She has a list. He must not smoke.Like da i cant quit for the right person.Facial hair is a deal breaker.Like da i cant shave for the right person.He must have all of his real teeth like there is something wrong with my parcial!He must not be fat like most women are over weight there self!He must me wealthy;but she is not a harlot! Oh boy i can just hear it now WWhy would i change for some one that i cared about? We call that Outward change;Not inward change!If there is something about me that i cant change on the out side for the person i care about Then there is no such thing as Love or soul mate,and is the figment of ones imagination.Next you ladies will be telling us how endowed we should be down there to fit your scale or list of things a man must have,and must not have! And at last the statement was made by some i think...The grass is allways greener on the other side ....
conjor: She has a list. He must not smoke.Like da i cant quit for the right person.Facial hair is a deal breaker.Like da i cant shave for the right person.He must have all of his real teeth like there is something wrong with my parcial!He must not be fat like most women are over weight there self!He must me wealthy;but she is not a harlot! Oh boy i can just hear it now WWhy would i change for some one that i cared about? We call that Outward change;Not inward change!If there is something about me that i cant change on the out side for the person i care about Then there is no such thing as Love or soul mate,and is the figment of ones imagination.Next you ladies will be telling us how endowed we should be down there to fit your scale or list of things a man must have,and must not have! And at last the statement was made by some i think...The grass is allways greener on the other side ....
Hey C. How's it going? Stirring it tonigt, are `ya?
Perhaps you should just say to hell with them and get a dog and a blow up doll.....The dog for unconditional love and the doll for unconditional love.........
conjor: She has a list. He must not smoke.Like da i cant quit for the right person.Facial hair is a deal breaker.Like da i cant shave for the right person.He must have all of his real teeth like there is something wrong with my parcial!He must not be fat like most women are over weight there self!He must me wealthy;but she is not a harlot! Oh boy i can just hear it now WWhy would i change for some one that i cared about? We call that Outward change;Not inward change!If there is something about me that i cant change on the out side for the person i care about Then there is no such thing as Love or soul mate,and is the figment of ones imagination.Next you ladies will be telling us how endowed we should be down there to fit your scale or list of things a man must have,and must not have! And at last the statement was made by some i think...The grass is allways greener on the other side ....
A good heart will attract one ...... if this is all you see, what are you sending out? Negativity will attract the same.
Different strokes for different folks, I suppose. If we all went for everything, accepted everything, about someone, what would make them special to us, individually? I call that settling. A person is attracted to different things & turned off by different things. It's human nature.
conjor: I dont recall reading your profile to see what your list of requirements are so i will have to check that out sometime..
Please don't bother yourself .... you totally missed the point anyways in that someone isn't a list, so stop trying to be that and fit. Simply be yourself and find someone who appreciates you for simply being you. What each person values for their life will differ, so should everyone compromise what is important to them? I don't believe so.
Don't equate "healthy" choices as being negative - its about each person choosing what they desire for themselves.
langleygirl: Please don't bother yourself .... you totally missed the point anyways in that someone isn't a list, so stop trying to be that and fit. Simply be yourself and find someone who appreciates you for simply being you. What each person values for their life will differ, so should everyone compromise what is important to them? I don't believe so.
Don't equate "healthy" choices as being negative - its about each person choosing what they desire for themselves.
conjor: She has a list. He must not smoke.Like da i cant quit for the right person.Facial hair is a deal breaker.Like da i cant shave for the right person.He must have all of his real teeth like there is something wrong with my parcial!He must not be fat like most women are over weight there self!He must me wealthy;but she is not a harlot! Oh boy i can just hear it now WWhy would i change for some one that i cared about? We call that Outward change;Not inward change!If there is something about me that i cant change on the out side for the person i care about Then there is no such thing as Love or soul mate,and is the figment of ones imagination.Next you ladies will be telling us how endowed we should be down there to fit your scale or list of things a man must have,and must not have! And at last the statement was made by some i think...The grass is allways greener on the other side ....
anyone who has a list is a loser and should be ignored...here's to all the real people out there..
conjor: She has a list. He must not smoke.Like da i cant quit for the right person.Facial hair is a deal breaker.Like da i cant shave for the right person.He must have all of his real teeth like there is something wrong with my parcial!He must not be fat like most women are over weight there self!He must me wealthy;but she is not a harlot! Oh boy i can just hear it now WWhy would i change for some one that i cared about? We call that Outward change;Not inward change!If there is something about me that i cant change on the out side for the person i care about Then there is no such thing as Love or soul mate,and is the figment of ones imagination.Next you ladies will be telling us how endowed we should be down there to fit your scale or list of things a man must have,and must not have! And at last the statement was made by some i think...The grass is allways greener on the other side ....
langleygirl: Please don't bother yourself .... you totally missed the point anyways in that someone isn't a list, so stop trying to be that and fit. Simply be yourself and find someone who appreciates you for simply being you. What each person values for their life will differ, so should everyone compromise what is important to them? I don't believe so.
Don't equate "healthy" choices as being negative - its about each person choosing what they desire for themselves.
You choose what you desire for yourself,and what you can consume upon your own lust yet you wonder why some women are nothing more than victom's? It is because Some men allready know what you want,and gives them a heads up on how to use you as well!So what you are saying is that your kind of Love has it's limits!No grace,and no heart.It is just all about you,and what you want!Sure every one wants something nice;but what happenes when you dont have what they want,and you are the one crying?Then it is suppose to matter?????
sweetowen: Different strokes for different folks, I suppose. If we all went for everything, accepted everything, about someone, what would make them special to us, individually? I call that settling. A person is attracted to different things & turned off by different things. It's human nature.
Yea ;I was turned off just by your appearence right from the start! That dose not mean that you do not have a good heart that i could love!
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