Morbid people (57)
LusciousLibra: Ok... I've read this whole thread. Why do ppl deny that depression exists? It does. Live with it and help your friends and family to cope.
Depression is not something for which there is a magic cure. Don't even try to argue with me on this one, it's something that I have suffered with for more than half my life.
The friend that the OP is speaking of for sure sounds to me like he is depressed in some measure. That is my non-professional opinion.
People that are suffering from depression do so in many ways. The OP's friend appears to see comfort in death and so be it. So did I. It was something that I craved to experience for a long time.
The day to day life while living with depression is not easy. I could see no possible happy future. In no way could I see myself being here past 25 yrs old, that was when I was really bad and wished not to be here at all. But I am here. There is help out there whether by councelling or by medication or with both
I am medicated. It works for me. It may not work for another.
Councelling can work too, but only if the patient and the professional build up a trust and means of communication. Without that they are both wasting time.
To the OP: Listen to your friend. Do NOT lecture, but steer him towards help if you can. You (and his other friends) are his sounding boards. A big job, but well worth the results. Good luck to you both.
Depression is not something for which there is a magic cure. Don't even try to argue with me on this one, it's something that I have suffered with for more than half my life.
The friend that the OP is speaking of for sure sounds to me like he is depressed in some measure. That is my non-professional opinion.
People that are suffering from depression do so in many ways. The OP's friend appears to see comfort in death and so be it. So did I. It was something that I craved to experience for a long time.
The day to day life while living with depression is not easy. I could see no possible happy future. In no way could I see myself being here past 25 yrs old, that was when I was really bad and wished not to be here at all. But I am here. There is help out there whether by councelling or by medication or with both
I am medicated. It works for me. It may not work for another.
Councelling can work too, but only if the patient and the professional build up a trust and means of communication. Without that they are both wasting time.
To the OP: Listen to your friend. Do NOT lecture, but steer him towards help if you can. You (and his other friends) are his sounding boards. A big job, but well worth the results. Good luck to you both.
Wise words indeed ....
i haven't read the whole tread but you make sense to me...thank you for sharing ...
Good god almighty what a crowd of arseholes here all I wanted to do was talk about my friend and I get everybody arguing, im shaking my head here like mad
LusciousLibra: Ok... I've read this whole thread. Why do ppl deny that depression exists? It does. Live with it and help your friends and family to cope.
Depression is not something for which there is a magic cure. Don't even try to argue with me on this one, it's something that I have suffered with for more than half my life.
The friend that the OP is speaking of for sure sounds to me like he is depressed in some measure. That is my non-professional opinion.
People that are suffering from depression do so in many ways. The OP's friend appears to see comfort in death and so be it. So did I. It was something that I craved to experience for a long time.
The day to day life while living with depression is not easy. I could see no possible happy future. In no way could I see myself being here past 25 yrs old, that was when I was really bad and wished not to be here at all. But I am here. There is help out there whether by councelling or by medication or with both
I am medicated. It works for me. It may not work for another.
Councelling can work too, but only if the patient and the professional build up a trust and means of communication. Without that they are both wasting time.
To the OP: Listen to your friend. Do NOT lecture, but steer him towards help if you can. You (and his other friends) are his sounding boards. A big job, but well worth the results. Good luck to you both.
Depression is not something for which there is a magic cure. Don't even try to argue with me on this one, it's something that I have suffered with for more than half my life.
The friend that the OP is speaking of for sure sounds to me like he is depressed in some measure. That is my non-professional opinion.
People that are suffering from depression do so in many ways. The OP's friend appears to see comfort in death and so be it. So did I. It was something that I craved to experience for a long time.
The day to day life while living with depression is not easy. I could see no possible happy future. In no way could I see myself being here past 25 yrs old, that was when I was really bad and wished not to be here at all. But I am here. There is help out there whether by councelling or by medication or with both
I am medicated. It works for me. It may not work for another.
Councelling can work too, but only if the patient and the professional build up a trust and means of communication. Without that they are both wasting time.
To the OP: Listen to your friend. Do NOT lecture, but steer him towards help if you can. You (and his other friends) are his sounding boards. A big job, but well worth the results. Good luck to you both.
I'm actually just impressed with the amount of time and effort you obviously put into that post.
