Lets Be Friends (41)

May 26, 2010 3:02 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
tomboygirl: his excuse is he is cypriot....now do you all understand why us cyprus based girlys are falling for peeps from everywhere else on the forums..


beeeeeeeep.... Wrong guess...!!!!
I not a Cypriot my dear...
May 26, 2010 3:10 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Englishman55: You are probably right............ I know nothing about women, which is why I am on dating site.

What's your excuse ?


My excuse is, that I can find people here, from all over the world, with who I can discuss , even this way..

With some of them, I agree, with others I don't. ...
Ok.

There are many members here like me... and this site is not only a Dating site...

ok ??wine
May 26, 2010 3:23 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
makis822: My excuse is, that I can find people here, from all over the world, with who I can discuss , even this way..

With some of them, I agree, with others I don't. ...
Ok.

There are many members here like me... and this site is not only a Dating site...

ok ??

Thankyou for clarifying your stance.

I too like to be here on CS to meet people from all over the world, but I am also looking to find a partner in life.

I like many of the discussions that go on here, but you were not prepared to discuss our differing points of view...

You attacked me and insulted my intelligence by saying I knew nothing about women..... not much to discuss about that statement, more of an arguement starter !

Don't worry, I was not offended by your words and did not take them personally.
All I did was pick up on your words as being rather a sweeping statement not based on fact, as you do not know me at all.

Maybe choose your words more carefully if it's dicussion that you want.

cheers
May 26, 2010 3:26 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
makis822: You exaggerate too much..!!
From your point of view, maybe you are right... who knows!!!

From my point of view....permit me to think otherwise..


What did I exaggerate to much????

And explain why you think playing chess with someones emotions is ok in your books....?
May 26, 2010 3:38 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Englishman55: Thankyou for clarifying your stance.

I too like to be here on CS to meet people from all over the world, but I am also looking to find a partner in life.

I like many of the discussions that go on here, but you were not prepared to discuss our differing points of view...

You attacked me and insulted my intelligence by saying I knew nothing about women..... not much to discuss about that statement, more of an arguement starter !

Don't worry, I was not offended by your words and did not take them personally.
All I did was pick up on your words as being rather a sweeping statement not based on fact, as you do not know me at all.

Maybe choose your words more carefully if it's dicussion that you want.


I'm a very peaceful man..
I had no intention to insult you intelligence..or you personaly.!

But my friend if you see your previous writings, you will see that, there were not very friendly also.


Ok
I forgot it allready...!!! In Greece we say "SALT AND WATER"..
cheers handshake
May 26, 2010 3:48 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Phoenix: What did I exaggerate to much????

And explain why you think playing chess with someones emotions is ok in your books....?


If we ever could meet face to face, we would probably go for a drink, and then maybe we could discuss, this matter more in detail....

so..cheers
May 26, 2010 3:55 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
makis822: If we ever could meet face to face, we would probably go for a drink, and then maybe we could discuss, this matter more in detail....

so..


Whats wrong with here??? Why do you think playin' minds games is a good way to win in the game love????
May 26, 2010 4:08 AM CST Lets Be Friends
taxidiotis
taxidiotistaxidiotisnicosia, Nicosia Cyprus23 Threads 2 Polls 811 Posts
Danny48: Can you be friends with a woman you have fallen for completely who has rejected you as a lover?

I have met my dream woman. We met several times and got on very well. But she is still in love with her Ex.
When rejected I said I'd vanish. She very warmly asked if we could be friends? Why?
Do I have hope?
If she can be a friend for you as well is fine,but ONLY if u can continue with ur life
May 26, 2010 4:11 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
makis822: Unfortunately my friend you know nothing about women..
Friendship is a rare thing between a man and a woman..

The jelousy game , is a game that is played for years, and WORKS ALLWAYS !!! but you must know how to play it...!!!

Didn't you se,e that the woman is playing games with him ??
She want's to use him as a spare....
The only way to know what to do with her, is to provoke her emotions..!!!
Or he wins or he looses.!! There is no other way.

Maybe you didn't like the example..ok.
There are other ways also.!!


I know nothing about other women, but I know one or another thing about myself.

I regard jealousy as an attempt to own, to wish something that’s not yours. And a jealousy game as an attempt to pull the other person’s strings in order to take advantages of her or him.

When you love someone you want them to be happy. When you want to own someone you want them to be happy with you. For me that’s the difference between love and lust.

If a man that I love started to play this ridiculous game with me, it’d hurt me very bad. But if the same game would be played by a man I don’t love, it’d make him dirty in my eyes.

In case with the OP... what “friends” means and whether there’s a hope... I have no idea, but then I don’t know anything about other women, only about myself.


dancing
May 26, 2010 4:12 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Phoenix: Whats wrong with here??? Why do you think playin' minds games is a good way to win in the game love????


