Why is it some take rejection so poorly. When approaching someone you have to consider that we are all different and have different circumstances, perspectives and taste. The person could just not be wanting a relationship right now. Or maybe someone else has their eye right now. The possibilities are endless so don't take it so personal.
I bring this up because an old friend is back coming around. We didn't speak for several years because she wanted more and I didn't. She is beautiful, so much so she worked as a model for several years. I do find her attractive physically but something just keeps me from seeing her that way. Once again I had to tell her I am just not interested and now she is mad as hell at me again. And she says she doesn't want to see me ever again. Which is what she said before.
What a shame, a great friendship down the tubes....
It is not rejection, it is the lacking. Why are two people lacking the options of love? We will never be equals but we/both can be.................loved.
bamabulldog08: Why is it some take rejection so poorly. When approaching someone you have to consider that we are all different and have different circumstances, perspectives and taste. The person could just not be wanting a relationship right now. Or maybe someone else has their eye right now. The possibilities are endless so don't take it so personal.
I bring this up because an old friend is back coming around. We didn't speak for several years because she wanted more and I didn't. She is beautiful, so much so she worked as a model for several years. I do find her attractive physically but something just keeps me from seeing her that way. Once again I had to tell her I am just not interested and now she is mad as hell at me again. And she says she doesn't want to see me ever again. Which is what she said before.
What a shame, a great friendship down the tubes....
No one likes to be rejected; and if she wants all or nothing then that's her perogative but it's obviously not a friend.
Some are insecure, some just want the conquest, some can't deal with any type of adversity. Everyone is different. I'd move on. It's not your problem to diagnose your friends emotional issue.
mjames: No one likes to be rejected; and if she wants all or nothing then that's her prerogative but it's obviously not a friend.
Some are insecure, some just want the conquest, some can't deal with any type of adversity. Everyone is different. I'd move on. It's not your problem to diagnose your friends emotional issue.
Of coarse your right about much of what your saying. And I have no intention of pursuing a friendship at this point. I just think its a damn shame. I am sure that because of her looks she hasn't been rejected by many men. And that's driving her crazy.
bamabulldog08: Of coarse your right about much of what your saying. And I have no intention of pursuing a friendship at this point. I just think its a damn shame. I am sure that because of her looks she hasn't been rejected by many men. And that's driving her crazy.
Uhuh... she's an ex model and you turned her down.
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I bring this up because an old friend is back coming around. We didn't speak for several years because she wanted more and I didn't. She is beautiful, so much so she worked as a model for several years. I do find her attractive physically but something just keeps me from seeing her that way. Once again I had to tell her I am just not interested and now she is mad as hell at me again. And she says she doesn't want to see me ever again. Which is what she said before.
What a shame, a great friendship down the tubes....