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Hiya Hon.......
So sorry to hear this is happening.......Very sad.
If it was me, theres not a chance I would put her in that situation again. She needs one adult in her life that she can trust absolutely. If he is any kind of man he will organise quality time to see his daughter, just him and her. The benefits , if any, of her seeing her Dad are far outweighed by negatives in this case.
Whats best for your daughter ?.........She needs you Now.
JMO hon..........
So sorry to hear this is happening.......Very sad.
If it was me, theres not a chance I would put her in that situation again. She needs one adult in her life that she can trust absolutely. If he is any kind of man he will organise quality time to see his daughter, just him and her. The benefits , if any, of her seeing her Dad are far outweighed by negatives in this case.
Whats best for your daughter ?.........She needs you Now.
JMO hon..........
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vinny1967: Hiya Hon.......
So sorry to hear this is happening.......Very sad.
If it was me, theres not a chance I would put her in that situation again. She needs one adult in her life that she can trust absolutely. If he is any kind of man he will organise quality time to see his daughter, just him and her. The benefits , if any, of her seeing her Dad are far outweighed by negatives in this case.
Whats best for your daughter ?.........She needs you Now.
JMO hon..........
So sorry to hear this is happening.......Very sad.
If it was me, theres not a chance I would put her in that situation again. She needs one adult in her life that she can trust absolutely. If he is any kind of man he will organise quality time to see his daughter, just him and her. The benefits , if any, of her seeing her Dad are far outweighed by negatives in this case.
Whats best for your daughter ?.........She needs you Now.
JMO hon..........
I agree Vinny...your in a real tough spot, I can only imagine how your heart is breaking. theres no way your child can go back to that house. If her father loves her he will support this decision. How old is you daughter? along with settling custody at a certain age children have there own voice in court. Look into it. I wish you well
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venusenvy: I agree Vinny...your in a real tough spot, I can only imagine how your heart is breaking. theres no way your child can go back to that house. If her father loves her he will support this decision. How old is you daughter? along with settling custody at a certain age children have there own voice in court. Look into it. I wish you well
Scorpio mentioned her daughter is 7. I know her from old on here Venus and she is an extremely intelligent person. She will figure it out.
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venusenvy: DONT!!! anyone that would treat his child this way doesnt deserve consideration...At this point doll, let him talk to your Lawyer.
ive been to her school explained to her teacher
been to a&e explained to the doctors
and been to my own gp
and none of them suggested anything
to help her
so ive taken all ur advice onboard
im goin to my solicitor on tues and see wot can be done
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scorpiosiren: ive been to her school explained to her teacher
been to a&e explained to the doctors
and been to my own gp
and none of them suggested anything
to help her
so ive taken all ur advice onboard
im goin to my solicitor on tues and see wot can be done
been to a&e explained to the doctors
and been to my own gp
and none of them suggested anything
to help her
so ive taken all ur advice onboard
im goin to my solicitor on tues and see wot can be done
If I was in your shoes I would refuse to let her go to his house, if he doesnt agree to outside visits and insists on her going there let him go to court for visitation. If you werent married to him he actually doesnt have an automatic right here to custody or access, usually I think this is a bad thing but maybe not in this case.
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Amity: Aww bless her.
I suffer from panic attacks and they can be so frightening.
You know the paper bag helps right?
Sending love her way
I suffer from panic attacks and they can be so frightening.
You know the paper bag helps right?
Sending love her way
god love her i didnt know wot was happening to her so i rushed to casualty they sorted her out and told me to bring hr to my own doc which i did and they cant do anything for her cos she's so young only put her on a waiting list for a child physcologist which will take 2 yrs absolute ridiculous carry on
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Zellarrone1: ---
ye know thats wot i wud normally do but these are snobs so it all fall back on me
so im taking their route lol
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mollymo: If I was in your shoes I would refuse to let her go to his house, if he doesnt agree to outside visits and insists on her going there let him go to court for visitation. If you werent married to him he actually doesnt have an automatic right here to custody or access, usually I think this is a bad thing but maybe not in this case.
she is banned from his hse for the past 5 weeks he's seen her once since then
we werent actually married no
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scorpiosiren: ye know thats wot i wud normally do but these are snobs so it all fall back on me
so im taking their route lol
so im taking their route lol
Hi Scorp. Long time no see!
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If I were you lovey, I would only allow supervised visits...get child support, and have that women investigated!!! I know you feel powerless right now but in reality you have all the power you need...ever seen a pissed off mother bear??? 
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scorpiosiren: she is banned from his hse for the past 5 weeks he's seen her once since then
we werent actually married no
we werent actually married no
Your doing the right thing, is up to him to fight for access if he wants it and will have to prove it is in your daughters best interest.
Of course I would normally say it was but sadly it isnt always the case.
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scorpiosiren: ye know thats wot i wud normally do but these are snobs so it all fall back on me
so im taking their route lol
Yes, you're doing the right thing. Last thing you want is them being crafty and turning the tables on you in some way. Best you play them at their own game as you say so im taking their route lol
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Godsgift: Hi Scorp. Long time no see!
hiye keith hows tricks
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It can be terrifying...she will panic more because she feels she cant breathe, so have a paper bag with you at all times.
When it happens just keep reassuring her that shes oK...
Does it happen when shes home or when shes out?
When it happens just keep reassuring her that shes oK...
Does it happen when shes home or when shes out?
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scorpiosiren: hiye keith hows tricks
Ah, not bad.Got company tonite so can't really talk. Good to see ya!
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mollymo: Your doing the right thing, is up to him to fight for access if he wants it and will have to prove it is in your daughters best interest.
Of course I would normally say it was but sadly it isnt always the case.
Of course I would normally say it was but sadly it isnt always the case.
yea i always kinda made sure she was involved wit his family but never agaon of i knew then wot i do now i wud of gone to court a long long time ago
but ye know its not her dads fault he didnt know nomore than i did wot was happening pity he's such a coward to help get it sorted
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scorpiosiren: she is banned from his hse for the past 5 weeks he's seen her once since then
we werent actually married no
we werent actually married no
I don't mean to sound rude but if you have costody and you are not married to him AND there is no court order AND she does not want to go--WHY THE HELL IS SHE GOING???????????????????????Let her father take it to court.This thread started last week I think and nothing done yet?
Make sure your child comes up with some kind of fake ailment when he wants to see her UNTIL court.
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scorpiosiren: my daughter told me a few weeks ago her step mam was mistreatin her
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
i told her dad n stopped her from going to his hse
now he's decided that he wants her to come to his hse on monday n i wont allow it
i dont wanna fight or argue
how do we solve this without either
heya hun
well if your daughter wants to see her dad, arrange so she can meet him outside of your home and his , somewere shed like to go as he has alot of making up to do as the woman he is now with mistreated her so badly
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and she is using her to babysit her own children? I would not allow her there any longer. Additionally, I would also give her a piece of my mind. She knows you are non-confrontational, and so she is taking advantage of that, and stepping way out of line.
Settle this the old fashioned way babe, and let me know how good you feel afterwards.....