Why men say one thing and do another? (305)
somechick: I used to spend an awfully lot of time here in cyberworld so to speak but now I just read and if I a see a thread topic I'm interested in I log in and reply to it.Otherwise my life does move on and on.That reminds me I have a date later on in the real world.
I am taking costapackets advice, but somechick i want you to watch this video before your date
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elmoangel: I am taking costapackets advice, but somechick i want you to watch this video before your date
Is there a message in that video.Are you trying to say for me to keep my hands to myself? You mean I have to be a good girl tonight ?Bummer.
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Costapacket: Ask yourself why you are so wrapped up in this cyberwold.
Its not real!
Get out and have life, while you still can.
You'll be old one day and this is all you'll be able to do.
Thoughts for you, not a dig.
Its not real!
Get out and have life, while you still can.
You'll be old one day and this is all you'll be able to do.
Thoughts for you, not a dig.
Well I beg to differ. Take a good look at yourself before you are so critical and judgemental of others. Making assumptions like that are founded on nothing but fresh air. Your advise to me has fallen on deaf ears.
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Veritaas: Feeding a persons ego, just by responding to their post of being judgemental and critical will feed this. Perhaps there is a quality about your openness of your past relationships that others cannot deal with, and are incapable of expressing themselves in the manner in which you do.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
Veritaas, you have done it again, your viewpoint is right to the point. Your views are to be read and thought about. This last post has helped alot to try to understand why people act like they do.
Yes, I also come up with the idea that some enjoy creating the discomfort of others to make themselves feeling better. Like being a bully.
Some here have a great way of shocking people and they react instead of slowing down and coming out with comments that do not create bunches of back and forth replies when get mad. They would not get away with it in real live.
Yes, maybe the person has taken a fancy to me, they have looked at my profile. I agree, hard to imagine though when they act the way they do.
Veritaas, I look for your views on these blogs and forums. I know that you have very good posts.
Thanks, again,
The Dobe
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Costapacket: Ask yourself why you are so wrapped up in this cyberwold.
Its not real!
Get out and have life, while you still can.
You'll be old one day and this is all you'll be able to do.
Thoughts for you, not a dig.
Its not real!
Get out and have life, while you still can.
You'll be old one day and this is all you'll be able to do.
Thoughts for you, not a dig.
Who are you directing this at Costa?
I do not think everyone is attached to this cyperwold.
Besides you are posting yourself right now on the cyberworld.
You can learn alot on this site, it's not all bad.
The Dobe
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I do. very few of us here have a real life. This is all fantasy.
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doberman3: My husband #2 had no signs of being like my first husband. I did not choose anyother cheating man. My family approved of him and they could see him more clearly than I. My Aunt said he was a good catch and that I should marry him. For a very long time, over 25 years, we were good, but he changed.
He became someone I did not know anymore.
I will admit to making a big mistake on husband 1, he showed the signs and we were so young. But husband 2 was a shock and will always be.
So I give you one on your point about not choosing the right person.
But husband #2, I will not agree on.
But I do disagree again whether you are analyzing. I think you are.
The Dobe
He became someone I did not know anymore.
I will admit to making a big mistake on husband 1, he showed the signs and we were so young. But husband 2 was a shock and will always be.
So I give you one on your point about not choosing the right person.
But husband #2, I will not agree on.
But I do disagree again whether you are analyzing. I think you are.
The Dobe
Hmmmmmmm thought you were not paying attention anymore lol
Disagree we may and that is cool.
I can analyze you if you like but that is $300 an hour, do not do it much anymore rather teach and play but if you desire it.
Thanks for putting the anger away you are much more enjoyable this way
cheers
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Veritaas: Feeding a persons ego, just by responding to their post of being judgemental and critical will feed this. Perhaps there is a quality about your openness of your past relationships that others cannot deal with, and are incapable of expressing themselves in the manner in which you do.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
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Veritaas: Feeding a persons ego, just by responding to their post of being judgemental and critical will feed this. Perhaps there is a quality about your openness of your past relationships that others cannot deal with, and are incapable of expressing themselves in the manner in which you do.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
Once a person who expresses negative comments to another on a regular basis, they often think they have found a weak spot in that person. And will try to grind you down, make you feel demoralised. It is almost like setting a honey trap to prove a point. Never let them exercise any kind of power over you, or let their sly digs unnerve you in any manner whatsoever. Always make sure you are speaking from a vantage point which nit pickers find it very awkward to access, if not impossible.
