Well I have two wonderful children. Youngest is 5 months.
As for "baby drama" well I am not looking for someone to be my children's father. They have their dads already and they are actively in their lives wether my partner will like it or not. The only relationship I have with the father is that we are civil because of the children and never broke up on bad terms. Meaning we are friends yes but not more.
It is hard to find someone because of the fact I have children but also I made that choice to be single as well because my children wether others like it or not come first. I was dating a man for awhile and he was jealous of my kids. Had to let him go because it was just too childish for me.
I can understand people have their preferences but never judge a person just because they have more than one child. We have feelings just like anyone else and deserve to be loved just as much.
the worst part was he got out like two years ago. he heard that i got with his women. man was he pissed. he got into my friends house and destroyed my guitar and amp. i was pissed. but i brought it on myself
I brought it on myself by getting with the girl before really getting to no her. I never even went over to her house once. Thats why its my fault and my friend for letting numb nuts in his house.
Perhaps the answer is right in front of me.. but if you love children, why is more than 1 too much? Are you sure it's actually good to have children that close if you love the party scene? Things to consider.
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