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Catsy: I liked your reply. thanks.....good points.....
You know us Girls/Women, when we are in love, we tend not to see all this...THANKS!
You know us Girls/Women, when we are in love, we tend not to see all this...THANKS!
Yes.... the luv bug makes us do all sorts of silly things...... You should go out and date a few other guys now too (line them up girl) ....... nothing heavy..... you never know.... you may find someone you actually like. Good luck
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GingerBe: Looking at your profile could mean anything, including that he is a stalker or a scammer.
Have you looked in the mirror lately? You are a very good looking woman. Of course men will look. Doesn't mean you will want to end up with all of them.
If any man doesn't think you good enough to commit, then dump him. You already know this. You are just lookig for confirmation.
Now write that "dear john" letter.......
Have you looked in the mirror lately? You are a very good looking woman. Of course men will look. Doesn't mean you will want to end up with all of them.
If any man doesn't think you good enough to commit, then dump him. You already know this. You are just lookig for confirmation.
Now write that "dear john" letter.......
Thank you very much for your Compliments, we do live in different Countries, and we did spend two weeks together...this is why I do not understand him?!
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Iseult_1: Yes.... the luv bug makes us do all sorts of silly things...... You should go out and date a few other guys now too (line them up girl) ....... nothing heavy..... you never know.... you may find someone you actually like. Good luck
Thanks Sweetie...I will try...rather hard...
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Catsy: Thank you very much for your Compliments, we do live in different Countries, and we did spend two weeks together...this is why I do not understand him?!
Two different countries, a two week romp and you want him to commit to what? moving where you are? You moving where he is?
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
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redkayak: Two different countries, a two week romp and you want him to commit to what? moving where you are? You moving where he is?
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
Perspective.......
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redkayak: Perspective.......
Actually...the STORY is longer, we have been in touch on a DAILY basis for over a YEAR...any other questions, Sir?
Talking on the Phone, and finally meeting...so....365 days plus....and spending two weeks together, plus his continous Flowers e mails Daily....
Why does a Man do that?
Any idea?
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jbibiza: You haven't said how long you have been in contact or how many times you've met...
If you've spent a couple of weeks chatting and met once.... then all of a sudden you are supposed to be in a full blown committed relationship???
What happened to taking your time, dating, getting to know each other?
What's the hurry?
If you've spent a couple of weeks chatting and met once.... then all of a sudden you are supposed to be in a full blown committed relationship???
What happened to taking your time, dating, getting to know each other?
What's the hurry?
As I...
And...the two weeks were fantastic!!!!! stated below, this has not been a "fast" thing...we Talked for over one Year, wrote to each other every day....then, finally met....yes we Live in different Countries, but we spent TWO whole weeks together, and he still follows me around
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Well, I am one of those people that wear their heart on their sleeve. I believe that both sides should be honest and very open with one another. So I would just say to ask him outright, so you both know where you stand. As for sending flowers on here, I wouldn't consider that very important in such a relationship really. I get flowers on a daily basis from several people on here (which I really love receiving) but we are just friends. It just means that they are thinking about you.
Be careful
Be careful
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the only thing i can say is --- if he wanted to comit he would move heavin and earth to be with u.
it is hard standing where u are when you are thinking with ur heart and can not see where his is.
maybe he is afraid of getting hurt? or hurting u?
i wish u good luck in finding reason for this and if it is ment to be it will be --- dont put ur life on hold untill he is ready
it is hard standing where u are when you are thinking with ur heart and can not see where his is.
maybe he is afraid of getting hurt? or hurting u?
i wish u good luck in finding reason for this and if it is ment to be it will be --- dont put ur life on hold untill he is ready
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bladeznz: the only thing i can say is --- if he wanted to comit he would move heavin and earth to be with u.
it is hard standing where u are when you are thinking with ur heart and can not see where his is.
maybe he is afraid of getting hurt? or hurting u?
i wish u good luck in finding reason for this and if it is ment to be it will be --- dont put ur life on hold untill he is ready
it is hard standing where u are when you are thinking with ur heart and can not see where his is.
maybe he is afraid of getting hurt? or hurting u?
i wish u good luck in finding reason for this and if it is ment to be it will be --- dont put ur life on hold untill he is ready
THANKS a bunch for your Feedback, I like reading opinions from both Men and Women...
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Catsy: I met my PERFECT match on this Site...
We hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!
Either you can wait until he thinks he is ready to commit or move on not so perfect after all dont want what you want and some men say they dont want to commit because they want to keep their options open and commit to someone else just not youWe hit it off GREAT...but he is not willing to Commit...
What should I do?? HELP!
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lovely4u7da: Either you can wait until he thinks he is ready to commit or move on not so perfect after all dont want what you want and some men say they dont want to commit because they want to keep their options open and commit to someone else just not you
Thanks for your Reply.......
I still have no idea what I will do, but all the same THANKS!
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Catsy: Actually...the STORY is longer, we have been in touch on a DAILY basis for over a YEAR...any other questions, Sir?
Talking on the Phone, and finally meeting...so....365 days plus....and spending two weeks together, plus his continous Flowers e mails Daily....
Why does a Man do that?
Any idea?
Talking on the Phone, and finally meeting...so....365 days plus....and spending two weeks together, plus his continous Flowers e mails Daily....
Why does a Man do that?
Any idea?
Yes, the question I originally asked
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
Moving where you are? You moving to him? What are you looking for a commitment to?.
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redkayak: Yes, the question I originally asked
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
Moving where you are? You moving to him? What are you looking for a commitment to?.
Tell us what the heck you want him to "COMMIT" To?????
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspectice...
Moving where you are? You moving to him? What are you looking for a commitment to?.
Men are not mind readers......
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redkayak: Men are not mind readers...... And my clairvoyance isn't working today...
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redkayak: Men are not mind readers...... And my clairvoyance isn't working today...
Answer this question and I'll give you the male perspective...
Moving where you are? You moving to him? What are you looking for a commitment to?.
You seem to be evading this question which leads me to think this whole story may not be real...Hmmmmmmmmmm...
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redkayak: Men are not mind readers...... And my clairvoyance isn't working today...
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, after all my Explaining as you ordered....no Reply.....???? ODD?
No worries, and THANKS to all for your Feedback!
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I thought I was the one !! 
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If you've spent a couple of weeks chatting and met once.... then all of a sudden you are supposed to be in a full blown committed relationship???
What happened to taking your time, dating, getting to know each other?
What's the hurry?