If You Try & Try But Seems To Be Going Nowhere (55)
sassy49senior: Do you finally give up and just forget about trying?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
Never give up....some are just shy and it takes alittle bit longer...good things are worth waiting for..For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
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sassy49senior: Do you finally give up and just forget about trying?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
I have been here three weeks now and see no hope for me. I gave up not too long ago. I still enjoy the site , emails and the friends I have here. That's Good enough for me.For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
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trulee01: I have been here three weeks now and see no hope for me. I gave up not too long ago. I still enjoy the site , emails and the friends I have here. That's Good enough for me.
Oh my trulee, You are very fresh and new for sure
I have been here off and on for 5 plus years. 
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sassy49senior: Oh my trulee, You are very fresh and new for sure I have been here off and on for 5 plus years.
wow
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i guess i shouldn't give up, i got a long way to go... goodluck people!!
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sassy49senior: Oh my trulee, You are very fresh and new for sure I have been here off and on for 5 plus years.
5 years! If I am here for 5 weeks I will be here for life. I won't be able to leve my friends.------ This thread is Archived ------
plainlyjune: i guess i shouldn't give up, i got a long way to go... goodluck people!!
Maybe we need to pack a lunch? 
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sassy49senior: Do you finally give up and just forget about trying?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
The straight forward approach should be used after all the flirting....just club them in the head and drag them back to the cave...
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mbcasey: The straight forward approach should be used after all the flirting....just club them in the head and drag them back to the cave...
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trulee01: 5 years! If I am here for 5 weeks I will be here for life. I won't be able to leve my friends.
I have many friends here and keep in contact through facebook and e-mails
But have been feeling the need to disappear for awhile.
Still mulling that over in my mind.
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sassy49senior: Do you finally give up and just forget about trying?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?
been there reciently in fact and i have learned long ago yer better off fishing in new waters when yer not getting any bites.often they are not realy interested they are jst trying to be polite or dont know how to say they are not realy interested without offending. and of corse there are some that like to string yea along so they have a back up plan while they are off playing the game. if a person is truely interested he/she will move the relationship along one way or another and if not there are plenty of fish in the sea wich is good for those of us who like fish :D
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that was for mbcasey's comment
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trulee01: Maybe we need to pack a lunch?
np, as long as you get the blankets. nights could be cold
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mbcasey: The straight forward approach should be used after all the flirting....just club them in the head and drag them back to the cave...
Hi Ken
I like that answer Only thing is I would have to fly many miles 
By the time I get to him some cute little gal will already have him in the cave. 
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nazz13: been there reciently in fact and i have learned long ago yer better off fishing in new waters when yer not getting any bites.often they are not realy interested they are jst trying to be polite or dont know how to say they are not realy interested without offending. and of corse there are some that like to string yea along so they have a back up plan while they are off playing the game. if a person is truely interested he/she will move the relationship along one way or another and if not there are plenty of fish in the sea wich is good for those of us who like fish :D
Maybe that is exactly the advice I need to listen to. Thank you nazz.
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You could ask them outright or say you are interested in them and see if they reply with their interest
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plainlyjune: np, as long as you get the blankets. nights could be cold
Don't you worry, I got you covered. ------ This thread is Archived ------
now you got me thinking, spock ears alert
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For instance, if you flirt a little, off and on with him/her and in a nice way, let them know you are interested. You are doing this for weeks, but he/she just continues to answer your flowers and messages, but gives no hint of an interest other than just chat. Do you finally pull in the reins and admit this is never going anywhere?