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Allow her one time, but if she still says the woman is mistreating her, all negotiations are closed.
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scorpiosiren: my daughter told me a few weeks ago her step mam was mistreatin her
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
Your daughter cannot be in the same room with her stepmom. Tell your husband he can see his daughter at your house alone.
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mbcasey: Your daughter cannot be in the same room with her stepmom. Tell your husband he can see his daughter at your house alone.
not possible mb she wont allow him in my hse she being his wife
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scorpiosiren: not possible mb she wont allow him in my hse she being his wife
Meet in a public place...you, your daughter and your ex. The stepmom is not invited.
Best of luck to you with this very serious problem...
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mbcasey: Meet in a public place...you, your daughter and your ex. The stepmom is not invited.
Best of luck to you with this very serious problem...
Best of luck to you with this very serious problem...
thanks mb he's no better he never sees the child only when its convenient for him
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scorpiosiren: not possible mb she wont allow him in my hse she being his wife
There seems to be a lot of things wrong with the new wife.
I've been through similar issues and I've meet with my Ex and a family therapist where everything got brought into the open and talked about. We've found a solutions and agreements working for all of us.
From my own experiences it's all about fear in it's many shapes (insecurity, jalousie, hate..) Hope your Ex is cooperative and finds some guts to stand up for his daughter in front of the new one.
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scorpiosiren: my daughter told me a few weeks ago her step mam was mistreatin her
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
If you have custody-YOU are responsible and I don't know how old your daughter is BUT you can MAKE it a supervised visitation. I would not wait if I were you. JMO.i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
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scorpiosiren: thanks mb he's no better he never sees the child only when its convenient for him
Get social services involved,tell them the story...if you have that in your country,they look after the welfare and safety of kids,ggod luck
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scorpiosiren: my daughter told me a few weeks ago her step mam was mistreatin her
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
Who has legal custody of your daughter??
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AngelinBali: There seems to be a lot of things wrong with the new wife.
I've been through similar issues and I've meet with my Ex and a family therapist where everything got brought into the open and talked about. We've found a solutions and agreements working for all of us.
From my own experiences it's all about fear in it's many shapes (insecurity, jalousie, hate..) Hope your Ex is cooperative and finds some guts to stand up for his daughter in front of the new one.
I've been through similar issues and I've meet with my Ex and a family therapist where everything got brought into the open and talked about. We've found a solutions and agreements working for all of us.
From my own experiences it's all about fear in it's many shapes (insecurity, jalousie, hate..) Hope your Ex is cooperative and finds some guts to stand up for his daughter in front of the new one.
so do i angel though i dont see that happenin everrrrr
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DodgeBabe: Who has legal custody of your daughter??
we never went to court she lives with me 24/7 he n i work the same job at weekends so he thought he'd save me childminding money by havin her stqy in his hse on a fri nite it went ok till they had their own twins n since then went down hill my daughter is 7 the tweins are 2
he was as unaware of wot happened as i was
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scorpiosiren: we never went to court she lives with me 24/7 he n i work the same job at weekends so he thought he'd save me childminding money by havin her stqy in his hse on a fri nite it went ok till they had their own twins n since then went down hill my daughter is 7 the tweins are 2
he was as unaware of wot happened as i was
You need to get a lawyer and get legal custody of your daughter before you do anything else..In the mean time I would stop all visits unless he is willing to come and visit her at you house without his wife.he was as unaware of wot happened as i was
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scorpiosiren: we never went to court she lives with me 24/7 he n i work the same job at weekends so he thought he'd save me childminding money by havin her stqy in his hse on a fri nite it went ok till they had their own twins n since then went down hill my daughter is 7 the tweins are 2
he was as unaware of wot happened as i was
he was as unaware of wot happened as i was
Yes, as Cin said, go to court and sort out custody. Thats not being unfair to anyone, in fact its making things clearer and fairer to all. All will know the situation then, including the child.
I know some think that going to court is impersonal and drastic, but its not. Its sensible..
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cincity: You need to get a lawyer and get legal custody of your daughter before you do anything else..In the mean time I would stop all visits unless he is willing to come and visit her at you house without his wife.
Thats why I asked her who had legal custody..
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DodgeBabe: I would say thats somewhat dangerous..
As you say, before any action is taken proof should be obtained. I cant imagine how the father would feel if CPS or similar were brought in and things proved to be untrue or exagerated. Im not saying the child is lying at all, but it should be looked into thoroughly before any official action is taken.
Slurs like that on a parent stick; whether true or not..
As you say, before any action is taken proof should be obtained. I cant imagine how the father would feel if CPS or similar were brought in and things proved to be untrue or exagerated. Im not saying the child is lying at all, but it should be looked into thoroughly before any official action is taken.
Slurs like that on a parent stick; whether true or not..
she didnt just come out n say it
it was her behaviour that made me notice
she wud ask me every day wot day it was n when fri came ahe wud always be sick n a friend of mine n my mother told me she wud be askin them cud she sleep in their hse the final straw came when i was going to work a few weeks ago n she started crying hysterically begging me not to bring her down their it was heart breaking n when i got her to stay in her nans hse instead she only then calmed down
i took her out the following day n it all came out eventually
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scorpiosiren: she didnt just come out n say it
it was her behaviour that made me notice
she wud ask me every day wot day it was n when fri came ahe wud always be sick n a friend of mine n my mother told me she wud be askin them cud she sleep in their hse the final straw came when i was going to work a few weeks ago n she started crying hysterically begging me not to bring her down their it was heart breaking n when i got her to stay in her nans hse instead she only then calmed down
i took her out the following day n it all came out eventually
You have red flags all ovr the place here!!! Get a move on. Who knows who is abusing your child. Supervision 100% and nothing less. Get your butt to court for supervised visitsit was her behaviour that made me notice
she wud ask me every day wot day it was n when fri came ahe wud always be sick n a friend of mine n my mother told me she wud be askin them cud she sleep in their hse the final straw came when i was going to work a few weeks ago n she started crying hysterically begging me not to bring her down their it was heart breaking n when i got her to stay in her nans hse instead she only then calmed down
i took her out the following day n it all came out eventually
-you have all the classic signs of neglect.Jealousy--maybe--that is common and so is when a new child comes around and the child is "theirs" the others don't seem to matter.
Please, don't accuse BUT get something done legally.
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Arlene101: You have red flags all ovr the place here!!! Get a move on. Who knows who is abusing your child. Supervision 100% and nothing less. Get your butt to court for supervised visits -you have all the classic signs of neglect.
Jealousy--maybe--that is common and so is when a new child comes around and the child is "theirs" the others don't seem to matter.
Please, don't accuse BUT get something done legally.
Jealousy--maybe--that is common and so is when a new child comes around and the child is "theirs" the others don't seem to matter.
Please, don't accuse BUT get something done legally.
ur right i'll let the court decide thanks
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scorpiosiren: ur right i'll let the court decide thanks
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Arlene101: I hope you will keep us informed.
i will to be sure thanks for all ur replies n advice
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i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either