Jealousy and enviousness springs to mind too. Plus the internet gives some people confidence that they lack and the ability to interact with others in real life.
Heavens this person might have taken a fancy to you, though one would not of thought this from their postings.
Intriguing defend someone and then attack,intriguing indeed
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Policepatrol: Why do guys say one thing and do another? I always tell a prospective date to be honest on wither they feel attraction on the first date or not. However, the guy will go out his way to show interest in me on the first date. After the first date, he calls a couple of times. Then, ignore my return call or text message. Why couldn't he just say there's no further interest? If a he describes himself as an honest person but fail to show courtesy in being honest about not being interested, doesn't this show lack of honesty on their part?
if we wasn't attracted there wouldn't be a first date!
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SensualBBWPlease: Intriguing defend someone and then attack,intriguing indeed
What are you, some kind of a shrink or something like that
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SensualBBWPlease: Intriguing defend someone and then attack,intriguing indeed
Attack, you are misguided and because this is the internet many people will just automatically assume this that and the other.
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SensualBBWPlease: Holy gross over generalization batgirl, the only consistent in your situations is what???
But blame the men you choose over and over again, intriguing
But blame the men you choose over and over again, intriguing
SensualB she didn't choose them that's why those idiots are not in her life. People have to give someone the benefit of a doubt until they show otherwise. Sure, there are players you can see right through them to say "NEXT". However, there are ones who are more clever about being deceitful. Ever heard that expression, you don't know someone until you get a closer look?
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54xmax: The same goes for women - - - So there you have it - - - Women do it too, in fact much more often then men, I personally, send a TXT msg, or an email, and when there is no reply the same day or in next several days, and if it comes couple of days later, I don't respond, cos reply on a txt msg or email takes couple of minutes . . . and why should I bother, when a person is not interested in me, you leave that person alone, with out any hard feelings
Well, I'm not one of those women you describe. I say what I mean and do what I say.
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LabattOr2: Well, to be brutally honest, if he pretty mcuh Ignores you after the first Date, then either you did not "Satisfy" Him or there was something about you that He did not like about you. Your match is out there, just keep trying, but be very careful, there are SO many Takers on this Site. This is my First time EVER on a Dating Site and even though there are Nice and REAL People on here, most are just out for a good time.
Hi Labatt, I agree with you there are Takers. I can quickly screen them out too. When I tell a date, I don't kiss until I know them well and decide their the right person to go to the next level with, they don't bother calling back. If a person is truly interested, he'll stick around to learn more about me without worry about getting intimate soon.
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Policepatrol: SensualB she didn't choose them that's why those idiots are not in her life. People have to give someone the benefit of a doubt until they show otherwise. Sure, there are players you can see right through them to say "NEXT". However, there are ones who are more clever about being deceitful. Ever heard that expression, you don't know someone until you get a closer look?
Thank you police, exactly.
The Dobe
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elmoangel: I am taking costapackets advice, but somechick i want you to watch this video before your date
Elmoangel, That is one of my favorite song and the lyrics still crack me up.
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well and ill quote "some guys" like to feel like there in charge of the situation, so wen u went with be honest and wot not ya threw him off so he left it! called couple of times but in the end he took charge i never belive in calling or texting a guy unless he does it first and wat i mean is if he texts u and u get it then reply but if he texts u and u miss it or a call wait for him to write back show him if he calls u happy but if he doesnt ur not bothered cause to be fair it a first date its no loss if he doesnt, it just means hes just not tat into u!! but u will meet a guy who will be willing to call u back if u have miss it and a guy who wil try get in contact no matter wat cause he likes u 
hope i made sense i know wat im saying just dont know if i wrote it down the way i am saying it lol gud luck anyway xx
hope i made sense i know wat im saying just dont know if i wrote it down the way i am saying it lol gud luck anyway xx
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Its not real!
Get out and have life, while you still can.
You'll be old one day and this is all you'll be able to do.
Thoughts for you, not a dig.
I used to spend an awfully lot of time here in cyberworld so to speak but now I just read and if I a see a thread topic I'm interested in I log in and reply to it.Otherwise my life does move on and on.That reminds me I have a date later on in the real world.