Rejection ( Archived) (11)

Apr 24, 2010 1:02 AM CST Rejection
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
Why is it some take rejection so poorly. When approaching someone you have to consider that we are all different and have different circumstances, perspectives and taste. The person could just not be wanting a relationship right now. Or maybe someone else has their eye right now. The possibilities are endless so don't take it so personal.

I bring this up because an old friend is back coming around. We didn't speak for several years because she wanted more and I didn't. She is beautiful, so much so she worked as a model for several years. I do find her attractive physically but something just keeps me from seeing her that way. Once again I had to tell her I am just not interested and now she is mad as hell at me again. And she says she doesn't want to see me ever again. Which is what she said before.

What a shame, a great friendship down the tubes.... doh
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Apr 24, 2010 1:12 AM CST Rejection
It is not rejection, it is the lacking. Why are two people lacking the options of love? We will never be equals but we/both can be.................loved.
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Apr 24, 2010 1:40 AM CST Rejection
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
bamabulldog08: Why is it some take rejection so poorly. When approaching someone you have to consider that we are all different and have different circumstances, perspectives and taste. The person could just not be wanting a relationship right now. Or maybe someone else has their eye right now. The possibilities are endless so don't take it so personal.

I bring this up because an old friend is back coming around. We didn't speak for several years because she wanted more and I didn't. She is beautiful, so much so she worked as a model for several years. I do find her attractive physically but something just keeps me from seeing her that way. Once again I had to tell her I am just not interested and now she is mad as hell at me again. And she says she doesn't want to see me ever again. Which is what she said before.

What a shame, a great friendship down the tubes....


No one likes to be rejected; and if she wants all or nothing then that's her perogative but it's obviously not a friend.

Some are insecure, some just want the conquest, some can't deal with any type of adversity. Everyone is different. I'd move on. It's not your problem to diagnose your friends emotional issue.
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Apr 24, 2010 2:36 AM CST Rejection
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
mjames: No one likes to be rejected; and if she wants all or nothing then that's her prerogative but it's obviously not a friend.

Some are insecure, some just want the conquest, some can't deal with any type of adversity. Everyone is different. I'd move on. It's not your problem to diagnose your friends emotional issue.


Of coarse your right about much of what your saying. And I have no intention of pursuing a friendship at this point. I just think its a damn shame. I am sure that because of her looks she hasn't been rejected by many men. And that's driving her crazy.frustrated
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Apr 24, 2010 2:39 AM CST Rejection
PrimerosPasos
PrimerosPasosPrimerosPasosMalta, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 116 Posts
That's awful of you. Give her my number:

001-LOVEDOCTOR

kiss
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Apr 24, 2010 2:44 AM CST Rejection
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
bamabulldog08: Of coarse your right about much of what your saying. And I have no intention of pursuing a friendship at this point. I just think its a damn shame. I am sure that because of her looks she hasn't been rejected by many men. And that's driving her crazy.



Uhuh... she's an ex model and you turned her down.


We read it the first time.
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Apr 24, 2010 2:46 AM CST Rejection
PrimerosPasos
PrimerosPasosPrimerosPasosMalta, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 116 Posts
It's worth repeating tho!

Ocee35

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Uhuh... she's an ex model and you turned her down.

We read it the first time.
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Apr 24, 2010 11:18 AM CST Rejection
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
Ocee35: Uhuh... she's an ex model and you turned her down.We read it the first time.
Not bragging, just the facts....lolrolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 24, 2010 11:21 AM CST Rejection
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Rejection to anybody is not a nice thing, but i always think that rejection is gods protection. Move forward and think of YOU!!!applause
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Apr 24, 2010 4:35 PM CST Rejection
wordking
wordkingwordkingnew york, New York USA14 Threads 2 Polls 190 Posts
englishelegance: Rejection to anybody is not a nice thing, but i always think that rejection is gods protection. Move forward and think of YOU!!!
i think at are age if cant handle being rejected then something is wrong wow
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Apr 24, 2010 9:14 PM CST Rejection
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
wordking: i think at are age if cant handle being rejected then something is wrong



I agree, at our age one should be able to deal with rejection. But apparently that's not at all the case.......doh
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