ernestlee: I thought it would be cool to put a thread out about this. I know it's been done before so humor me. My ex wife and I were married for 20 years (actully, we still are for 1 more month) whe she decided that a 26 yr old boy was now what she wanted. Now mind you, she's 42. It seems that this was going on for about 6 months. She thought the two of them were gonna run off and live in the merry land of oz forever. So, she planned it. Instead of paying the mortgage payment for 6 months, she opened an account at the bank and was putting the money in there. Well, 6 months latter she up and moves out. I get letters in the mail saying I'm 6 months behind. Almost ten thousand dollars. She was seting herself up. Anyways, this kid moves in with her. Come to find out he was there less then a month and ran. Oh, by the way, I forgot to add. This kid worked with me and was on my bowlin team. For 6 months he was my friend while on the side he was doin my wife. Now she's alone, wants to come back and all. Don't you love karma. Anyways, tell your story and lets have alittle fun at our own exspence. Lets see who has been screwed over like me.
It's easy to go through life blaming everyone else and being a victim all the time but in reality you chose this woman; no one put a gun to your head and said stay with her.
Also this didn't happen overnight. You chose to just not see the truth until it was too late.
When a relationship ends, we need to learn from them. Why did we pick who we had; why did we not see the truth; how can I improve who I am to make the next relationship better.
Instead we try to say poor me and we are victims. She may have screwed you over; and I'm sorry she did; but you chose her, not us.
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It's easy to go through life blaming everyone else and being a victim all the time but in reality you chose this woman; no one put a gun to your head and said stay with her.
Also this didn't happen overnight. You chose to just not see the truth until it was too late.
When a relationship ends, we need to learn from them. Why did we pick who we had; why did we not see the truth; how can I improve who I am to make the next relationship better.
Instead we try to say poor me and we are victims. She may have screwed you over; and I'm sorry she did; but you chose her, not us.