Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site... We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit... What should I do?? HELP!
Then apparently he is not your PERFECT match, bow out before you get hurt. There is someone who is your PERFECT match and will want to commit, just wait. Good luck sweetie!
sindhiboy1: you cannot spend your life together becoz he is not intrested so best way is to let each other go ...
I suppose I did´nt explain this well enough, he still keeps in touch with me every day...looks at my Profile, sends me Flowers....I am baffled....what should I do???????'
crazyblondeone: Then apparently he is not your PERFECT match, bow out before you get hurt. There is someone who is your PERFECT match and will want to commit, just wait. Good luck sweetie!
Gosh, thanks for answering...but you know the feeling...like when he is confused maybe...if not he would not follow me all the time.....
Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site... We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit... What should I do?? HELP!
Sorry but it if you want to commit and he doesnt then he really isnt your perfect match. Perhaps the next time you meet you should discuss it with him.
xxfrecklesxx: Sorry if he dont feel the same... but if I was you I would dump in,
Thanks...and yes I feel like doing that, but why does he follow me around still????? As I said...I am totally baffled we hit it off so well!!!!! It was HEAVEN for both of us
Catsy: A whole YEAR.....not even in his dreams would I wait so long!!!!! Should I just tell him to go and take a Hike??????? I don´t want to...I am in
Take a step back... am not really sure what you want him to commit to.... ie; marriage or just staying celibate with you - I presume you have told him how you feel. Guys are just like us ... they are rarely confused if they really want something.... As for sending you flowers, following your profile - he could just be keeping his options open. You are probably the only one who can make a decision here...... he will probably just continue on seeing you without one.....
without knowing the ins an outs of your relationship I cant reall comment Catsy but I do think only he can answer your question..if he`s not ready then there is not a lot you can do about it ..try just accepting his decision ..you never know he may just miss you more than he thinks...
Iseult_1: Take a step back... am not really sure what you want him to commit to.... ie; marriage or just staying celibate with you - I presume you have told him how you feel. Guys are just like us ... they are rarely confused if they really want something.... As for sending you flowers, following your profile - he could just be keeping his options open. You are probably the only one who can make a decision here...... he will probably just continue on seeing you without one.....
I liked your reply. thanks.....good points..... You know us Girls/Women, when we are in love, we tend not to see all this...THANKS!
weeboomboom: without knowing the ins an outs of your relationship I cant reall comment Catsy but I do think only he can answer your question..if he`s not ready then there is not a lot you can do about it ..try just accepting his decision ..you never know he may just miss you more than he thinks...
Looking at your profile could mean anything, including that he is a stalker or a scammer.
Have you looked in the mirror lately? You are a very good looking woman. Of course men will look. Doesn't mean you will want to end up with all of them.
If any man doesn't think you good enough to commit, then dump him. You already know this. You are just lookig for confirmation.
That's rough but unfortunately there is no way you can force it. If you really think he's worth waiting for then take things one day at a time, otherwise be friends and look to the next in line.
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We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!