How do you show a women total devotion. (147)
felixis99simplicity, Ohio USA139 Threads 2 Polls 13,363 Postswillubmine1949: Take it from an old fellow be there for her when ever she needs emotional support,be truthful to her,give her no reason to mistrust you in any way.works for me.
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jlw45: your mother was a gypsie king ??...does she have a beard ?...if so, it could meet my fathers beard....we can arrange it by hairmail...
Urrgghh...!!
Joel, you need to get some more expensive Christmas crackers this year, darling....As for the beard.... alas, I'm afraid I inherited it, though I do keep on top of it, to be honest. So, don't worry, its no competition for yours.....
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conjor: You empty your wallet,and give her all your cedit cards,and your bank account number,,Silly...
and..... Then go Naked.
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roseofsharon: Hmmmm....
Best of luck.... I think you're gonna need it!
Best of luck.... I think you're gonna need it!
It's just that word "total" Rose.
I've been down that road before and the more I tried to please her the more she demanded. Meanwhile she was putting as little as possible into the relationship.
Both parties should realize that they can't expect any more devotion and effort from their mate than they themselves are willing to give. And that's always far short of "total".
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willubmine1949: Take it from an old fellow be there for her when ever she needs emotional support,be truthful to her,give her no reason to mistrust you in any way.works for me.
Ohh, how lovely!
A true gentleman.And wadda ya mean "old fellow"? Don't under-value yourself, my friend!
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In response to: How do you give a women your total devotion without losing yourself, and if you try to keep some of yourself are you emotionally unavailable? Your thoughts on the matter?
Well, it's not about anything except being mature. Normal behaviour, such as, respect, consideration, empathy, equality, admiration and care. One doesn't have to lose oneself to nourish, or show love. It is what it is in my book. If you can't give enough, or the other wants more than you can give, you obviously aren't with the right person.
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RayfromUSA: It's just that word "total" Rose.
I've been down that road before and the more I tried to please her the more she demanded. Meanwhile she was putting as little as possible into the relationship.
Both parties should realize that they can't expect any more devotion and effort from their mate than they themselves are willing to give. And that's always far short of "total".
I've been down that road before and the more I tried to please her the more she demanded. Meanwhile she was putting as little as possible into the relationship.
Both parties should realize that they can't expect any more devotion and effort from their mate than they themselves are willing to give. And that's always far short of "total".
Sadly, there ARE those that do that, Ray. Of both genders. Be more selective about your women?
My ex was.... well, never mind. But I am not going to base future relationships on ONE person, ONE relationship and ONE experience... that would be ridiculous!
If you are not open-minded, you are not maximising your receptiveness to future opportunities that come your way, surely?
You are an intelligent man, and a nice man, by all accounts... don't restrict your chances and deny yourself, or sabotage, the chance of happiness, eh?
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jlw45: muaah, backatcha'...
"as it turns out, my father was a gypsie king and my mother an indian princess"....
something like that...
How fascinating! Do Tell?"as it turns out, my father was a gypsie king and my mother an indian princess"....
something like that...
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Blues63: Well, it's not about anything except being mature. Normal behaviour, such as, respect, consideration, empathy, equality, admiration and care. One doesn't have to lose oneself to nourish, or show love. It is what it is in my book. If you can't give enough, or the other wants more than you can give, you obviously aren't with the right person.
yes, nice post. when I refer to loss of self I refer to the welcome and volntary "oneness" of the couple ~ that is perhaps a more spiritual definition than some will allow, alas, and I'm not even that religious!------ This thread is Archived ------
jlw45: ...
luv ya jlw45
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roseofsharon: Urrgghh...!! Joel, you need to get some more expensive Christmas crackers this year, darling....
As for the beard.... alas, I'm afraid I inherited it, though I do keep on top of it, to be honest. So, don't worry, its no competition for yours.....
As for the beard.... alas, I'm afraid I inherited it, though I do keep on top of it, to be honest. So, don't worry, its no competition for yours.....
"more expensive christmas crackers" ....you did'nt inerit a beard
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felixis99: How fascinating! Do Tell?
it was a line from weithering heights... 
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felixis99: luv ya jlw45
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jlw45: it was a line from weithering heights...
ya, I only saw the movie------ This thread is Archived ------
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felixis99: ya, I only saw the movie
yea, me too...i'm still waiting for "war and peace" to come out at the movies too....
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Pocoloco44: Bob,
If you accept her "As Is" and she accepts you "As Is" I don't think either one of you will lose your selves. being Devoted doesn't mean giving up your self, but rather in my opinion, it simply means being aware of each other's needs, responding to them and blending your lives together. Complimenting the situation, not Complicating it. To me devotion is two people understanding what they have, and sharing it unselfishly with each other.
Best of luck to you..
If you accept her "As Is" and she accepts you "As Is" I don't think either one of you will lose your selves. being Devoted doesn't mean giving up your self, but rather in my opinion, it simply means being aware of each other's needs, responding to them and blending your lives together. Complimenting the situation, not Complicating it. To me devotion is two people understanding what they have, and sharing it unselfishly with each other.
Best of luck to you..
Ive seen your posts..and dont let the cynics get you down...muy bien amiga...palabras bonitas
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solsticemoon: Ive seen your posts..and dont let the cynics get you down...muy bien amiga...palabras bonitas
whoops..muchos vina ,,amigo!!!
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solsticemoon: Ive seen your posts..and dont let the cynics get you down...muy bien amiga...palabras bonitas
Unbelievable
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Blues63: Well, it's not about anything except being mature. Normal behaviour, such as, respect, consideration, empathy, equality, admiration and care. One doesn't have to lose oneself to nourish, or show love. It is what it is in my book. If you can't give enough, or the other wants more than you can give, you obviously aren't with the right person.
Good response Blues
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