How come it is when you are single, the only attactive men that seem to hit on you are the married ones?
For the last couple of weeks I have been taking my son to football practice and his coach (2nd season playing for him) has been kind of flirting with me. But tonight out and out he basically told me he was interested in ... well something. It feels great when you have been alone for a long time for someone to show some interested, but then you stop and think -- hey this guy is married and has kids.
Stay away from married men. You will cause only complications for you, him, his family and your kids too, if he is involved with the school sports. Your mood swings will reflect in how you treat everyone around. It's a dead end and it's not fair to his family either.
I guess I would have to say to your question that I have a hard time talking to guys that I am interested in because there is a little fear of rejection. Have been through the "getting to know you" period many times and after being blown off several times you kind of gun shy. At least that is the way it is for me. Does that help a little?
I think the guys that do that are probably missing, or board with, their love life at home.. It's no excuse but I think that may be it. Some may just take you as another trophy as cold as that might sound.. Not to say some women don't do the same
That you for your advice. I don't think that I could actually get involved with him because of his wife and kids. If I was in a relationship I wouldn't want some woman intruding into what is mine. I guess the attention and the compliments are good to hear and it sucks when it comes from someone that shouldn't be giving them to you in the first place.
Seems to me some men think that if you have been alone for any length of time it means you are desperate...so you will take what you can get...even if it is a married cad!!!!!
Guess me question to you cran - are there faithful married men out there anymore OR are there single men out there that are going to be faithful once they do get married? Or is this something of the past?
I don't really understand your question. The answer to me would be quite obvious.... married men are a And when the time is right you will meet an (unmarried)man, probably when you least expect it...... Good luck Kim
Thanks nativegrl38. I hate being looked at that way, I don't think of myself as desperate but some days I may feel that way but it is more just lonely.
I have that problem too, I have in the past liked the bad boys and the guys that seem like a challange to get that way there was always somethig to talk about and somethig to do.
But lately I have been in the same situation you are in. Always doing the calling and feel as though I am making all the effort. Has it been a while that this has been going on or is it a new relationship/friendship?
I know married men are a no, no. I guess my question is how come all the ones that express interest are married and where/how do you find a single one that can express the same amount of interest.
I understand my Nebraska neighbor. No matter how lonely I am I will never get arelationship going with a married man. I also flower and message many people. Some answer, some don't and that's fine. I just keep trudging along. Tonight I got on my web cam for the first time with a gentleman that I have been chatting with for about 2 weeks. Always seemed like a gentleman when I viewed him, but I had only been on about 10 minutes and I saw trouble, so I just deleted him. Yes, I am the first to admit I am lonely, but not so desperate to show men my body. Hope you find what you are looking for.
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For the last couple of weeks I have been taking my son to football practice and his coach (2nd season playing for him) has been kind of flirting with me. But tonight out and out he basically told me he was interested in ... well something. It feels great when you have been alone for a long time for someone to show some interested, but then you stop and think -- hey this guy is married and has kids.
What is up with this?