Made sense and some good advice
blipper2000: you dont care about the thread
you just want to attack me
thats so sad
ya can try and make me out to be a bollix all ya like
people who have met me arent gona chaqnge their opinion of me cause of what you say
im loveable ya see unlike you
as for the palefaces i donrt care what they think
you actually think youre gona make me look bad
im sorry bro its just not gona happen
you just keep on dreamin
you just want to attack me
thats so sad
ya can try and make me out to be a bollix all ya like
people who have met me arent gona chaqnge their opinion of me cause of what you say
im loveable ya see unlike you
as for the palefaces i donrt care what they think
you actually think youre gona make me look bad
im sorry bro its just not gona happen
you just keep on dreamin
i really dont care what youve to say,,, ive made it clear,,,joking about this aint funny,,,thats all ive to say to you
and whats the paleface thing???
what drugs are you on ??
how do you know im not loveble,you dont know me,why are you contradicting yourself?
as ive said,,i dont care about you,,,so im not attacking 'you',
just totally disagree with your attitude on this subject,trying to make you look bad???? what??? in front of your web friends???
sorry im 33,not 13
Alpha01: I'm actually just impressed with the amount of time and effort you obviously put into that post.
Made sense and some good advice
Made sense and some good advice
I keep telling her how incredibly sensua....sensible she is.
FlyMo: Good god almighty what a crowd of arseholes here all I wanted to do was talk about my friend and I get everybody arguing, im shaking my head here like mad
It happens.
No matter what, I hope your friend feels better soon cause there's nothing worse than feeling like there's nothing to live for.
tornado778: you,,,or anyone else in the cs mafia wont shut me up!!!!
dont you dare, who the hell do you think you are??
its not the first time ive seen you tell someone to keep there opinions to themselves here ,,,,,just because i told one of the cs posse what i think of them???
im just waiting for the rest of the troops to fall in now
dont you dare, who the hell do you think you are??
its not the first time ive seen you tell someone to keep there opinions to themselves here ,,,,,just because i told one of the cs posse what i think of them???
im just waiting for the rest of the troops to fall in now
Well, we'll form an orderly queue then will we?
Think about what you are doing before you attack someone, that's all I meant. You have no idea of that persons emotional state. It could be have detrimental effects.
my mum passed suddenly when i was 16 i became very depressed and withdrew everyone and everything, it was a dark time i have a diploma in counselling and psychology from nuig and im currently working on getting my degree in denominated psychology in nuig, from someone who suffered from and studied depression point this guy in the direction of help talk to him and listen carl rogers believed that all a therapist had to do in many cases was listen and keep him active with the right people in his life this guy can make a full recovery.
tornado778: i really dont care what youve to say,,, ive made it clear,,,joking about this aint funny,,,thats all ive to say to you
and whats the paleface thing???
what drugs are you on ??
how do you know im not loveble,you dont know me,why are you contradicting yourself?
as ive said,,i dont care about you,,,so im not attacking 'you',
just totally disagree with your attitude on this subject,trying to make you look bad???? what??? in front of your web friends???
sorry im 33,not 13
well you care enough to post after me and ramble on thereand whats the paleface thing???
what drugs are you on ??
how do you know im not loveble,you dont know me,why are you contradicting yourself?
as ive said,,i dont care about you,,,so im not attacking 'you',
just totally disagree with your attitude on this subject,trying to make you look bad???? what??? in front of your web friends???
sorry im 33,not 13
of course you care and are interested in what i have to say
i certainly never post after you
well youre not much loved on here
you know it
i know it
cant we be pals
i yearn to be loved
LusciousLibra: Well, we'll form an orderly queue then will we?
Think about what you are doing before you attack someone, that's all I meant. You have no idea of that persons emotional state. It could be have detrimental effects.
funny that,,, was sure i read that you 'read the whole thread'Think about what you are doing before you attack someone, that's all I meant. You have no idea of that persons emotional state. It could be have detrimental effects.
tornado778: funny that,,, was sure i read that you 'read the whole thread'
How exactly is that relevant to your aggression?
galwaydave: my mum passed suddenly when i was 16 i became very depressed and withdrew everyone and everything, it was a dark time i have a diploma in counselling and psychology from nuig and im currently working on getting my degree in denominated psychology in nuig, from someone who suffered from and studied depression point this guy in the direction of help talk to him and listen carl rogers believed that all a therapist had to do in many cases was listen and keep him active with the right people in his life this guy can make a full recovery.
