DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS??? ( Archived) (34)

Aug 14, 2010 10:19 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
I SAY IAM ONE OF THOSE VERY HONEST PERSON,IM NOT ASHAMED OF WHAT IAM,I DONT TRY TO PRETEND EITHER,WHY SOME FRIENDS ALWAYS TELLS ME,IM JUST TOO GOOD TO BE THEIR FRIENDconfusedIAM ALWAYS TAKEN ADVANTAGE BUT IM STILL GOOD TO THEMconfusedwell,guess just have to take my computer as my best friend then grin grin
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Aug 14, 2010 10:23 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jaguarlover666
jaguarlover666jaguarlover666Santa Fe, New Mexico USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Why is it always about you? Just be dear one and the rest will pass.applause
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Aug 14, 2010 10:24 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
you can never be to nice to people and theres always a kind way to be honest,a person doesn't have to hurt someones feelings to get a point across.wave
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Aug 14, 2010 10:27 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
demonfairy: you can never be to nice to people and theres always a kind way to be honest,a person doesn't have to hurt someones feelings to get a point across.
just had to do that today- damn it feels horrible frustrated
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Aug 14, 2010 10:30 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
ybfayl: just had to do that today- damn it feels horrible
Every now and then you get someone who just want listen or take no for a answer...i hate those times..
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Aug 14, 2010 10:39 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
demonfairy: Every now and then you get someone who just want listen or take no for a answer...i hate those times..

thanks a lot DF,i post this cos im just confusedconfused
i thought being honest is a part of good manners,,,guess i need to learn how to pretend and liar ehgrin grin grin
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Aug 14, 2010 10:42 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
jaguarlover666: Why is it always about you? Just be dear one and the rest will pass.
conversing

sory dear if i offend you on my posting all the time about meconfused you dont have to comment if you dont want toodoh thank yousad flower
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Aug 14, 2010 10:46 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
jeddah12: thanks a lot DF,i post this cos im just confused
i thought being honest is a part of good manners,,,guess i need to learn how to pretend and liar eh
No you don't have to pretend and lie...just be truthful in a gentle way,or say nothing at all,or some thing come up,sry i have other plans...you get my meaning
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Aug 14, 2010 10:51 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
demonfairy: No you don't have to pretend and lie...just be truthful in a gentle way,or say nothing at all,or some thing come up,sry i have other plans...you get my meaning
If honesty hurts them, were they ever really your friend? A friend is the very person you should expect the truth from, good,bad or indifferent.A real friend will always be there for you and will be honest when it matters....JMOgrin cheers
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Aug 14, 2010 10:52 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
demonfairy: No you don't have to pretend and lie...just be truthful in a gentle way,or say nothing at all,or some thing come up,sry i have other plans...you get my meaning


got it DF,thanks im learning from theekiss handshake
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Aug 14, 2010 10:53 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
patmac: If honesty hurts them, were they ever really your friend? A friend is the very person you should expect the truth from, good,bad or indifferent.A real friend will always be there for you and will be honest when it matters....JMO


handshake be my friend patmanhandshake teddybear thanks
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Aug 14, 2010 10:57 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
patmac: If honesty hurts them, were they ever really your friend? A friend is the very person you should expect the truth from, good,bad or indifferent.A real friend will always be there for you and will be honest when it matters....JMO
You know that alot of the time people don't really want to hear the truth,some think they do till they hear it...I stand on the 5th admentment..rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 14, 2010 11:00 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
gardenhackle
gardenhacklegardenhackleStratford, Connecticut USA55 Threads 9 Polls 2,067 Posts
Who can say why people are what they are. Honesty is a good thing when you hear "you're too good for them", then take their word for it. No one knows better than they do. bouquet
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Aug 14, 2010 11:00 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
magsx
magsxmagsxLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland6 Threads 431 Posts
demonfairy: You know that alot of the time people don't really want to hear the truth,some think they do till they hear it...I stand on the 5th admentment..


A good friend can tell you what is the matter with you in a minute. He may not seem such a good friend after telling!!!!grin
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Aug 14, 2010 11:02 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
Honesty is the prerequisite condition to keep a relation exist and last as long as we want, then always being honest is the good character to be maintained through all you life.
In your case, why you dont ask directly your friend that you want from him more than a friendship, can we be lovers, LOL, grin and listen his answer, when u get it, tell me, i will hv the next advice ?bouquet hug
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Aug 14, 2010 11:03 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
demonfairy: You know that alot of the time people don't really want to hear the truth,some think they do till they hear it...I stand on the 5th admentment..
thumbs up I agree DF. Besides what one says is usually an opinion. It is about what you feel and not necessarily what they want to hear. They may not believe your opinion to be true. So unless they are asking which shoes should they wear, I would say...well how do you feel about it? And just mirror back what they say.wave
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Aug 14, 2010 11:06 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
DF...our friends are still away. Some people are not playing by the rules!!!!! Even though they are the giving them.
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Aug 14, 2010 11:07 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Christmas1: I agree DF. Besides what one says is usually an opinion. It is about what you feel and not necessarily what they want to hear. They may not believe your opinion to be true. So unless they are asking which shoes should they wear, I would say...well how do you feel about it? And just mirror back what they say.
Yes like does this dress make my butte look big...well what do you think...looks ok to me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 14, 2010 11:09 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Christmas1: DF...our friends are still away. Some people are not playing by the rules!!!!! Even though they are the giving them.
Why don't they let them out,its been two weeks or more.Have they e-mailed cs and askeddunno
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Aug 14, 2010 11:22 PM CST DOES BEING HONEST MAKES US LOST FRIENDS???
jeddah12
jeddah12jeddah12singapore, Central Singapore Singapore16 Threads 133 Posts
gardenhackle: Who can say why people are what they are. Honesty is a good thing when you hear "you're too good for them", then take their word for it. No one knows better than they do.


thanks gardenhacklewine i take note on thatcheers
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