you will know after being together for over 20 yrs and can still hold hands in public and look at each other and see the person you fell in love with still.
Magic666: you will know after being together for over 20 yrs and can still hold hands in public and look at each other and see the person you fell in love with still.
Don't look at only words, look at *all* their actions...what their body, hands, and their eyes say (it's hard for eyes to lie), what they do and don't do, how they act around other people, what your heart is telling you...love needs time to reveal itself completely.
When someone doesn't really love you, little clues will come...if they do, pay attention to them. The heart tends to keep holding on even when it knows better.
Hope your love is returned and you don't get hurt badly again.
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Magic666: you will know after being together for over 20 yrs and can still hold hands in public and look at each other and see the person you fell in love with still.
I DO NOT HAVE 20 YEARS..... I GAVE 27 ...AND THEN SHE FOUND ANOTHER... SO I MUST HAVE FAILED TO MEET HER NEEDS ...
BUT I AM HAPPY NOW ..I JUST AM LOOKING TO SORT OUT MY FEELINGS AND I GUESS I AM AFRAID TO TRUST...AND SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME SO MUCH .... I SHOULD HAVE POSTED THIS UNDER THE ADVICE CATEGORY
nobody knows how much time they have with someone or how it will end all you can do now my friend is live in the moment and enjoy ,,life is to short to worry about should I or shouldnt I no one wants to live with what ifs............. if one things for sure in this life it is death so fill what time you have with all things good and forget about the what ifs because you will try and see for yourself what will be..... you may have some regrets but Im sure there will be more satifactions in knowing you at least tried most ppl today never even get the courage to do that even and thats where the what ifs come in so if you can live a few let downs to gain even more rewards I think it is all worth it in the end...
mossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK194 posts
phoenixrising1: I DO NOT HAVE 20 YEARS..... I GAVE 27 ...AND THEN SHE FOUND ANOTHER... SO I MUST HAVE FAILED TO MEET HER NEEDS ...
BUT I AM HAPPY NOW ..I JUST AM LOOKING TO SORT OUT MY FEELINGS AND I GUESS I AM AFRAID TO TRUST...AND SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME SO MUCH .... I SHOULD HAVE POSTED THIS UNDER THE ADVICE CATEGORY
I know you like to seek love in far off lands by reading your older posts....and why not ! But if your new love lives in one of these far off lands Do she just love you as her rescuer from a far from perfect life , or do she love you as a man! alas most of the time it will be as the rescuer
mossopw: I know you like to seek love in far off lands by reading your older posts....and why not ! But if your new love lives in one of these far off lands Do she just love you as her rescuer from a far from perfect life , or do she love you as a man! alas most of the time it will be as the rescuer
I came here for love now Im stuck here so just one word of advice when moving to another country make sure you keeps your ties back home just in case.......
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
calmheartseeks: Don't look at only words, look at *all* their actions...what their body, hands, and their eyes say (it's hard for eyes to lie), what they do and don't do, how they act around other people, what your heart is telling you...love needs time to reveal itself completely.
When someone doesn't really love you, little clues will come...if they do, pay attention to them. The heart tends to keep holding on even when it knows better.
Hope your love is returned and you don't get hurt badly again.
THANK YOU SO MUCH MY FRIEND ,,,I REALLY NEEDED THAT
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Magic666: nobody knows how much time they have with someone or how it will end all you can do now my friend is live in the moment and enjoy ,,life is to short to worry about should I or shouldnt I no one wants to live with what ifs............. if one things for sure in this life it is death so fill what time you have with all things good and forget about the what ifs because you will try and see for yourself what will be..... you may have some regrets but Im sure there will be more satifactions in knowing you at least tried most ppl today never even get the courage to do that even and thats where the what ifs come in so if you can live a few let downs to gain even more rewards I think it is all worth it in the end...
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT MY FRIEND.... VERY WISE AND TRUE WORDS.
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