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Jul 28, 2010 8:03 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you,
you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other... frustrated dunno
Anyone else experience this?
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Jul 28, 2010 8:05 PM CST Why is it.....
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
snowbunnie4U: those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you,
you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other...
Anyone else experience this?



Yes i agree entirely with you hug
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Jul 28, 2010 8:07 PM CST Why is it.....
Faithfulness
FaithfulnessFaithfulnessWaukesha, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 1,056 Posts
snowbunnie4U: those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you,
you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other...
Anyone else experience this?


Yes I have experienced this...
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Jul 28, 2010 8:08 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
darren9030: Yes i agree entirely with you


I would really love some feedback...grin
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Jul 28, 2010 8:12 PM CST Why is it.....
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
snowbunnie4U: I would really love some feedback...



OK will pop & see you next week if i can get a flight & have a chat with you wave

tip hat
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Jul 28, 2010 8:21 PM CST Why is it.....
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
I was into...but now don't believe in a perfect match...wink
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Jul 28, 2010 8:25 PM CST Why is it.....
Shooter700
Shooter700Shooter700somewhere, Maryland USA20 Threads 276 Posts
I am not into any of the women on this site..... lets see if reverse psychology actually works.....
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Jul 28, 2010 8:26 PM CST Why is it.....
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Hello Pretty SnowBunnie
We need to make a raffle and give everyone like 2 or 3 oportunities to be chosen or to choose a match, just a match.The problem is how to do it without being careless.

conversing


hug
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Jul 28, 2010 8:49 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
lifeisadream: Hello Pretty SnowBunnie
We need to make a raffle and give everyone like 2 or 3 oportunities to be chosen or to choose a match, just a match.The problem is how to do it without being careless.


True dat! But, these matches are soooooo rarehelp
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Jul 28, 2010 8:53 PM CST Why is it.....
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it outdunno
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Jul 28, 2010 9:25 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
demonfairy: yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it out


Well when we were younger I think we probalby paid too much attention to looks, and accepted ppl into our lives we shouldn't have. Now we want a real connection, and those seem harder to find than Bin Ladden...hole moping dunno
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Jul 28, 2010 9:32 PM CST Why is it.....
checkimout
checkimoutcheckimoutFramingham, Massachusetts USA5 Posts
I think that many of the people without matches have no one because of they themselves! They have personality problems and relating issues. The plethora of available matches onsite makes one callous and unable to stick with one person long enough to know them, and previous bad dates harden one to being able to see the good in the new person. It's almost like each date we expect to be a failure, and then make it happen.
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Jul 28, 2010 9:33 PM CST Why is it.....
checkimout
checkimoutcheckimoutFramingham, Massachusetts USA5 Posts
Bin here-- you were looking for me?
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Jul 28, 2010 9:34 PM CST Why is it.....
checkimout
checkimoutcheckimoutFramingham, Massachusetts USA5 Posts
I disagree -- I think NOW that we don't look as good, we get rejected because of that!
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Jul 28, 2010 9:35 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
checkimout: Bin here-- you were looking for me?


Ha Ha laugh

But, I was saying that oftentimes when u connect with that illusive match...they are not as eager about you, and visa versa...That is what I meant.
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Jul 28, 2010 9:38 PM CST Why is it.....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it out


Or maybe be have grown more aware of what we want, and so have become more selective? hug
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Jul 28, 2010 9:43 PM CST Why is it.....
bittersweet28467
bittersweet28467bittersweet28467Calabash, North Carolina USA18 Threads 2 Polls 467 Posts
Murphy's Law danceline
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Jul 28, 2010 9:45 PM CST Why is it.....
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
checkimout: I disagree -- I think NOW that we don't look as good, we get rejected because of that!


Well u still look good from your 2 photos from what i can see...so what is up with that then?dunno grin
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Jul 28, 2010 9:49 PM CST Why is it.....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
There's always that "fatal flaw", and if you look really hard, you'll always find it. laugh


wave
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Jul 29, 2010 3:08 AM CST Why is it.....
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
snowbunnie4U: Well when we were younger I think we probalby paid too much attention to looks, and accepted ppl into our lives we shouldn't have. Now we want a real connection, and those seem harder to find than Bin Ladden...


Yes I agree with you, and with Venus Envy re: becoming more selective!!! Thing is, I'd rather be alone (and happy) than settle for a relationship and be unhappy.... hug
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