what was (47)
kidatheart: Can't say I've ever had a bad date. No dates at all = no bad dates.
but then nothing ventured nothing gained.
kidatheart: Can't say I've ever had a bad date. No dates at all = no bad dates.
I cant say cos CS was responsible for it...
oxfordenglish: You see that could be a valid reason for a date not going well if YOU didn't have a drink. You would be nervous and stuff like you said. But if the other person is a non drinker they are probably confident and would not be nervous?
Also non drinkers still socialise in pubs. My friends and me are always in the pub and my mate who doesn't drink just has 7up. He is the best craic out of us all. You are making all non drinkers out to be boring and sort of wall flowers in that statement I think?
very true my sis is the same cant drink because of a medical condition but she don't miss what she never had and she is a good laugh, to be honest i think ANYONE who needs drink to talk may have a problemAlso non drinkers still socialise in pubs. My friends and me are always in the pub and my mate who doesn't drink just has 7up. He is the best craic out of us all. You are making all non drinkers out to be boring and sort of wall flowers in that statement I think?
my worse date was after a few dates with one person, it just wasn't working out and so i said so.. the guy turned phycho and i ended up having to report him to the guards as he threatened myself and worse still my kids
reckon that qualifies!
reckon that qualifies!
Crystal29: I cant say cos CS was responsible for it...
Ah come on....spill.
oxfordenglish: You see that could be a valid reason for a date not going well if YOU didn't have a drink. You would be nervous and stuff like you said. But if the other person is a non drinker they are probably confident and would not be nervous?
Also non drinkers still socialise in pubs. My friends and me are always in the pub and my mate who doesn't drink just has 7up. He is the best craic out of us all. You are making all non drinkers out to be boring and sort of wall flowers in that statement I think?
Also non drinkers still socialise in pubs. My friends and me are always in the pub and my mate who doesn't drink just has 7up. He is the best craic out of us all. You are making all non drinkers out to be boring and sort of wall flowers in that statement I think?
As was said, fair play to non-drinkers who can have the craic and relax. I think the point was in some situations with some people, a drink can calm jitters on a first date. Its not a judgement either way. First dates can cause nervousness. Good for anyone that can relax straight away.
jimbo79: very true my sis is the same cant drink because of a medical condition but she don't miss what she never had and she is a good laugh, to be honest i think ANYONE who needs drink to talk may have a problem
Yes. I love a drink but I think it's sad the way a lot of people automatically think someone is boring because they don't drink.
Some people can't drink for medical or health reason and some just don't want to drink. Doesn't make them bad company or boring though.
oxfordenglish: Ah come on....spill.
Nope..my lips are sealed....
Fraya: As was said, fair play to non-drinkers who can have the craic and relax. I think the point was in some situations with some people, a drink can calm jitters on a first date. Its not a judgement either way. First dates can cause nervousness. Good for anyone that can relax straight away.
I agree but why would that stop you dating a non drinker?
Just because they don't have a drink does not mean you can't have one.
jimbo79: your worst dating experience ??
dont think i had any really,,,,,,,,cause id talk 2 the devil himself,,,, takingthechance: my worse date was after a few dates with one person, it just wasn't working out and so i said so.. the guy turned phycho and i ended up having to report him to the guards as he threatened myself and worse still my kids
reckon that qualifies!
reckon that qualifies!
oxfordenglish: Yes. I love a drink but I think it's sad the way a lot of people automatically think someone is boring because they don't drink.
Some people can't drink for medical or health reason and some just don't want to drink. Doesn't make them bad company or boring though.
i like a drink myself and know lots of people who for various reasons don't drink i find them great company, i know alot who drink that would bore you to tears repeating themselves when drunkSome people can't drink for medical or health reason and some just don't want to drink. Doesn't make them bad company or boring though.
oxfordenglish: I agree but why would that stop you dating a non drinker? Just because they don't have a drink does not mean you can't have one.
Of course not, its a choice and personal preference like any other. I was referring to a previous poster on why SOME feel more comfortable. Its no biggy either way.....whatever a person is comfortable with is where they will gravitate.
ella1976: dont think i had any really,,,,,,,,cause id talk 2 the devil himself,,,,
takingthechance: am i loosing the plot or something here but i thought this thread was about worse dates not drinking!!!!!
Maybe cos the worst dates mentioned involved very drunk date partners....mine was.
Fraya: Maybe cos the worst dates mentioned involved very drunk date partners....mine was.
I think it started when a posters reason for a date not going well was the other person was a non drinker. I just thought it was a strange reason. Just because they are not a drinker does not mean they are boring.
It would be like saying the person was vegaterain so the date did not go well.
kidatheart: Can't say I've ever had a bad date. No dates at all = no bad dates.
In fairness Harry, you`re a bit of a commute for us. Cant speak for the Canadian girls tho
Fraya: Maybe cos the worst dates mentioned involved very drunk date partners....mine was.
fair point. Actually now that i think about it the guy involved with my experience did most of his threatening when he was drunk. he wouldn't leave my house, my friend had to come and get him out. it was really scary
More Threads
A question
It's been a long time....
When you look inside your heart ? what do you truly want..
What does it mean to be a man or a woman?
Wondering
a question
New here. Single Guy from Grand Rapids, MI.
Your Mental Health
What Clothes Do You Feel Comfortable Wearing?
Thinking out loud #3
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
No dates at all = no bad dates.