are a good mom. Please accept my sympathy and wishes for fairness for you. I believe you, and believe you are getting the crappy end of the stick. Like I said, the post is about me wanting to stand up for guys who deserve to be stood up for--not to be against women who ARE good mothers. get it now?
rohaan: I understand, and I am sure you are a good mom. Please accept my sympathy and wishes for fairness for you. I believe you, and believe you are getting the crappy end of the stick. Like I said, the post is about me wanting to stand up for guys who deserve to be stood up for--not to be against women who ARE good mothers. get it now?
No, you're right. I'm sorry. Just let some of the bitterness escape for half a second...
There are good men out there that deserve a chance to parent their kids. People are people, nothing to do with gender, and some people use situations to cause others pain. That it should be about the children is just a crime.
Is it wrong to wish that their house would burn down so that they would have to move out of the school district...???
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
I feel very sad for the children who often end up being used in these bitter custody battles, like piggy in the middle. And parents call themselves responsible.....
LadyPhoenix1965: No, you're right. I'm sorry. Just let some of the bitterness escape for half a second...
There are good men out there that deserve a chance to parent their kids. People are people, nothing to do with gender, and some people use situations to cause others pain. That it should be about the children is just a crime.
Is it wrong to wish that their house would burn down so that they would have to move out of the school district...???
Now take it easy... it is only natural to be righteously angry at something that gave you pain and sadness. Try to remember that Karma is a very real thing, and take to heart this saying: The mill of Heaven grinds slow but fine". Also--"He who sows the wind shall reap the whirlwind". "He that diggeth a hole shall fall therein". There's some mighty kickass on the way to the ones who have it coming. Let God do His job. He's much better at it than we are! By the way--I like who you are. No apology was necessary, love, you have just as much right as any one else to vent. It's cool
rohaan: Now take it easy... it is only natural to be righteously angry at something that gave you pain and sadness. Try to remember that Karma is a very real thing, and take to heart this saying: The mill of Heaven grinds slow but fine". Also--"He who sows the wind shall reap the whirlwind". "He that diggeth a hole shall fall therein". There's some mighty kickass on the way to the ones who have it coming. Let God do His job. He's much better at it than we are! By the way--I like who you are. No apology was necessary, love, you have just as much right as any one else to vent. It's cool
LadyPhoenix1965: No, you're right. I'm sorry. Just let some of the bitterness escape for half a second...
There are good men out there that deserve a chance to parent their kids. People are people, nothing to do with gender, and some people use situations to cause others pain. That it should be about the children is just a crime.
Is it wrong to wish that their house would burn down so that they would have to move out of the school district...???
here is a massive(((((((hug)))))))...from one mum to another...
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