Devastated....Heartbroken... ( Archived) (63)

Feb 26, 2010 2:59 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
I met my PERFECT match on this Site...
We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!crying
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Feb 26, 2010 3:01 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
sindhiboy1
sindhiboy1sindhiboy1Sindh, Pakistan49 Threads 15 Polls 880 Posts
Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site...
We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!
you cannot spend your life together becoz he is not intrested so best way is to let each other go ...wine wine
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Feb 26, 2010 3:04 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site...
We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!


Then apparently he is not your PERFECT match, bow out before you get hurt. There is someone who is your PERFECT match and will want to commit, just wait. Good luck sweetie! bouquet
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Feb 26, 2010 3:06 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
sindhiboy1: you cannot spend your life together becoz he is not intrested so best way is to let each other go ...


I suppose I did´nt explain this well enough, he still keeps in touch with me every day...looks at my Profile, sends me Flowers....I am baffled....what should I do???????'confused
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Feb 26, 2010 3:07 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
best you know now than a year down the linecomfort
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Feb 26, 2010 3:09 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
crazyblondeone: Then apparently he is not your PERFECT match, bow out before you get hurt. There is someone who is your PERFECT match and will want to commit, just wait. Good luck sweetie!

Gosh, thanks for answering...but you know the feeling...like when he is confused maybe...if not he would not follow me all the time.....bouquet
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Feb 26, 2010 3:12 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
caspatch: best you know now than a year down the line

A whole YEAR.....not even in his dreams would I wait so long!!!!!
Should I just tell him to go and take a Hike???????
I don´t want to...I am in heart wings
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Feb 26, 2010 3:14 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
Sorry if he dont feel the same... but if I was you I would dump in, hug
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Feb 26, 2010 3:16 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site...
We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!


Sorry but it if you want to commit and he doesnt then he really isnt your perfect match. Perhaps the next time you meet you should discuss it with him.
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Feb 26, 2010 3:16 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
weeboomboom
weeboomboomweeboomboomglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6 Threads 347 Posts
why dont you discuss this with him..dunno
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Feb 26, 2010 3:16 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
He is here to meet coochy. Doesn't want a relationship.

Drop him and find someone who is here for the right reasons.
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Feb 26, 2010 3:17 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: Sorry if he dont feel the same... but if I was you I would dump in,

Thanks...and yes I feel like doing that, but why does he follow me around still?????
As I said...I am totally baffled we hit it off so well!!!!!
It was HEAVEN for both of usheart beating
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Feb 26, 2010 3:18 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
weeboomboom: why dont you discuss this with him..

I have tried...he says he is not ready......very odd, right?bouquet
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Feb 26, 2010 3:19 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Iseult_1
Iseult_1Iseult_1Baile Atha Claith, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 325 Posts
Catsy: A whole YEAR.....not even in his dreams would I wait so long!!!!!
Should I just tell him to go and take a Hike???????
I don´t want to...I am in


Take a step back... am not really sure what you want him to commit to.... ie; marriage or just staying celibate with you - I presume you have told him how you feel. Guys are just like us ... they are rarely confused if they really want something.... As for sending you flowers, following your profile - he could just be keeping his options open. You are probably the only one who can make a decision here...... he will probably just continue on seeing you without one.....
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Feb 26, 2010 3:20 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
DazzleYou: He is here to meet coochy. Doesn't want a relationship.

Drop him and find someone who is here for the right reasons.

Thanks, it´s always good to have replies from Men and Women!doh
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Feb 26, 2010 3:22 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
weeboomboom
weeboomboomweeboomboomglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6 Threads 347 Posts
without knowing the ins an outs of your relationship I cant reall comment Catsy but I do think only he can answer your question..if he`s not ready then there is not a lot you can do about it ..try just accepting his decision ..you never know he may just miss you more than he thinks...hug
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Feb 26, 2010 3:23 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Iseult_1: Take a step back... am not really sure what you want him to commit to.... ie; marriage or just staying celibate with you - I presume you have told him how you feel. Guys are just like us ... they are rarely confused if they really want something.... As for sending you flowers, following your profile - he could just be keeping his options open. You are probably the only one who can make a decision here...... he will probably just continue on seeing you without one.....

I liked your reply. thanks.....good points.....
You know us Girls/Women, when we are in love, we tend not to see all this...THANKS!kiss
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Feb 26, 2010 3:25 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
weeboomboom: without knowing the ins an outs of your relationship I cant reall comment Catsy but I do think only he can answer your question..if he`s not ready then there is not a lot you can do about it ..try just accepting his decision ..you never know he may just miss you more than he thinks...

Thats exactly what I am hoping for....THANKS...teddybear
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Feb 26, 2010 3:26 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Looking at your profile could mean anything, including that he is a stalker or a scammer.

Have you looked in the mirror lately? You are a very good looking woman. Of course men will look. Doesn't mean you will want to end up with all of them.

If any man doesn't think you good enough to commit, then dump him. You already know this. You are just lookig for confirmation.

Now write that "dear john" letter.......comfort
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Feb 26, 2010 3:27 PM CST Devastated....Heartbroken...
DarkStarne
DarkStarneDarkStarneChesterfield Twp., Michigan USA1 Threads 3 Posts
That's rough but unfortunately there is no way you can force it. If you really think he's worth waiting for then take things one day at a time, otherwise be friends and look to the next in line.sad flower
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