The words "mind games" are very "heavy".!!!
I would prefer the name "games" only..

Yes I believe that the love games, as you put it, are the best games.. in life.
They give us a reason to move on...!!
Without them our lifes would be empty..!
May 26, 2010 4:17 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
makis822: The words "mind games" are very "heavy".!!!
I would prefer the name "games" only..

Yes I believe that the love games, as you put it, are the best games.. in life.
They give us a reason to move on...!!
Without them our lifes would be empty..!


So making someone believe something that isn't true (lying) is ok...As long as the end justifies the means????
May 26, 2010 4:17 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
As to the hope...

A woman whose husband is very ill and is at hospital, comes running to his doctor and cries twisting her hands:

Woman: Doctor, is there any hope?!

Doctor: Depends on what madame is hoping onto...



grin
May 26, 2010 4:32 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Tulefel: I know nothing about other women, but I know one or another thing about myself.

I regard jealousy as an attempt to own, to wish something that’s not yours. And a jealousy game as an attempt to pull the other person’s strings in order to take advantages of her or him.

When you love someone you want them to be happy. When you want to own someone you want them to be happy with you. For me that’s the difference between love and lust.

If a man that I love started to play this ridiculous game with me, it’d hurt me very bad. But if the same game would be played by a man I don’t love, it’d make him dirty in my eyes.

In case with the OP... what “friends” means and whether there’s a hope... I have no idea, but then I don’t know anything about other women, only about myself.


Yes I agree in part with your opinion.!!!
I will stop to this "When you love someone you want them to be happy".
But it also painful....!!
Don't you agree.??

I believe that when a man loves a woman, he must not stay and wait for the luck to help him, or just stay and see what happens.

He has to fight for the woman he loves.!!!! and fight hard sometimes...!!
It's not about ownership. It about pure love..from a man to a woman..

When I love a woman , I want her to be with me.
I could not ever accept, to share a woman with another man emotionaly.

And I believe neither women like this kind of relations.
For me, it's black or white.
No gray areas...!!

Or you win her heart , or you take your broken pieces, and walk away...!!
May 26, 2010 6:26 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
makis822: Yes I agree in part with your opinion.!!!
I will stop to this "When you love someone you want them to be happy".
But it also painful....!!
Don't you agree.??

I believe that when a man loves a woman, he must not stay and wait for the luck to help him, or just stay and see what happens.

He has to fight for the woman he loves.!!!! and fight hard sometimes...!!
It's not about ownership.
It about pure love..from a man to a woman..

When I love a woman , I want her to be with me.
I could not ever accept, to share a woman with another man emotionaly.

And I believe neither women like this kind of relations.
For me, it's black or white.
No gray areas...!!

Or you win her heart , or you take your broken pieces, and walk away...!!


I agree with lot's of what you said.......{
May 26, 2010 6:30 AM CST Lets Be Friends
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Actually, thinking about all this .... Why do we take life and love and food and smoking and everything else ... SO seriously?

Life goes on ... with or without ... and then it ends - whether we like it or not .... or we just grow older and more wrinkled and stooped and cranky .... and go slowly more invisble till we vanish completely.......

Soooo ... my philosphy about this is ... just Relax ... and Enjoy ...... No Sweat!drinking
May 26, 2010 6:53 AM CST Lets Be Friends
makis822
makis822makis822nicosia, Nicosia Cyprus1 Threads 89 Posts
Phoenix: I agree with lot's of what you said.......
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Finally we agree at something...!!
May 26, 2010 9:05 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
Hello Danny48

We are only capable of a limited amount of emotions. So why waste our resources on negative ones like jealousy?

It is a cruel game and contrary to what you state, it does not seem to work well for you either. Hence, you tried it many times and it seems that you are still looking for your match.
For myself, I say that I will be loved for what I am (and belive me, I am) and not for what I make other perceive me to be.
May 26, 2010 9:14 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
Englishman55: You are probably right............ I know nothing about women, which is why I am on dating site.

What's your excuse ?


Hello Englishman55

I just love your diplomatic sense of humour and wit.

Bravo!handshake
May 26, 2010 9:29 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Bental: Hello Englishman55

I just love your diplomatic sense of humour and wit.

Bravo!

Thanks Bental.... I do try...... doesn't always work, but not thinking of changing it anytime soon grin

cheers
May 26, 2010 10:49 AM CST Lets Be Friends
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
smoky: Actually, thinking about all this .... Why do we take life and love and food and smoking and everything else ... SO seriously?

Life goes on ... with or without ... and then it ends - whether we like it or not .... or we just grow older and more wrinkled and stooped and cranky .... and go slowly more invisble till we vanish completely.......

Soooo ... my philosphy about this is ... just Relax ... and Enjoy ...... No Sweat!


A great concept, will try to implement it tomorrow.thumbs up

cheering
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