Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman? ( Archived) (22)

Aug 9, 2010 5:43 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
If so what are they? Or is love just love?
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Aug 9, 2010 6:34 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
benhur
benhurbenhurmichigan,newbaltimore, Michigan USA131 Threads 7 Polls 630 Posts
90 degrees of attachments with agreements,
clicks
prince
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Aug 9, 2010 6:43 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
dunno if these can be qualified to be called love:
there's
love=talking to you, you're a good companion
love=i'm loyal, you're my one and only,
love=i care about you and what happens to you,
love=i respect your decisions
love=i only care about the now, who cares where you've been or where you're going
love=i'm yours, you can have your way with me
love=you're always on my mind, no matter where you are


and i'm obviously confused doh frustrated
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Aug 9, 2010 6:45 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
being obsessed with some one must me a certain degree of love
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Aug 9, 2010 6:46 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
benhur
benhurbenhurmichigan,newbaltimore, Michigan USA131 Threads 7 Polls 630 Posts
plainlyjune: dunno if these can be qualified to be called love:
there's
love=talking to you, you're a good companion
love=i'm loyal, you're my one and only,
love=i care about you and what happens to you,
love=i respect your decisions
love=i only care about the now, who cares where you've been or where you're going
love=i'm yours, you can have your way with me
love=you're always on my mind, no matter where you areand i'm obviously confused

confusion ...one kind of fusion,
love always high without the sign.
clicks
prince
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Aug 9, 2010 6:46 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
plainlyjune: dunno if these can be qualified to be called love:
there's
love=talking to you, you're a good companion
love=i'm loyal, you're my one and only,
love=i care about you and what happens to you,
love=i respect your decisions
love=i only care about the now, who cares where you've been or where you're going
love=i'm yours, you can have your way with me
love=you're always on my mind, no matter where you areand i'm obviously confused
laugh laugh laugh wave
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Aug 9, 2010 6:46 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
that too.
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Aug 9, 2010 6:48 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
benhur: confusion ...one kind of fusion,
love always high without the sign.
clicks
prince


uhm, i dont speak in tongues

or maybe i do
blahbeliiblagaliblablughtiiuh oh
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Aug 9, 2010 6:50 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
benhur
benhurbenhurmichigan,newbaltimore, Michigan USA131 Threads 7 Polls 630 Posts
plainlyjune: uhm, i dont speak in tongues

or maybe i do
blahbeliiblagaliblablughtii

this is love.......when hearts meet there languge is silence or simon.
clicks....
prince
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Aug 9, 2010 6:58 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
I think there are varying degrees of love, however, I'd find it a little difficult to quantify them.wave
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Aug 9, 2010 7:04 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
I think there is. I can love many different people for various reasons. Every partner I've had..I've loved but it changes with each one.
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Aug 9, 2010 7:07 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
nanners2863: I think there is. I can love many different people for various reasons. Every partner I've had..I've loved but it changes with each one.

So you have loved each one differently? Therefore to varing degrees?daydream
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Aug 9, 2010 8:25 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
joyannie: So you have loved each one differently? Therefore to varing degrees?
I have. I believe as we get older, wiser and grow we re-define who we are and what love is to us. The boy I dated in my 20's, I loved, but in my late 30's I wouldn't. As we evolve so does love.
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Aug 9, 2010 9:07 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
nanners2863: I have. I believe as we get older, wiser and grow we re-define who we are and what love is to us. The boy I dated in my 20's, I loved, but in my late 30's I wouldn't. As we evolve so does love.
So with experience having loved more than one person, our capacity to love changes. Possibly the way we love does too. But should it really be characterized as degrees of love? dunno wave
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Aug 9, 2010 9:12 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
joyannie: So with experience having loved more than one person, our capacity to love changes. Possibly the way we love does too. But should it really be characterized as degrees of love?
Hmmm..not sure. I do know that I love my friends and family but if I had to choose which one I loved more..it would be family. We are capable of loving many things in different ways. I love my friends kids but love my own on a higher degree. I love my dog but not as much as my kids etc. dunno
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Aug 9, 2010 9:20 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
Blues63: I think there are varying degrees of love, however, I'd find it a little difficult to quantify them.


Why do you think this is such a hard subject to quantify? Please understand I find it very difficult, as well.confused hmmm

When is love just love?
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Aug 9, 2010 9:26 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
joyannie: Why do you think this is such a hard subject to quantify? Please understand I find it very difficult, as well.

When is love just love?

It can never be "just love" because there is no such thing. Love is like any emotion and changes in degrees for that who we feel the emotion for. You can love in different degrees, hate in different degrees, be sad in different degrees. It's all in our experiences that depend on which degree we feel anything.



My brain hurts now..blues
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Aug 9, 2010 9:31 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
nanners2863: Hmmm..not sure. I do know that I love my friends and family but if I had to choose which one I loved more..it would be family. We are capable of loving many things in different ways. I love my friends kids but love my own on a higher degree. I love my dog but not as much as my kids etc.

I understand what you are saying regarding family love, parental love etc. But in regard to degrees of love between a man and a woman this is harder to explain. When is love just love? teddybear
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Aug 9, 2010 9:34 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
joyannie: I understand what you are saying regarding family love, parental love etc. But in regard to degrees of love between a man and a woman this is harder to explain. When is love just love?
I don't know..I'm so confused now..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 9, 2010 9:39 PM CST Are there varing degrees of being in love in a relationship between a man and a woman?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
nanners2863: It can never be "just love" because there is no such thing. Love is like any emotion and changes in degrees for that who we feel the emotion for. You can love in different degrees, hate in different degrees, be sad in different degrees. It's all in our experiences that depend on which degree we feel anything.
My brain hurts now..
laugh laugh I like your example about feeling sad to different degrees. That made sense!
But using the idea of degrees for love seems to be a form of rating. Or a disclaimer of sorts. hmmm
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