I agree with u 100% depression is an awful this to try and cope with, and I am another person who knows first hand what that feels like.
Fair play to ya for turning it into something positive in ur life and best of luck with the degree x
LusciousLibra: Well, we'll form an orderly queue then will we?
Think about what you are doing before you attack someone, that's all I meant. You have no idea of that persons emotional state. It could be have detrimental effects.
Think about what you are doing before you attack someone, that's all I meant. You have no idea of that persons emotional state. It could be have detrimental effects.
no need to queue,,im sure ye'll all make room for eachother,,
im still waiting to see where i "attacked" anyone....
jeez ,,all so touchy,,
and no,,ive no idea of that persons emotional state,,,never claimed to,,,dunno what your point is there,,,,
i was just trying to advice the chap,until comments like,he was attention seeking,and get him to eat rubarb or something riled me,,
so you just keep repyling and informing me of all my mental issues,,,
when i get up in the morning,ill read up
in the meatime,,, enjoy you night
galwaydave: he is lucky he has you im sorry to hear about your mum it takes time it wont be next week or even next year but someday you begin to feel happier that you had them than sad they were taken away. i see every now and then my little brother who wouldnt remember her looks at the ground when mothers day adverts are on tv breaks my heart.
man thats bad for your brother least you are big enough to deal with that, with me her death if anything has made me stronger if that makes sense in a strange way
I feel like I can cope with anything but I also think its because I`m so numb from the whole thing like I dont what happens kinda scary an allblipper2000: theres the difference right there
i do care what peeps think
i like to get on with people
it makes for a nice night out
i see ya didnt bring up my comment about you posting after me and why i never do
you hate me
im indifferent to you
i dont dislike you
i feel sorry for hatefull people
i dont hate anyone
anyway why dont ya stop posting after me ?????????????
are ya getin a bit obsessed with me there or what
thats not healthy my furry friend
p.s. im no darksider so stop tryin to engage me on the forums
its embarassing
jeez man,,, i dont hate you,,,i do care what peeps think
i like to get on with people
it makes for a nice night out
i see ya didnt bring up my comment about you posting after me and why i never do
you hate me
im indifferent to you
i dont dislike you
i feel sorry for hatefull people
i dont hate anyone
anyway why dont ya stop posting after me ?????????????
are ya getin a bit obsessed with me there or what
thats not healthy my furry friend
p.s. im no darksider so stop tryin to engage me on the forums
its embarassing
i dont hate anyone,,,
i just totally disagree with you.,.here
whats embarrassing???
ppl on the cs forums not liking me???
go to the int forums,theres many a one bout the irish forums and how rubbish the are,,,
although i have met lovely ppl on this site,,,
the forums are full of morons
In response to: I have a friend of a few years and all he does is talk about death, today he said he had to attend a funeral which is no harm but everything around him centres with death, just out of the blue today he said to me he would be better off dead
What is wrong with him?
What is wrong with him?
Does he talk about death with just you or does he talk about it with everyone...Because maybe he's taking the piss out of you cos he knows that you'll do something stupid like come on to an internet forum and discuss it with strangers and maybe he gets a sick kick out of that thought...
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Depression is not something for which there is a magic cure. Don't even try to argue with me on this one, it's something that I have suffered with for more than half my life.
The friend that the OP is speaking of for sure sounds to me like he is depressed in some measure. That is my non-professional opinion.
People that are suffering from depression do so in many ways. The OP's friend appears to see comfort in death and so be it. So did I. It was something that I craved to experience for a long time.
The day to day life while living with depression is not easy. I could see no possible happy future. In no way could I see myself being here past 25 yrs old, that was when I was really bad and wished not to be here at all. But I am here. There is help out there whether by councelling or by medication or with both
I am medicated. It works for me. It may not work for another.
Councelling can work too, but only if the patient and the professional build up a trust and means of communication. Without that they are both wasting time.
To the OP: Listen to your friend. Do NOT lecture, but steer him towards help if you can. You (and his other friends) are his sounding boards. A big job, but well worth the results. Good luck to you both.