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Oct 8, 2010 7:31 AM CST Dumped via txt message
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
trinatown21: my ex husband who Id been with for 16yrs ended the marriage via text. He wasnt big on communication, can you tell? lol


Jeez, there's no end to men being boyz drinking
Oct 9, 2010 1:26 AM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
yeah he is a real winner. Did me a huge favour looking at it now! javascript:emot('cheering');
Oct 9, 2010 1:28 AM CST Dumped via txt message
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
trinatown21: yeah he is a real winner. Did me a huge favour looking at it now! javascript:emot('');
sounds like ur well shot off trinawine
Oct 9, 2010 1:31 AM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
Im counting my blessings every day! Kick myself a little for the 16yrs, but thankful for my babies & getting on with the next 16!
Oct 9, 2010 1:40 AM CST Dumped via txt message
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
trinatown21: Im counting my blessings every day! Kick myself a little for the 16yrs, but thankful for my babies & getting on with the next 16!
everyone does it ive done 9 yrs in abad marriage , then 16 yrs with an absolute nightmare partener,hey just call me luckyrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 9, 2010 1:45 AM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
ohnuts1: everyone does it ive done 9 yrs in abad marriage , then 16 yrs with an absolute nightmare partener,hey just call me lucky

Hell I hope Im not as lucky as you then! lol
Oct 9, 2010 1:49 AM CST Dumped via txt message
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
trinatown21: Hell I hope Im not as lucky as you then! lol
rolling on the floor laughing no one is that lucky wow laugh
Oct 9, 2010 1:58 AM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
ohnuts1: no one is that lucky

phew, hey look at it this way, you wont do it again! Be fussy very fussy!
Oct 9, 2010 2:02 AM CST Dumped via txt message
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
trinatown21: phew, hey look at it this way, you wont do it again! Be fussy very fussy!
i am first sign of something i dont like or ive had in a previous relationship im out of there ..
Oct 9, 2010 2:11 AM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
ohnuts1: i am first sign of something i dont like or ive had in a previous relationship im out of there ..

Good boy, same here!
Oct 10, 2010 6:52 PM CST Dumped via txt message
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
You know a txt can save a whole lot of aggro. It saves all those regretful hurts that would of been spoken in a face to face. And for some who have no self control it can save jailtime.

I'm just saying. hole
Oct 10, 2010 7:09 PM CST Dumped via txt message
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
dragondog4: You know a txt can save a whole lot of aggro. It saves all those regretful hurts that would of been spoken in a face to face. And for some who have no self control it can save jailtime.

I'm just saying.


I know where your coming from, but for the recipient - it means no closure blues
Oct 10, 2010 7:12 PM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
dragondog4: You know a txt can save a whole lot of aggro. It saves all those regretful hurts that would of been spoken in a face to face. And for some who have no self control it can save jailtime.

I'm just saying.

Possible, but after 16 yrs a person deserves a little more. But that the joys of modern technology. How did the spineless cope b4 textig & email? lol
Oct 10, 2010 7:21 PM CST Dumped via txt message
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
trinatown21: Possible, but after 16 yrs a person deserves a little more. But that the joys of modern technology. How did the spineless cope b4 textig & email? lol


idea Snail Mail


Dear John Robert Eric David,

sorry about that I was a bit confused for a minute.

It breaks my heart to say this, but you are too good for me.

blah blah blah .... we must end ..... I will always love..... blah blah blah




cool
Oct 10, 2010 7:27 PM CST Dumped via txt message
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Shell225: I know where your coming from, but for the recipient - it means no closure


But does closure mean a whole lot of mean nasty words. As someone whose witnessed that. It left a lot of nasty scars. hug
Oct 10, 2010 7:28 PM CST Dumped via txt message
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Shell225: Snail MailDear John Robert Eric David,

sorry about that I was a bit confused for a minute.

It breaks my heart to say this, but you are too good for me.

blah blah blah .... we must end ..... I will always love..... blah blah blah


So you wrote that letter. I knew I'd catch up with the writer one day. Now let me tell you what I think of you ......blah laugh
Oct 10, 2010 7:29 PM CST Dumped via txt message
trinatown21
trinatown21trinatown21waihi beach, Bay of Plenty New Zealand20 Posts
dragondog4: But does closure mean a whole lot of mean nasty words. As someone whose witnessed that. It left a lot of nasty scars.

Nasty words can be put in txt trust me
Oct 10, 2010 7:32 PM CST Dumped via txt message
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
trinatown21: Nasty words can be put in txt trust me


aint that the truth ... hug
Oct 10, 2010 7:34 PM CST Dumped via txt message
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
dragondog4: But does closure mean a whole lot of mean nasty words. As someone whose witnessed that. It left a lot of nasty scars.


I dont think its ever a nice way to break up blues

but texting sure isnt one of em very mad its just underhand.
Oct 10, 2010 7:36 PM CST Dumped via txt message
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
trinatown21: Possible, but after 16 yrs a person deserves a little more. But that the joys of modern technology. How did the spineless cope b4 textig & email? lol


After 16 years you did deserve more. But I also say the only regret you now have is that he walked on you. You don't have to regret all those horrible things you may have said to each other in the heat of a break up. He does't have to regret the memories of seeing the other's broken heart and shattered dreams and have them haunt his subconscious forever more. comfort hug

Sorry Trina, but in another reality it could of been much worse. You feel cheated but picture that confrontation the way you would of liked it to gone and then picture it in its worst possible scenario. And hopefully that will help ease the feeling of being cheated of calling him a #@$^% and whatever else to his face. comfort hug
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