WHAT....is it????........ (111)
the fear of rejection
id be with you on that,,but also the fact that i have been hurt with a few guys that i have got very close to i find it very hard to trust or get close to a fella again
chuckles25: the fear of rejection
fear of rejection hear again and trust.. ive been let down by so many guys that id nearly rather stay away or expect them to cheat on my .. im think im to much of a walk over
All of the above 
ladylumps: All of the above
for me its defo being hurt.....being there got the tshirt,never again
What's holding me back is I'm enjoying the new found freedom. I was literally joined at the hip for 14 years. I look back now and ask myself, "Did I enjoy that?"
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
Modern_Fairy: fear of rejection hear again and trust.. ive been let down by so many guys that id nearly rather stay away or expect them to cheat on my .. im think im to much of a walk over
aww you know how it is girl..
Silentlust: What's holding me back is I'm enjoying the new found freedom. I was literally joined at the hip for 14 years. I look back now and ask myself, "Did I enjoy that?"
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
hmmmmmmmmmmmm, and i wonder do all guys kinda think like this!!!!
i love my freedom now!!
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
Silentlust: What's holding me back is I'm enjoying the new found freedom. I was literally joined at the hip for 14 years. I look back now and ask myself, "Did I enjoy that?"
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
areyoureadytogo: i love my freedom now!!
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
too long? what are we talking here? 15, maybe 20 years?
or 3,000 - 4000 miles
Neenaw: or 3,000 - 4000 miles
nah. I'd like her to live a reasonable distance away. just far enough where a visit would require an overnight stay.
Silentlust: What's holding me back is I'm enjoying the new found freedom. I was literally joined at the hip for 14 years. I look back now and ask myself, "Did I enjoy that?"
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
Hell no.
Sure I like company, and flirting, and gutter talk, and the odd mashing about of fleshy bits...
but the thought of being "with" someone kinda scares the hell out of me.
man im the exact same way.. got really hurt in my last two relationships, completly screwed me up now about seeing someone again... weird
your young stop giving out you have plenty of time were too old in the teeth to go chasing..
im just joking with you but that life it sucks just happens to the nice ones
im just joking with you but that life it sucks just happens to the nice ones
trouble1: man im the exact same way.. got really hurt in my last two relationships, completly screwed me up now about seeing someone again... weird
everybody hurts....at sometime!..
Mummy: hmmmmmmmmmmmm, and i wonder do all guys kinda think like this!!!!
its pretty comon to be honest... but...if your totally comfortable in your own looks,traits,personality
(tell yourself your you! no more,no less) and just go out...
the proper ones will have to get into your circle... not you advertissing yourself... jmo
areyoureadytogo: i love my freedom now!!
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
adivse is dont leave it too long or you will never want to get to close to someone again
Yip I have to agree with you there you get selfish with your time and space and dont even mention the C word ..... and thats comprimising not comittment
Mummy: everybody hurts....at sometime!..
we`ve all been hurt and caused hurt(unintentional or not)...just go back to your safe place...what ya know... your humour,your clothes,your laughs,your choices...
that american bull! bout.."" go out try something new"" thats all well and good, but prob is we all tend to change a lil in order to fit in this new venture, whether its a course, activity or whateva....
be consistent...consistently you...imo
Mummy: everybody hurts....at sometime!..
thanks
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For me i think its a bit of self confidence....like if someone says i look good, i automatically say no i don't...i can't see what others do i suppose....
just interested to know is all....
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