Filling empty moments (22)
heyI have 3 wonderful (when there is no full moon) children to keep me occupied.
But i like to post on the forums and chat with friends,I need that adult type company
I remember finding myself alone .. couldnt really find anything to fill that void no matter what I tried .. people told me they knew what I was going through but I didnt really believe them .. not exactly what I wass going through anyway .. and they kept telling me it would get easier .. which it did after some time ..
I wish you well ..
I wish you well ..
JayTecit: Hello everybody,
I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
Hi Jay - I find it best to keep myself busy, have you any interests to keep you occupied?
JayTecit: Hello everybody,
I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
hi bud .first thing off the pity pot , get some interests even if its social networking ,your never alone on CS and if the worse comes to the worse you can always listen to the leisuremans jukebox I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
MayAzalea: Hi Jay - I find it best to keep myself busy, have you any interests to keep you occupied?
come and join in the forums too - it all helps to pass the time
That is what I am missing. I have a little boy of 15 months old and he is my whole world. I love him dearly but being a babysitter while his mum goes out isn't making my life complete to say the least. I'm forgetting how to laugh like an adult. I don't want to sound all full of doom cos ultimately i'm an optimist, just an optimist thats reached the bottom of the glass and is looking for a top-up 
Thanks for posting
Thanks for postingThanks for your hope filled words And thanks for posting
And thanks for postingHi there, yep I have plenty of things that I do to occupy myself but these really are just time fillers. I guess what I was really asking is, how do you get out there and socialise with other people when you are on your own? I'm not terribly lacking in confidence but I feel like a freak being out in social situations on my own!
Thanks for your post
Thanks for your post
JayTecit: Hi there, yep I have plenty of things that I do to occupy myself but these really are just time fillers. I guess what I was really asking is, how do you get out there and socialise with other people when you are on your own? I'm not terribly lacking in confidence but I feel like a freak being out in social situations on my own!
Thanks for your post
Thanks for your post
a couple of male friends that I could go get a beer with helped me .. do you have anyone like that?
JayTecit: Ok, I'm networking now! And I may even give a listen to the leisuremans jukebox too!
Thanks for posting
tip , click on the op`s response (quote)so we know who you are responding tooThanks for posting
rytcharlie: a couple of male friends that I could go get a beer with helped me .. do you have anyone like that?
Very very rarely and no single friends at all. I have to confess, I was one of those fools that became all consumed with my relationship and became detached from friends and family. Oh sweet regret!!
JayTecit: Very very rarely and no single friends at all. I have to confess, I was one of those fools that became all consumed with my relationship and became detached from friends and family. Oh sweet regret!!
I'd think it was a great time to catch up on those long lost folks I'd been neglecting then maybe ... and I'd also meet some new ones - perhaps through volunteering in a local charity shop that helps the starving in the third world .. putting all that empty time to good use .. the fact is the world is so screwed up that we really don't have time for empty moments ..
I'd also readjust my thinking about being a babysitter .. you're not a babysitter .. you're the lads father .. his only father .. and he needs you.
I wish you well ..
rytcharlie: I'd think it was a great time to catch up on those long lost folks I'd been neglecting then maybe ... and I'd also meet some new ones - perhaps through volunteering in a local charity shop that helps the starving in the third world .. putting all that empty time to good use .. the fact is the world is so screwed up that we really don't have time for empty moments ..
I'd also readjust my thinking about being a babysitter .. you're not a babysitter .. you're the lads father .. his only father .. and he needs you.
I wish you well ..
I'd also readjust my thinking about being a babysitter .. you're not a babysitter .. you're the lads father .. his only father .. and he needs you.
I wish you well ..
Cheers man
Hi & 
Jay.
I have been single for ( god that long i've forgotten
) but several years.
I entertain myself ( in my free time ) by travelling to different places. In the last 10 or so years i've visited 32 different countries & i'm no millionaire. Usually Ryanair or Easyjet carry me there. Not everyone's
i know but how do you feel about a little travel. 
Jay.I have been single for ( god that long i've forgotten
) but several years.I entertain myself ( in my free time ) by travelling to different places. In the last 10 or so years i've visited 32 different countries & i'm no millionaire. Usually Ryanair or Easyjet carry me there. Not everyone's
i know but how do you feel about a little travel. 
JayTecit: Hello everybody,
I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
Hmm, will have to go away and ponder this one I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay
Never feels happy throughout the day 
counting my sheep keeps me busy
wittyone: counting my sheep keeps me busy
I think he meant what keeps you busy during your waking hours, not whilst you were trying to get to sleep 
Zellarrone1: I think he meant what keeps you busy during your waking hours, not whilst you were trying to get to sleep
Yep knew that still counting my sheep, 24/7.
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I have recently found myself single and spending the majority of my time alone. I find plenty of things to do that fill my time but most are menial or ultimately unfulfilling.
So what does everyone do to keep themselves going? How do you socialise when you are on your own?
Please post any advice or just let me know what makes you feel happy throughout your day.
Thank you all in advance
Jay