those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you, you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other... Anyone else experience this?
snowbunnie4U: those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you, you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other... Anyone else experience this?
snowbunnie4U: those you are really into and match so well, are not as eager to get to know you? Those who are really into you, you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other... Anyone else experience this?
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Hello Pretty SnowBunnie We need to make a raffle and give everyone like 2 or 3 oportunities to be chosen or to choose a match, just a match.The problem is how to do it without being careless.
lifeisadream: Hello Pretty SnowBunnie We need to make a raffle and give everyone like 2 or 3 oportunities to be chosen or to choose a match, just a match.The problem is how to do it without being careless.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it out
demonfairy: yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it out
Well when we were younger I think we probalby paid too much attention to looks, and accepted ppl into our lives we shouldn't have. Now we want a real connection, and those seem harder to find than Bin Ladden...
I think that many of the people without matches have no one because of they themselves! They have personality problems and relating issues. The plethora of available matches onsite makes one callous and unable to stick with one person long enough to know them, and previous bad dates harden one to being able to see the good in the new person. It's almost like each date we expect to be a failure, and then make it happen.
demonfairy: yes kind of makes a person wonder if we have hardened inside a bit with age,seems like love came easy,now that spark doesn't seem to be any where...guess it just takes meeting the right person to bring it out
Or maybe be have grown more aware of what we want, and so have become more selective?
leostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa1,685 posts
snowbunnie4U: Well when we were younger I think we probalby paid too much attention to looks, and accepted ppl into our lives we shouldn't have. Now we want a real connection, and those seem harder to find than Bin Ladden...
Yes I agree with you, and with Venus Envy re: becoming more selective!!! Thing is, I'd rather be alone (and happy) than settle for a relationship and be unhappy....
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you are not as eager to get to know them? It seems so rare to really connect with someone on all levels, and feel mutually about each other...
Anyone else experience this?