the ex. Why he/she is the ex. ( Archived) (41)

May 14, 2010 8:11 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
I thought it would be cool to put a thread out about this. I know it's been done before so humor me. My ex wife and I were married for 20 years (actully, we still are for 1 more month) whe she decided that a 26 yr old boy was now what she wanted. Now mind you, she's 42. It seems that this was going on for about 6 months. She thought the two of them were gonna run off and live in the merry land of oz forever. So, she planned it. Instead of paying the mortgage payment for 6 months, she opened an account at the bank and was putting the money in there. Well, 6 months latter she up and moves out. I get letters in the mail saying I'm 6 months behind. Almost ten thousand dollars. She was seting herself up. Anyways, this kid moves in with her. Come to find out he was there less then a month and ran. Oh, by the way, I forgot to add. This kid worked with me and was on my bowlin team. For 6 months he was my friend while on the side he was doin my wife. Now she's alone, wants to come back and all. Don't you love karma. Anyways, tell your story and lets have alittle fun at our own exspence. Lets see who has been screwed over like me. head banger
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May 14, 2010 8:15 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
No, they got the big eff off tablet before anything like that remotely happened!yay
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May 14, 2010 8:17 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
ernestlee: I thought it would be cool to put a thread out about this. I know it's been done before so humor me. My ex wife and I were married for 20 years (actully, we still are for 1 more month) whe she decided that a 26 yr old boy was now what she wanted. Now mind you, she's 42. It seems that this was going on for about 6 months. She thought the two of them were gonna run off and live in the merry land of oz forever. So, she planned it. Instead of paying the mortgage payment for 6 months, she opened an account at the bank and was putting the money in there. Well, 6 months latter she up and moves out. I get letters in the mail saying I'm 6 months behind. Almost ten thousand dollars. She was seting herself up. Anyways, this kid moves in with her. Come to find out he was there less then a month and ran. Oh, by the way, I forgot to add. This kid worked with me and was on my bowlin team. For 6 months he was my friend while on the side he was doin my wife. Now she's alone, wants to come back and all. Don't you love karma. Anyways, tell your story and lets have alittle fun at our own exspence. Lets see who has been screwed over like me.


Gosh, it's stuffy in here. Somebody open up a vent. Oh wait...somebody already did.

In truth, I could top that one, if I wanted, but it's too damn long ago and who cares. Good riddance to bad rubbish, I say.
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May 14, 2010 8:20 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
calm down, it's just for fun that's all. I've moved on and I thought it was kinda funny that's all.
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May 14, 2010 8:22 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
mollymo
mollymomollymoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 326 Posts
ernestlee: calm down, it's just for fun that's all. I've moved on and I thought it was kinda funny that's all.




Sorry but I dont see the humour in your post confused


And to be honest I dont think peoples tales of break ups will be funny, mine certainly isnt.
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May 14, 2010 8:24 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
lostx2
lostx2lostx2Gastonia, North Carolina USA5 Threads 1 Polls 445 Posts
I can relate, believe me. My story is much worse but the short of it is, she left, no contact for 1 1/2 years, then when she finaly did, I found out she moved to CA with a kid 3 months older than her real son. I chalk it up to midlife crisis and she left a great guy for a fling.
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May 14, 2010 8:26 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
My story would give people nightmares....so i shall not share laugh
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May 14, 2010 8:27 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
sound to me your better off aswell. I am.
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May 14, 2010 8:28 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
kinseycy
kinseycykinseycyLarnaca, Cyprus10 Threads 1 Polls 218 Posts
Ah well everyone knows by now my ex cheated. The sordid details I keep to myself but I do love Karma ......
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May 14, 2010 8:30 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
well it was a bad deal for you, as it sounds from your post. You gotta find the humor in it somewhere, and I think that's what makes me stronger. Anyways, I'm happier now and I thought I wouldn't be.
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May 14, 2010 8:32 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
Amity: My story would give people nightmares....so i shall not share


Yeah please don't. I don't need more nightmares. I already divorced two of 'em.
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May 14, 2010 8:35 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
TrueBlue1986
TrueBlue1986TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
ernestlee: well it was a bad deal for you, as it sounds from your post. You gotta find the humor in it somewhere, and I think that's what makes me stronger. Anyways, I'm happier now and I thought I wouldn't be.


Gallows humour, it will get you through anything.
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May 14, 2010 8:35 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
peace
Dagosto: Yeah please don't. I don't need more nightmares. I already divorced two of 'em.
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May 14, 2010 8:38 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
kinseycy: Ah well everyone knows by now my ex cheated. The sordid details I keep to myself but I do love Karma ......
Bobbit? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 14, 2010 8:40 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
the ex. Why he/she is the ex.?confused

I cannot answer for everyone...dunno
But in my case.........blushing ..
My "ex" is my "ex" cause...
---> we got a divorce...!!!!!
boogie

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- rolling on the floor laughing
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May 14, 2010 8:42 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
divorce does make her your ex.
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May 14, 2010 8:46 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
I've got one of those stories too.
Only a lot worse.

But what good are stories like that?
You can't sell 'em.
You can't even give 'em away.

Best to just consider 'em as lessons learned the hard way.
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May 14, 2010 8:53 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
mollymo
mollymomollymoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 326 Posts
ernestlee: divorce does make her your ex.



confused

Really?

But you ask about exes in your thread, what do you mean so?
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May 14, 2010 9:13 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
It seems "midlife crisis" isnt exclusivly male territory grin
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May 14, 2010 9:13 AM CST the ex. Why he/she is the ex.
ernestlee
ernestleeernestleesouth texas, Texas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
look, it's for fun. If the subject hits a nerve then ignore it. I just wanted to have a that could be fun to have fun with. If it's to much then I'm sorry your hurting so much. Live, laugh, love.wave
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