I don't think you can tell whether someone really loves or not.I think it's a risk you take when you enter into a relationship.There are no guarantees in life.
Magic666: nobody knows how much time they have with someone or how it will end all you can do now my friend is live in the moment and enjoy ,,life is to short to worry about should I or shouldnt I no one wants to live with what ifs............. if one things for sure in this life it is death so fill what time you have with all things good and forget about the what ifs because you will try and see for yourself what will be..... you may have some regrets but Im sure there will be more satifactions in knowing you at least tried most ppl today never even get the courage to do that even and thats where the what ifs come in so if you can live a few let downs to gain even more rewards I think it is all worth it in the end...
Magic666: you will know after being together for over 20 yrs and can still hold hands in public and look at each other and see the person you fell in love with still.
In response to: ONCE YOU FIND SOMEONE SPECIAL ...HOW TO KNOW IF ITS TRUE LOVE...ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE BEEN DEEPLY HURT BEFORE?
It's when you are willing, and wanting, to give all to that person, not holding anything back. Wanting only to please them. Being willing to take that risk. And you will know if the other person is doing it too.
phoenixrising1: I SEE LOVE AS A CHOICE...A COMMITMENT...MY MOTHER SAYS ,,,LOVE IS IN THE MOMENT..
I too see love as a choice; a decision to make the commitment. Holding your mother in the highest regard, I must say that lust is more of an "in the moment" feeling
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Hi K.
I think only time will tell if it's "true love" as there are no hard and fast rules to that question.
We all find love in different ways and show that love differently too.
Go with the flow, accept the now, and try not to question your's or her feelings... that can lead to trouble..
Wish you well and enjoy it !